If a teen guy says he loves you and want you so bad and no any girl just you and he thinks about you sexually too and he wait you to talk with him. Is it a ture love or it is just a lust?
I didn’t understand true love until I learned how to sacrifice, how to commit, how to love through conflicts, how to love through the pain, how to love when it isn’t easy, how to love when it hurts, how to forgive, how to be patient, how to love when it isn’t easy, how to love through hardships and stressful times.
When I really understood what it feels like to give my time and attention and energy and vulnerability to someone else, and continue to give and give and endure anything, for better or worse.
True love is something deep. It’s precious. And it’s something that can even be dangerous to give to the wrong person.
I think it’s possible (but unlikely) for a teen guy to love a girl truly.
It looks like putting their heart and soul into a relationship, giving their all, and trusting that their girl is not going to take advantage of that. But even if they do, they will be willing to endure.
Because true love is unconditional. It’s not about what you get in return, it’s all about the other person’s well-being. It’s wishing for the other person’s happiness, even if you get nothing in return. It’s altruistic and will even be happy for someone even if they chose to be with someone else.
Also, “falling in love” is just an expression. Anybody can “fall in love” in terms of feeling a rush of emotions and feelings and infatuation or lust or passion.
But, real love is something on a deeper layer. It’s developed and nurtured over time, like a garden.
Most teen guys (and many people in general) do not really understand love and use that word for many other things that aren’t actually love.
I’ve been in several relationships where the other person said that they loved me, but what they actually loved was they loved the feelings I gave them, they loved the way I made them feel, they loved what I could give them. But, they didn’t truly love me, I was simply a means to an end, something to fulfill their needs, whether emotional or mental or physical. I sacrificed a lot to make them happy. I endured a lot to make them happy. And they were happy, but I wasn’t.
Because they didn’t truly love me, and they weren’t willing to tend to my own relationship needs. Their needs were met but my needs weren’t met. These were one-sided relationships. I really went out of my way to treat them well. But, they wouldn’t return the effort.
But, because I loved them, I continued to treat them well anyway. And, found myself in a toxic relationship.
This is like how a loving parent will continue to love their child no matter how their child may misbehave or take them for granted. I give this kind of love in my romantic relationships. Which can be wholesome. But it can turn ugly if the other person takes advantage of that.
It’s important to find someone who really loves you and will put in real effort to take care of you and treat you well.
Healthy relationships go both ways, and love is something that’s supposed to run deep. But, if it isn’t mutual, it will become one-sided, and can easily become toxic.
If that happens, it’s important to love yourself too, and have the self-respect to leave a relationship if they aren’t willing to put in the work and effort to work things out and bring your relationship to better place, as a team.
If someone says they love you, pay attention to their actions and behaviors. Their actions and behaviors will let you know whether or not their idea of love is the same as your idea of love.
When teenage guys say, “I love you.” most of the time, they don’t understand the depth of what that’s supposed to mean.
Is real love possible for a teen guy? Yes, it's possible. Is it COMMON? No.
Real love is not just about infatuation and excitement and fun and sex, it's also about duty and responsibility and sacrifice. A guy who has grown up with duty and responsibility his whole life will be able to understand those things in the context of love at a younger age, but a LOT of guys today aren't growing up this way - especially men who grow up without a father in the home, because the reality is that most single mothers do not know how to teach a boy duty and responsibility - and many don't even try. These guys will need to have had jobs and probably will need to have moved out and paid their own way 100% for a few years before they understand anything about duty and responsibility.
You will know young guys who have ALWAYS had a job, who have ALWAYS had chores and expectations from their family. The ones who get "volunteered" to help friends move, or to clean up their yard, or to fix things for them. The ones who bought a used car with their own money that they earned every penny of themselves. Those guys will have lived a life that taught them duty, responsibility, and sacrifice. They'll have had to work in the heat, and the cold, and when they were feeling sick or were injured. Maybe also a guy who had to take care of a sick family member. But they need to have had to face and overcome some sustained adversity before they can understand what real love is, especially in the context of being a man.
If he says he loves you then you show him a picture of another naked girl and he gets hard, it's just lust for both of you.
Teen boys can feel true love, depending on their age, but what you just described is just plain old lust.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I do not think teen guys or any teenager in general can tell the difference between love and lust... it's a tough thing to separate sometimes. Because there is a degree of lust with anyone you love, but lust by itself can really fuck with your head, it's hard to tell. But almost ever relationship starts with some degree of lust and turns into love later.
Teen guys fall in love, but a lot of them mistake infatuation and lust with it. Healthy love is a sense of commitment, a sober look at the other person in all her good things and faults. Love is aware of limitations and sacrifices, but it's also aware of what makes her fun to be around, what makes her someone worth caring about.
A teen can feel these things, but sometimes he sees someone, spends short time with her and gets deep feelings of admiration and desire without looking at the finer details. It usually, but not necessarily includes sex, and isn't strongly developed.
What you described is probably lust/infatuation. A lot of the time love develops slowly as you get to know someone. Teens who started as good friends usually fall in love, a boy who's hung around you a few times and catches feelings is infatuated, but that doesn't mean it can't turn into love. It just means he's not there yet.
It's lust. Maybe infatuation. As a teenager, you don't even know who you are yet. Not really. If he doesn't know himself, he can't know anyone else and you can't love someone you don't know.
Your hormones are going crazy in your teens so hard to say but if you stay together and enjoy being with each other then why complain.
It's not just lust but it isn't necessarily 100% "true love". Might be. The seedlings of it. Love grows over time. So, if the guy isn't already in a relationship with it's not love yet. But it's not just lust.
@milania88 Don't let adults brain wash you. I found a study that said baby are born genius but the way society operates beats it out of them. By the time we a 20 only like 2% of people to operate from the genius brain.
Anyway, yes teens can be in love. Love isn't all that bs people say it is. All love is is a strong appreciation for someone. Something that is deep in the heart and moves the molecules. Now does that mean it will work out? No. Because the awareness is low as a teen and really even for most adults. If you want to expand your awareness study personal development material. Adults don't do that. They barley read. Don't listen to adults. They don't know anything most of the time. If they did they'd be living the life they want. Think for yourself. You are no dumber than an adult. The sad thing is you only realize this once you become an adult. You realize that adults don't know anything. Think about when you were 8. How did you view teens?
Both are possible
What's "ture"?
It is possible, but the odds are that it is his hormones.
Lust is new love 😊
Lust
in my opinion it’s probably lust at that age but that doesn’t mean it can’t develop into love over time
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