Do sexually unsuccessful guys not understand how relationships develop?

According to local news "Matthew Byrnes, 34, walked into two stores in Pontypridd town centre on March 13. When he entered on store, he spoke to people inside the store before exposing his penis while staring directly at them."

Now two things stand out to me in this case. First the "staring" bit, because as we all know guys that stare are creepy and girls who ask "why is he staring at me" are dumb as fuck.

Second was his lawyer's defence, "he doesn't know how sexual relationships develop". That got me thinking, does the same spot to guys who send dick pics? And what about all those guys on here who claim it's impossible to get a girl friend? Is it more a case of them not knowing how sexual relationships develops?
Do sexually unsuccessful guys not understand how relationships develop?
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  • Do creepy ass shit and then say "Women only date douchebags and won't date average good guys like me. If I'm not attractive women will call me creepy."

    I do love the defense though 😂. " He thought this was how to be sexy."

    It's just more mental issues that aren't getting addressed and just pushed aside. In my country if it's not mass shootings it's stuff like this happening. People only want to blame half of the problem usually but not address the mental illness issues. It's getting worse by the day and you can't avoid it anymore.

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  • I'm sexually unsuccessful for the right reasons im sure that chnages things but I guess this depends what you are talking about, wdym by how it works? This story sounds more of a lawyer protecting his client from the law than anything contagious, I don't know if you've noticed but lawyers are crooks with ties and a degree, they help you defeat the law if you pay them weither you are guilty or not, sounds to me like a loophole around the idea of that person lowering his pants or whatever, I wouldn't be surprised if they later try convincing the law that it can be a possible mental illness or whatever and that they should get checked out just to avoid charges.

  • This topic is far more complicated than generally known. Sure many guys do not understand very well how relationships work, but I guess there's also the deeply hidden real tendencies, which still do affect slightly the guy's behaviour. Girls do feel instinctively that kind of contradictory "waves", and in most cases just keep distance.

    If I'm not mistaken, girls like to feel and see guys have confidence in themselves, even if that means bad guys... There must be some evolutionary reasons.

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  • No they don't. That is why they are unsuccessful.

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  • Title reminded of the yesterday's news of Saskatchewan RCMP gay fucker killing his 20s year old fellow fag.

  • I think it's a combination of things that collectively prevent the hapless cels from being successful with their social and sexual lives.

  • That lawyer was an idiot and should've settled on a psych defense using exhibitionism as a disorder

  • well i would say yes, no one teaches us how to be a succesfull sexual hunter like parents of predators teach them how to hunt, to be honest most guys doesn't know how to get girls and even if they get advice from their female relatives those advices almost never works, the thing is even woman themselves doesn't know what they want their desires and instincts are not consistent like males they go with the flow.

  • Naah. Sometimes they just never run into The Good Ones.

  • Relationships were a real mystery to me as well. My parents were divorced so I never saw a good relationship up close. I can understand what was up with this guy.

  • First normal guys dont act like that. Guys with issues act like that. There r many people in this world who have a lot of problems and pain within them and can end up expressing it in many ways mostky by bullying and harrassing the weak

  • No, they don’t

  • I think it stands to reason that if you've never had a sexual relationship you won't know how they develop. Unless you have a fairy godmother explaining everything as you go along.

  • Sexually unsuccessful huh, that's a new one.

    • It kind of sums it up.

  • Their low IQ, EQ and SQ are the problem.

    • Yes, ma'am, I just started following you and I'd be honored if you'd like to follow me as well, if that's alright. Thank you very much.

  • It's a disorder..
    Will need psychiatrist help..

    I m obsessed with boobs.. but I pay to enjoy them

  • No, the guy is obviously a mental case. But no, men don’t know how relationships work because women keep shifting the goal post. Back in the day, all you had to do was work hard, treat a woman with respect. And they would fall in love with you. Now, it literally goes in this order…


    You have to be a man of high status: bank account has to be huge (first and foremost), you have to be good at something, you to treat her like a queen from the jump.. skipping the getting to know you part by taking her to a fancy restaurant or some expensive extravaganza. You have to have the ability to make or surpass her only fans money.. and god forbid you have standards and boundaries and expect her to be modest and give up her “work” or you are insecure. So you have to give up everything you do, while she can be independent and do what she wants.


    Yeah, it’s not men that don’t know how it works. It’s men are tired of keeping up with the revolving door of shit that women “need”

  • The thing about dick pics is that 60% of the time they work everytime

  • Men who send pictures of their penises do it out of excitement, if that bothers women, I'm glad.

    • You sound… guilty… of sending D pics. I have no idea why they send them. Its weird is what it is.

    • I don't send that. But it does bother women. So I'm glad other men do it.