Do People Need A Refresher On What Sex Is?

Do People Need A Refresher On What Sex Is?
These days people dirty talk, sext through text or video and call that video sex... Umm have you forgotten what sex "means"?
requires personal contact
requires personal contact
Anything else is just Masturbation. And unlike sex, masturbation doesn't "require" a partner. I'm sorry but I rather have sex than masturbate with a stranger...
Do People Need A Refresher On What Sex Is?
Do People Need A Refresher On What Sex Is?
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  • "rather have sex than masturbate with a stranger..."
    So... you rather have sex.. with a stranger
    Lol I'm sorry couldn't resist

    When I first started being sexual I started with give me books first and that led to masturbation But afterwards I preferred video texting chatting phone sex it's safe and a great way to get started there is no reason to rush into having physical sex. I stayed a virgin well past the 20 age group.
    There are way too many creepy and nasty people out there and STDS So physical verbal and mental sexual stimulation is good to start with and then if the person is right trustworthy and worthy of your body move on to the real act.
    Hey people are still procreating naturally teen pregnancies and single adult mother pregnancies are still out there so sex does still exist.
    Don't worry humans are not at risk of going extinct because we have forgotten how to use our genitalia... We
    may go extinct though due to politics Coronavirus pollution or in any other number of self-destructing habits we have...

    • No, I rather have sex within a committed relationship rather than show that part of myself to just anyone whether in person or online... I don't do sexual acts with strangers period! I'm that person that still believes those acts are meant to be between two people in a loving relationship and not just to any Tom, Dick, or Harry. People are way too casual about sex and showing their bodies to just anyone... To each their own... I just personally feel my body isn't something I'll share with just anyone... Not would I want a partner who does that...

    • I'd rather have sex.. I want to please the woman... Honestly!!!

    • @lookn4u77 that's good

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  • I did once tbh and here as well 🙈 I went out for a walk and slipped and hurt my back couldn't move for 15 mins and was in agony when I got home. Didn't have any paracetamol and next best thing was pleasure, so gave messaging/video a go and I'm pretty sure he enjoyed it a lot more than me, but just started thinking this is stupid and not giving me what I need.

    As for what I think of sex any kind of two people interaction either via oral, sex or anal. And if I had a choice sex reigns suprime over masturbation every time... Almost everytime there's been a couple of bad times out there

    • Yeah I'm not being judgmental.. Just don't get why people think it's real.. Or can replace the real thing... It just doesn't do anything for me unless it's someone I know, and we can really do what we say we're gonna, and not months or years later

    • Yeah definitely understand that a secret whisper in passing is 10* better than video chat if followed up of course lol as for an actual refresher on sex I believe I do its been a couple of years now 😅 anyhow thanks for the mho

Most Helpful Guys

  • Believe me no one chooses phone sex (masturbation) over real sex so the refresher isn't necessary.

    Problem is with the way things are many people aren't seeing other people in person and are left with just their phone all day.

    On gag for example everyone is from somewhere around the world the chances of meeting and connecting with someone close are very low. But sometimes it does happen, we meet and connect with someone here and are left with either sexting or dreaming of better days.

    Sexting doesn't fill the need of sex but that's not it's point, it's just an elaborate way to masturbate with someone which is slightly more thrilling than masturbating alone.

  • "I'm the type that wants romantic kisses, tight hugs, dirty talk and lots of naughty sex."
    I want to pleasure each other all over with lips and tongues. I want to run my hands over soft, smooth female skin and grasp handfuls of female flesh. I want full, slippery cum and sweat covered body contact with a passionate woman. I want to see and feel her explode in orgasm.
    Is any of that similar to looking at images and jerking off? I think not.
    Virtual sex is a poor substitute for the real thing.

    • Okay lol jumping in cold shower now 🤣🤣 I agree 💯 there... "Ahh Sex is wasted on the youth"🤣🤣(do you know what movie that line is from)

    • No I don't. Tell me. I love movie quotes.

    • It's a wonderful life

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  • And even that is a pretty limited definition of sex! My own definition would likely run several paragraphs...

    • But I'm a prude cuz I'd rather have real dick then internet dick... Yeah okay 🙄🤣 people these days... Youth is wasted on the wrong people

    • Hahahaha. The difference is: you have enough experience to know what a HUGE difference there is. Not everyone does. Plus, Internet dick doesn't come with kisses and nipple sucking and all the other fun stuff either...

    • Exactly and that's bad enough... But also you don't know who's internet dick that really is... a lot of people sexting are really in relationships or at the least fucking other people in real life but sexting others online.. No just no

  • You've given a definition of sexual INTERCOURSE, not sex. Anal SEX and oral SEX are sex acts, as well.

