Do skinny guys like curvy/chubby girls?

I’ve noticed that some guys are very good looking but many times I’ve been discouraged to even approach them or talk to them because I look at them and I look at myself... mmm... and is hard to ignore the mass difference. Is like, “he has a beautiful face but you’re too skinny for me... chances are you only like bony gals”. Has any other gal experience the same thing?
Do skinny guys like curvy/chubby girls?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • There is a very big difference between curvy and chubby. And there is another big difference between chubby and fat.

    Curvy is when you have a defined feminine shape - not skinny, but you don't have "love handles". Essentially a curvy woman is a woman of healthy bodyweight and bodyfat, with a more stocky build, and possibly (but not necessarily) a larger bust.

    Chubby is when you have a baseline feminine shape, and have excess weight on top of that. You still have an attractive body, but it's clearly visible that you have a substantial amount of subcutaneous fat.

    Fat is when your feminine shape is entirely covered up by subcutaneous and visceral fat. This is usually not attractive to guys under any condition.

    Generally speaking, curvy women are attractive to almost all guys. Chubby girls are usually cute, but I personally wouldn't commit myself to one, unless she was dedicated to getting into shape.
    And I wouldn't date a fat girl. Sorry, but that's the harsh truth.

    • Well said

    • Thank you for your opinion, many ladies here may disagree with you but I can see you are being as partial and honest about the subject and that I appreciate and respect. Thank you!😀👍🏼💜

    • I second that. I am in an appreciative mood today

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  • I actually asked the opposite question here before.
    I wanted to know if curvy/chubbier women would date a skinny athletic kind of guy? LoL!
    I like all kinds of women and I definitely like curvy/chubby women too.

    • I don’t know about all curvy/chubby women but I know that there have been times I’ve been awed by the looks of a skinny man but this question and the fear of rejection has always stopped me from approaching or even talking to a guy.

    • Aww... I know how you feel. I think you should be confident. Full figured women are super sexy. : )

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  • Yas. When I met my boyfriend, I was a little chubby then I lost 30 pounds. I had the hourglass body. Now I'm a bit chubby again and I'm so depressed about it lol.

    My boyfriend is skinnier than me but because I refused to be this way and have been getting in shape, changing my diet and exercising more, he didn't care if I got chubbier because he knows I want to be healthy again.. If I didn't care about getting in shape and choosing a healthier lifestyle then he would have left me.

    No one wants to be with someone who doesn't want to to be healthy. And people shouldn't assume that just because someone is fat means they are lazy. Fat people can be exercising and dieting but their hormones or illness can be preventing their weight loss. So it's nice some people commented on, with support, that as long as the girl is willing to keep in shape then it's fine.

  • Yes! My boyfriend is thin and he loves my fat ass lmfao

    • If you don’t mind me asking, what has been your experience? For example have you thought of him as “fragile”? Or something like that?

    • Not at all, bones are sturdy lmfao

    • Aight! That’s reasonable..😁👍🏼

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  • i have the same issues as you. i lost 20 pounds, and i want to lose 10 more pounds. i saw some hot guy checking me out, but then i thought he must've been looking at someone behind me, or at the door or something. i just can't talk to a guy i like because i look at my body and i wonder why in the hell would he be interested? i guess i'm pretty and i have nice green eyes, but from the neck down, blah. i think you're hot though. You're tall, and even though you are not thin, your curves look womanly and sexy. I'm short, and have stubby legs. that is why i could never rock curvy.

  • Yes i would. A womans weight and or figure has little to do with what I find attractive. Granted I find petite ladies to be more my thing but i have had a mental jaw drop from plenty of women who are not petite.

    To me mental things like confidence and self esteem are what i mainly look for in women. Figure don't matter much to me long as they are able to own thier appearance with pride.

  • A lot of us do, yes (but usually not exclusively curvy women).

  • Well I currently am rocking the dad bod, not exactly skinny (though not fat either (maybe a little)), but I do like curvy/chubby girls. In fact I think their is something really endearing about a chubby girl with a cute face (like an attractive wholesomeness to them.).

  • I'm not skinny, I'm just a normal weight. But I love bigger girls. They're my favorite flavor.

    Do skinny guys like curvy/chubby girls?
  • Most guys I think would be filled with joy to have a girl like that show interest. Classic issue of projecting your self image and female insecurities onto the thinking of males. Thankfully we males are different mentally and don't think like that at all. What a guy likes will vary but odds are if you have an hourglass shape, that fits a majority of guys image of female. The above image would likely be good for 90% of guys I'd bet. If you want to get into better shape, that is your choice, it does help. I'd remove that from your worry list.

