In response to your primary question, I'm not sure that age has much to do with it. I think it's more about interest level.
I think it's a very risky subject to discuss, particularly if you want MMF. I think more guys would be OK with FFM than MMF and it might upset him that you're thinking about having another guy involved and maybe make him start having doubts about whether you'll cheat on him.
My opinion is that you'd be better off finding out how he feels about it in some other way rather than telling him directly that you're interested in it. Maybe say you heard someone talking about it or read an article about it or something and see what kind of reaction you get. If he says something negative about it then I think you need to just drop the subject. If he sounds like he thinks it's interesting then it's probably safe to ask whether he'd want MMF or FFM if you ever did it.
If his reaction is anything less than him saying it sounds exciting to him, then I think you should let it go. Unless you both really want to do it, I think there much more chance of it ruining your relationship than that it will go well. I've heard of cases where it caused problems even when both people thought they wanted to do it, so overall I think it's a risky thing to do.1 0 0 0Thank you. This was the best opinion for sure!🙂
Would you say lack of interest in a 2 person relationship begins this type of fantasy, wondering what a third would be like? I would like to think we are kinky enough that we would not need a third. But if we did eventually.. I’d maybe consider.
I think FFM is a pretty common fantasy for guys. Of course not everyone is the same and it varies from person to person, but on average I think guys are stimulated visually more than women are. For a lot of guys, just seeing and touching a naked woman is exciting and so seeing and touching two naked women seems more exciting. I don't think that says anything about how the guy feels about his girlfriend/wife. He could be very happy with her but still think that having another woman involved would be more fun. I don't know for sure but my guess would be that MMF is a less common fantasy for women, but probably still not rare. For those that like the idea I'm not really sure whether that means she's not satisfied with her partner or if it's just like guys that she would think another guy would add to the fun even if she's happy with her guy. Even though I think most guys would find FFM appealing, I think most of them would not like the idea of MMF. Apparently some do, but I think most don't. A lot of guys are very protective of their sexual relationship with their partner and don't want any other guy intruding on that. How does your boyfriend feel about you wearing provocative clothing or doing other things that attract sexual attention from other guys? That might be a clue. If he likes it when you go out in public in revealing clothing or flirt with other guys then I think there's probably a higher chance (but still no guarantee) that he'd be willing to try MMF since he apparently likes the idea of you turning on other guys. On the other hand, if he prefers that you dress modestly then I think it's pretty likely he won't like the idea of MMF because he probably feels like your intimate body parts should be reserved for only him to see and touch.
It is more common as you get older, i think people start to care less what others think and more about how to have fun.
The best way to address it with your partner is slowly... i suggest maybe watching some MFM porn or if thats too much maybe get a film you know a MFM scene is in and you can comment about how "hot" it is and guage his interest from there
I did post about this the other day on an article about MFM, it might be of use to you
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My boyfriend and I have talked about the potential of a threesome, both mmf and ffm. I'm bisexual but have never beem with a female. We've talked a out it a lot and are open to sharing each other on the grounds that it's purly for fun/pleasure.
1 0 0 0I would never. If my boyfriend suggested it and was for real. I would leave his ass (I would leave a husband as well)
It means I’m not good enough for him. He needs more1 0 0 0I think if sex requirement is high and both are comfortable than only
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1 14I don't think any straight guy would wanna do it with another dude in the picture, but pretty much every guy fantasizes about a FFM threeway since like before we were born.
0 1 0 0So is this something I could ask if he would be interested in doing? Do guys fantasize about FFM threesomes, while in a relationship? I think he would maybe be turned on if I asked, he would be delighted I consider it.
I think many guys do fantasize about it even whilst in a relationship. I'm sure he'd like the idea, but even if not, I doubt he'd get mad at you for suggesting it.
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The keyword you used is "couple."
Younger guys do them with girls they don't care about, and older guys do them with their spouses/girlfriends.0 0 0 0He will suggest you for FFM
1 0 0 0I"ve had 3somes but not while with a girlfriend.
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0 0 0 0well I sometimes think about FMF, or FFMFF. Its my fantasy. Although I never had one
1 0 0 0I think most guys would prefer the FMF but if he were to want this, I’m not sure which female I’d like to join? My best friend would maybe, but he’d have to be into her as well? It’s just a very confusing topic. Thank you🙂
Yes girls don't like it usually
I assume then it would boil down to finding an acquaintance type of girl? One who would condone being apart of the threesome?
I enjoy threesomes both mff and mmf
1 0 0 0I'm sure he would be OK with it if your OK with a ffm 3sum
0 0 0 0I’m just not sure! I’ve never had one so I wouldn’t know if I’m comfortable with that or not.
I know if my woman wanted a mfm I would only do it after having a mff first
I had many mfm 3some. But i haven't had while i was in relationship. Guys can be jealous if other guy has bigger cock.
1 0 0 0That is something I’ve kept in mind, as I do respect guys can be insecure as well. Thank you for your input🙂
It doesn’t hurt to ask him... if anything it could be a shared fantasy
1 0 0 0An idea best left as a fantasy IMFAO
1 0 0 0n. o from me-it would be a no go.
0 0 0 0I have always wanted to try it but ffm. My significant other isn't in to it
1 0 0 0Im not realy sure what to say, cause there are a lot of character types on the earth. So it could be that you booth will like it and you will get more happier in your relationship. But also it can happen that he start to think about your relationshio after you had the threesome. I mean something like that he starts to think about the relationship. So if you know his character good. Then i think you will see what you have or dont have to do.
1 0 0 0Just to know:not every guy want a threesome. Me i dont want one cause i got a girlfriend i love and dont need other girls. So not every guy is similar to the meanings of other guys.
True, thank you. It’s just hard to tell if that is something he would want or not, most guys especially on here say they are for threesomes or have at least thought about it. Very few say they wouldn’t want one.
Yeah I ask him if could be a fun thing. The first I was a little hesitant but ended up really enjoying it
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