Do some men like to be submissive?

[Anonymous]

This might sound sooo awkward but although I'm a virgin (I'm a female) I have noticed I tend to have a dominant personality in most aspects of my life and I am not afraid of taking initiative on many things, don't get me wrong, I'm very sweet, kind, funny, and soft hearted. So, I do have a boyfriend, I like to have control when I'm cuddling with him, but I don't want to scare him or make him feel like I'm too sexually driven, I'm usually more aroused than he is, for some reason which I don't think I understand. I can also be submissive to him when cuddling and I enjoy it. But anyway, my point is, I really like the idea of a man surrendering and being vulnerable to the woman he loves. Is it normal for a woman to be dominant? Are there really guys out there who actually like to be submissive and dominated by his woman? Sorry for such an awkward question 😅 Thank you all! 💜

[Wiredone]

We used to change it up in the bedroom. We'll both be submissive and dominant at different times. It adds a little spice to the relationship

[Gosceewual]

i guess but its hard to not jus end up doing the pounding yourself, you have to resist

[Mangospacho]

It’s pretty fun every once in a while but to be submissive all the time doesn’t sound like a lot of fun. So maybe 30% of the time being submissive would be ideal for me.

[Twalli]

There are some sub men, but it's not as common.

[TallAnon]

I see the charm in both, but I'm also 6'7 and don't take shit, so even if you're dominant, there's a good chance I'll just tell you to fuck off if you go too far, so you might easily dislike me instead.

[KrakenAttackin]

I would say "it depends". If the man has a job where he has to be assertive all day, make decisions, have confrontation, etc... it is awesome to come home to a woman where he can let his guard down a bit.

[KrakenAttackin]

Unfortunately most women can't stand a man who does met his guard down.

[28ouc]

sure

[EnglishEuropean]

Some men will pay for that stuff.

[Joshua0213]

I can do either tbh depends on the mood

[Wisenhot]

Yes. There is all type of people in the world. Lol. Look at gay guys

[nudeNhorny]

I personally like dominant women

[anylolone]

Same as chicks.

[he-takes-a-part]

You haven't find the right men there are some females who unwantedly want to assert that they are better try identifyinf your assertiveness where it flows from is it natural or it automatically sets in the the setting you are into. Here i will only talk about the former if u are really the one then one and only person you will and can make love to would be someone up and above in that game. But the caveat here is that doesn't mean you found true love

[NightHawk99]

Yes. Ain't no problem there. Just not as common as us being dominant.

[princeofromance]

Yes, I know I do.

[Seppel]

Yes I do

[Batuthekhan]

I am sub

[Unstoppable20]

I do from time to time.

[MasterKS]

why not? its a good change for sometime.

[lycanthrope3]

i am a switch so sometimes