    • The whole point is real sex verses video sexting, masturbation... The rest thought people should be able to figure out on there own 🤷🏼‍♀️

  • I don't, but it helps when i talk to someone about sex and i get super super hornier that i cumm fast by talking about it.

    • I get that... Just do that by phone or video with an internet stranger, I just can't do that... Prefer to just rub one out reading a hot book or got sex video then... I don't know if that stranger I'd someone else's boyfriend/husband, a stalker a rapist, etc, etc...

    • Ya... i get what you mean. I only would talk to someone i know not just some stranger i don't know anything about.

    • Yeah but even if talk for months, but never met in person, how do you really know? I know someone IRL who duped many females online by portraying to be something he's really not IRL, maybe why the only Relationships he can keep are the Online only ones and never the IRL ones

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  • I agree, I'm sick of guys who've never even touched a vagina telling me they can give me mind blowing orgasms or they can last for 2 hours straight.

    • 🤣🤣 omg right... The only way sexting is hot for me is if I've actually"had" sex with that person and I "know" they can back up what they saying, and they can back it up "in person"... Talk is cheap... Put your money, wait scratch that, put your mouth 🤣🤣🤣

  • I think so. We have so many other activities that people call sex but really isn't (like BDSM for example). Some activities can include sex though but don't have to. To me sex is basically things like fingering, oral, anal, intercourse, humping, etc. But if for example you take a hand held dildo or vibrator and penetrate it inside someone I would then say that isn't actual sex, since there isn't actually any touching from the other person. If it's something like a strap on or finger dildo, then yes that would be sex. I'm not so sure if something like sucking toes would be sex or not (I think this is a hard one since it goes into fetish play). But I'll just leave you here with this much. I could go on and on I'm sure, but I won't let myself do that. lol

    • It's still real interaction verses video with strangers tho

    • yeah. If it's over internet I don't think it counts either.

    • Exactly

  • its been 28 years so yeah are you offering?

    XD
    XD
    • 🤣🤣 yeah I'm not a sex instructor 🤣Whatever you sent ain't popping up 🤷🏼‍♀️

    • to bad i was hoping to see if i still had what it takes after all these years XD

    • You can still do that lololol just find you a lady 🙂

  • Great pics and comments... perhaps a refresher for some is best!

    • Right!

  • @brainsbeforebeauty Definitely, sometimes, maybe.
    But what about times when some RARE, and probably unusual, kind of guy, just wants to share some time, getting to know her, and never have any intentions, or desires, for sex, that night, that time, but just rather her, relaxing, and not being afraid of something more, some ploy, some 'trick' for him to have sex with her?
    Not that she isn't AMAZING, and beautiful, but why can't there just be something like a really wonderful, mutually fulfilling 'date' kind of thing, just being together, without her thinking he just wants sex?
    What is so strange, and so unusual, with just wanting to share something, together, like a great restaurant, or a movie, or even just a Farmer's Market, buying great produce?
    Does every interaction, between men and women need to be sexual?
    Damn, I'm not answering the EXACT question, AGAIN!! Can you forgive me, thinking beyond? :)

    • Didn't Say it needed to be... But this is more why do people do things of a sexual nature, like masturbating on video with people they don't know (bad enough in my opinion) and call it sex. I'm old school, save any dirty talk, anything of a sexual nature for a partner

  • I think that's a fair statement.

    • Thanks 🙂

  • I think that the virtual aspect has it time and place, it is just words after all and if they help a person to achieve something then there really is no harm.

    Sexting can only achieve so much though, nothing makes up for the real intimacy of bodies colliding, our senses all need to be stimulated as they all are part of the process. The feel, the smells and tastes etc.

    I have had the pleasure of speaking to one or two people during lockdown that ended up in some rather detailed messaging, it served a purpose and was enjoyable. Just a different feeling instead of watching porn.

    Sure, you don't know who is on the other end really but it is not that hard to tell when reading how they write, when they like everything you like or go into it too quickly.

    However, it isn't sex. Real sex needs real people together, penetration etc.

    • I'm just old school and keep anything of a sexual nature for people I'm involved with. And you don't know if the people on the other end our in a relationship or married. People these days are sexting online while their partners at work or sleeping. It's like it's okay cuz it's online when it's not.