    The real issue here is fear of rejection isn't it? Self consciousness and image. That needs worked on so even if you are rejected, and you will be in life for various reasons not all your own, you can handle it and not be your own worst enemy. If want some places to look to work on that stuff, lmk. Watch videos, boost your self esteem.

  • Different people like different things, you just never know. No matter what though, never go for one of those guys that pretends to like curvy when he likes thin. Or the opposite pretends to like thin but likes curvy. I've seen a lot of guys say things like that. Go for someone that wants you exactly as you are. It might be better to wait for them to approach you.

    • It's more about waist-to-hip ratio. Not just my personal preference. There's been studies on this.

    • @maaaaax Some guys like straight out fat girls with no waist. Obviously you aren't one of them but that doesn't make it less true.

    • I'm skeptical that this is more than a rare fetish. "Feeders" I think they are called. But I'm not knowledgeable enough to speak about this.

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  • Can't speak for others, but I definitely don't.
    I prefer what the westerners call "sticks" and "bones".

    • Creepy

    • @Afrochick I know, right? High standards and people who take care of themselves have always terrified me.

    • Is completely fine @Kuraj! This question brings “diversity” to the table, because we are all attracted to different shapes and sizes. You prefer skinny gals and that’s ok, there are guys that prefer chubby gals too. Just remember that chubby gals shouldn’t qualify be qualified as “low standards” just because you are not attracted to them/ bc they are not skinny, sometimes personality and intelligence can make a woman of any size and shape attractive! @Afrochick be nice please, everyone has the right to share their views without being mean or harsh! 😊👍🏼 Thanks guys n spread the love & empathy! ❤️😀

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  • I find that body type attractive, but it doesn't mean I'd like the girl right away that had it. I dislike questions like this because it all depends on how your facial structure, height, clothes, posture, and how it looks along with your body. For example, if a skinny guy wore baggy clothes he's going to look even more skinny which isn't the best idea for that guy.

  • Pretty sure if you just eliminated the self loathing part you'd quickly come to think otherwise.

    My guess is that the chances are part is just an excuse to justifying having to avoid one of your own nueroticisms. I'd guess it's more about how you be made to think of yourself having been placed around someone that makes you feel inadequate. Often this is psychological projection, people will attribute things about themselves onto another entity then attack that as a means of avoiding some other conflict in them. If so, find a way to attack whatever it is in your mind that is the source of the feeling.

  • I'm more this girls shape in the picture but a little more slimmer and I really like skinny, tall guys so I really hope they like this type of body.

    • You're probably just fine, you don't need to be like the girl in the picture to be "curvy", believe me there is a very small amount of actualy ugly girls, it's very easy for a guy to see a girl as just fine

    • And I should add that by your picture you should be easily above average in terms of looks

    • @Piteka5 well thank you that's very sweet of you. 😊

  • Skinny chubby and curvy are different things u can't put a slash between these words.

    Do skinny guys like curvy/chubby girls?
    • Ohh shit i read wrong my bad

    • No problem! It’s happened to me too, lol! 😂😁

  • Some guys don't care a lot about a woman's size but how much fun he has with her. Besides, everyone has a preference so you'll never know until you talk to them

  • Curvy and chubby aren't the same. And both are different from being fat.
    Most guys aren't down for fat girls.
    If she's got a little extra weight but really filled out, that's cool too.
    Curvy is ideal though.

  • Believe it or not - guys arenot some sort of hivemind where all guys have the very same attraction. Different guys - independent of their own body-type - like different kind of girls.

    That being said, it depends on your definition of curvy. Are you femininely curvy? Or is it just a nice way of saying you are strongly overweight?

  • Are you kidding me? I knew of a skinny guy with a morbidly obese girl.
    I think you're fine.

  • I have a thing for petite woman. All of my girlfriends have been small. I just find it attractive. Taste is subjective, if someone doesn't find you attractive someone else most likely will.

  • You ask this like there's a universal answer to this. If you don't want to ask a guy out i get that and that's fine. But to flat out ignore a guy and not talk to him because of some perceived flaw is silly. I can tell you i'm 6'5" and i like curvier/ chubby chicks. granted i'm not skinny so maybe this voids my opinion. But to me a woman's weight isn't so much relevant as where she carries it/ how it's distributed. If she has a big old buddha belly... yeah i'm probably not going to be attracted. But like the woman in this pic for example is really attractive. The last "chubbier" woman i was attracted to was 5'6" 210 lbs. if that's any indication.

  • Yeah, some do. Some guys think it's cute and prefer natural girls.

    • Natural?

    • @saucegoddess YEAH

    • So fat or “curvy” is natural and everything else is unnatural? It’s unnatural to be lean?

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  • Im tall and slim, and I like curvy ladys

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