Do straight guys like to be fingered during oral?

I heard some men "cum harder" if a woman puts a finger in his anus while performing oral sex, I don't mind doing this and I'd like to try it with my partner but I don't know how he'd take it. Do men really like it & how should I initiate it
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  • This is about prostate massage. It's an article I hope to post on GAG when they're accepting new articles.

    Preface. This is an introduction to prostate massage. I’m going to include a little rudimentary anatomy and physiology for the novice. If you know this already, skip to the instructions.
    Anatomy and Physiology. One of the great myths is that all ejaculate comes from the testicles. In fact,
    Instructions. Prostate massage is the most intense orgasm a man can have, particularly when combined with getting head. Get some Astroglide gel for lube. You can use it for anal sex as well. If you have long nails, wear a latex glove with a cotton ball in the fingertip of the fore and index fingers. Put him on his knees with his head and chest on the bed and his butt in the air. (cont'd)

    • Put a little lube on him and on your fingertips. It doesn't take much. Play with his anus, rubbing around on it, very lightly at first. Then start intermittently pressing on his anus with your forefinger. Slide in the first knuckle. If he's all tense and really tight, tell him to breathe, relax and push back like he's going to the bathroom. Once he relaxes, slide you finger in the rest of the way. Pause to let him get used to it. Then carefully curl it toward his front until you encounter a walnut sized gland, his prostate. He'll likely jump when you touch it. It's very sensitive. Touch it lightly and start rubbing it, increasing the firmness as he adjusts.

    • When he's relaxed and really enjoying it, without taking out your forefinger, slowly slip in your middle finger. Then use both of them to massage his prostate. Reach under him and start playing with the head and his pee hole. That's another very erogenous zone. Stroke him slowly. If you're so inclined, slide under him and take him in your mouth. Start going down on him and increase the intensity of the prostate massage. I'm guessing before long he'll start to cum. As soon as you feel the first spasm, squeeze his prostate as hard as you can. He'll have the most explosive orgasm in his life. He'll think he's gonna turn inside out and you're taking the whole load in your mouth. Tilt your head back, look him in the eye, and joyfully swallow the entire load. He'll be completely spent and one very happy camper.

    • Good luck! I absolutely love it.

  • I do. Don't start it until he begins to approach orgasm. Do him from beside, not between his legs as it is easier for hand access. A good lotiony ball massage is a good accompaniment to a BJ so you can have his anus wet for penetration. Push your first finger in all the way with several short strokes, palm toward balls, while rolling your finger side to side. Then stroke it out and in, curling your finger on the way out and straightening it on the way in. When he starts to come, stop stroking but leave it in unless he wants you to pull it out. If you are kinky, you might like the feeling of his squeezing your finger voluntarily to get more sensation and involuntarily with each squirt.

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  • I use a vibe, my guy loves it and cums everywhere when I do it.

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  • Some do, yup. Others see it as 'gay'

  • The issue you have to work around is the whole idea that anal stimulation for a guy is considered to be homosexual behavior.

    One sex educator I read suggested you approach it with an enthusiasm, and relate the prostate to the equivalent of a woman's g-spot (which it is). Just say you read about this fun spot on a guy that can intensify his orgasms.

    You can try stimulating his prostate from the outside for starters. Behind the balls on the 'taint' - you can put pressure while giving him a blowjob. If he responds well to that, then move to playing with his ass.

    From there, ask him if he's comfortable with you putting a finger in there.

    I can vouch that the feeling is insanely good.

  • I got a problem with the idea of a girl sticking her finger up my ass.

  • all depends on the chap ^_^

  • Nothing wrong with trying.

  • The idea is to massage the prostate gland. Tell him about this and ask him if you want you to try it. Personally, I'm fine with my orgasms the way they are.

  • Isn't that just a shit form of pegging?

  • I for one do not like anything going in on that area. Sorry but that's a little on the homosexual side.

    • I honestly don't understand your logic. If a woman is giving you pleasure, how is that homosexual?

    • @yaddayaddayadda02 Shoving fingers on my ass is just not cool with me.

    • That's fine. But I don't see how it's considered homosexual

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  • Do touch my ass you can lick it but no fingers

  • A small part of the index finger or pinky is good. The tongue feels better but I explode like crazy from it. It's not even that I like it but it makes me cum a ton.

  • I have heard the same thing, my ex tried it and I really just don't like it. She was amazed because in her history, every guy went rock solid and came very quickly, but I am always rock solid, and it made me go soft and uncomfortable!