    • True. It also depends on the openness of the relationships

    • I don't believe in open relationships for myself. What's the point then if a relationship? Why not stay single to mingle if you can't be satisfied with it h one sexual partner... And most people doing that online, their partner don't know they doing that

  • I just need some pointers 😂😂😂
    I've never done it yet 😂😂😂
    Whenever I get there I might have to ask the question "so how does sex actually work?" 😂😂😂

    • ", insert penis into vagina"🤣🤣🤣

    • Oh so that's where it goes!!! That clears up a lot of things 🤔

    • Lolol well it can go "other" places 🤣

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  • I liked your question and gave it a "thumbs up."
    I just wanted to add that masturbation to a stranger is so easy. Chaturbate, as well as other Webcam girls, are available 24/7.

    • If that floats someone's boat... I'll never be"that desperate

  • you're very forward aren't you 🥴 do you do this to all your love interests then?

    • Do what?

    • give them a refresher obviously

    • Sorry, didn't know... the "all" threw me off.. Cuz I'm more a one man women... But for that one man, I'd give him as many "refreshers" as he needs 🙂🙂

  • Oh please do not let me start on anything these days kids do. Yes! I call them kids all the dating apps, the ''dirty talk'' the pictures and all this modern pathetic desperation for attention and affection. They don't know what sex is anymore , they ruined it for them selves and they don't see it, it used to a passionate intimate sensation between 2 people and all what it is now a game, a fucking game, they don't even know how to communicate and talk face to face

    • You're so right there. But it's not just kids.. It's people in their 30's to 40's doing it too... Seems to be so many doing this these days, even people already in relationships. Like why would you risk losing a "real" person, for a stranger online... Just friggin stupid if you ask me

    • i call people kids for their mentality not for their age. The last stupid human is not born yet, it's a swedish saying and it's scary. Everyone want a side piece , fucking idiots

    • Oh okay... Then totally totally agree 💯💯🙂🙂

  • Yeah I don’t get why lesbians say they have sex. Penetration is impossible unless they get dildos and a virgin using a dildo on herself or others doesn’t make her lose her virginity so technically they never have sex.

    Gay men do have sex because they insert their penis in an anus and cum in there so they have anal sex.

    Only heterosexual and gay sex between man and man is sex.

    Also if you ever ‘sleep’ with a woman as in eat her out, finger fuck her, use dildos and shit on each other and are attracted to women then don’t claim to be straight but had the one off. If you cummed from being with a woman you’re at least a bit gay.

    • Okay this isn't a post to bash lesbians... What two women do in their sexual lives is their business... Just because I'm not a lesbian, I'm not going to bash them and neither should you... This was more why do people think sexting especially with strangers is real sex.. two women giving each other sexual satisfaction in person is more real sex then two strangers masturbating by video

    • According to the definition of sex, lesbian sex is not actually sex just like people masturbating on the phone together. Lesbians are basically masturbating each other too.

    • Look take your hating on lesbians to another post... Okay... Thanks 🙂

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  • When your a virgin Masturbation is sex lmao.

    • I guess but some these grown ass people that ain't virgins.. And some already in relationships or having real in person sex with people and video sexting with others and that's just wrong in my book

    • Always wrong doing it behind someones back. And not been grateful for that sex they can get unlike others. But other than not really anything wrong with it.

    • Just not for me.. The real deal or nothing

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  • Yes they do!


    Phone sex or sexting etc. can bring you pleasure but they do NOT count as real sex.

    • Right, and I can't get that kind of pleasure with a stranger I never met

  • I guess lesbians don’t have sex.

    seriously everyone knows sex and sexting are not the same thing. Obviously it’s a form of mutual masturbation. On the other hand if you were dating someone I suspect you might have a fairly different view in your partner masturbating alone vs masturbating on camera with a woman who was masturbating as well, and I’m not sure you would accept their claim it was “just masturbation”

    I also don’t think many people consider sexting a great replacement for sex, but they’re using sexting over sex for other reasons. Nobody sitting with their partner goes into a different room and opens up a video feed back to masturbate with their partner in the next room.

    • No they just do it when their partner at work...

    • Oh, and at least lesbians are inserting something"for real" so still more real sex then a freaking video

  • Sex is fun 😊. But so is masturbation. Either way there are some creative things you can do with your mouth...

    • In person... But by video only.. Can't do much with your mouth there... Other than talk, and talk is cheap 🤣🤣🤣 rather real mouth action.

    • I’m happy to help you make yourself feel really good if you like the idea of seeing me make myself stiff and letting you see how good it feels to imagine getting inside you while I’m cumming all over myself and moaning.. 🤷🏻‍♂️

    • @RxMc2401 don't know who that offer was for and I can't speak for opinion owner but me no thanks, I'm good... Imagination sex can be done without a stranger 😂 If a man involved it better be the real deal then not imagination

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  • No, because I'm a virgin. 😎

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