Girls, do u expect a man to get you in the mood before sex or is it your responsibility to get horny if you know he is in the mood?

Question

Do girls expect a man to put effort in to make you horny?
Do men get horny a lot easier than women and if so what should he do to turn you on and make you ready for sex?
If a guy is horny and you notice that then should you make the effort yourself to turn yourself on and then do the wild thing with him?
If you expect him to make you horny when he is how should he go about doing this?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Of course it’s on him to get me in the mood. Same if I was the one who wanted sex then it’s on me to get him there. The fact that you’re even asking this shows how big this problem is. One of my ex was always like ”wanna have sex?”. Like wtf no thanks, and if I did say yes he was ready to drop his pants and put it in, nevermind I wasn’t in the mood or even wet - let’s just use baby oil so we can skip forplay. So fucking unattractive and unmanly. One of the major reasons he’s an ex.

Aerissa_Jade · Accepted Answer

Its a little of both, I tell him many times what gets me in the mood, but if I have zero desire I don't expect him to somehow get me in the mood, it just isn't a good time.

The key I do here is have let him know what will work, so he isn't just blindly trying to. This way we can help each other out.

hhadeshatesme · Answer

I think it should come naturally obviously at the start there might be one of yous in the mood more than the other but it shouldn’t be seen as a chore of who has to persuade who. I love the build up to sex rather it’s me or him initiating it

Apple1996 · Answer

I've never expected him to get me in the mood before sex. That's just kind of weird in my opinion cause it's either I'm in the mood or I'm not and him trying to change that would just piss me off

Dinklex3 · Answer

Only if im not expecting it or am not in the mood. If I'm horny and in the mood, then i make an effort to get them in the mood too.

InYourHead · Answer

I'd like it if he got me in the mood

ElizaPam · Answer

Guys usually just go straight to pounding

malakaki · Answer

I am so inexperienced with this that I have no satisfactory answer to the question. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

If he wants to have sex and I’m not horny he needs to get me horny

anon1903 · Answer

Whoever gets horny first is responsible

Alyssa_11 · Answer

A but of both.

Subarugirl · Answer

My husband doesn't want to have sex with me if I am not aroused, and honestly no woman should that is how injuries happen, so unless we are both aroused we aren't having sex.