Do virginity equals a person being prude?

[Anonymous]

Im starting to think many people believe that. there is a relation between the two.. I mean a woman or a guy could be a virgin which means no sexual intercourse or penetration but that does not mean that if that person like to show off her private parts to guys or girls for example over a phone like to have fun that does not mean that person is prude?

Also the man or the woman could even speak among Friends or relatives about sexual topics and not being uncomfortable about it and they could be virgins but not necessarily are shocked by certain topics.

A man or a woman could even had grabbed dikcs at some point int heir lives but they still could be virgins.

I was talking to a 60 yrd old man and he just mention that virgins usually do not talk about anything sexual due to the fact they have to be uncomfortable hence the reason for being virgins and also virgins are not appropriate to send pics over text on their private parts to any guy they like or hanging out because they are virgins and virgins usually do not do that kind of thing.

So does that means virgins equals beign like a nun, secluded and not even see naked people on TV, magazines, music because they are holy people and prude?

I mean in my opinión there is no relation. A lady could be a virgin regarldess the age she has but is open and not that uncomfortable to speak abotu sexual topics, she is a virgin for a reason and noone has to question her motives, either she has not find the right guy, she will wait until marriage, she does not fool around, she is focusing better on her carreer and work tan havingn sex, but that does nto mean she is a prude like many people will equal that state with being a virgin.

What do you think?

[kaylaS91]

I agree with you.
Refraining from being sexually active, whether you're a man or a woman, could be for a host of different reasons, be it simply not viewing sex/relationships as a top priority, religious ones that have made you decide to 'save' the concept of your virginity for your spouse, or the more extreme ones like being socially incompetent/asexual.

Just like many people seem to view (primarily applicable to women) those who are sexually active as completely lacking of morals/self-control, though, virgins get the flip side of the inability to see past a black+white kind of world. Where virginity=total prude, basically fit for being a missionary.

[Asker]

So u believe there is no relation between the 2?

[kaylaS91]

There might be. Just the same as there might not be.

[Bellamyx]

no virginity doesn’t always mean prude. some people wait for the right person (not as often in this generation), some have religious beliefs about waiting until marriage & such, some just don’t have the opportunity to have sex, etc...

[Asker]

There are peoeple who do relate one thing with the other one. Cause if a woman is virgin it means sexual stuff is uncomfortable for her, even watch naked people on TV, or speak abotu sexual topics as they are totally naive about the topic or sending certain photos to maybe the guy they like, still they are virgins because they had not had actual sex.

[Bellamyx]

I don’t know, I just don’t at all think being a virgin automatically means pride. Being a virgin also doesn’t necessarily mean they know nothing about sex or the topic, they could know just as much about sex as someone who’s slept w/ someone in every state. Yes it’s not likely, but it’s not impossible. I just don’t see a definite 100% correlation between prudes and virgins.

[Asker]

Some say that a virgin person feels uncomfortable about nudity and sex therefore they can be prudes in that scenario

[Bellamyx]

yes, but not in all cases & thats all I’m trying to say

[Prima_Dana]

No, there are virgins out there who are kinky and have high sex drives. When you choose to lose your virginity is completely your choice but I do believe that people waiting all the way until marriage are holding themselves back.

[Asker]

Why u think people who waits to loose their virginity either until marriage or for any pther reason tan marriage is holdign themselves back?

[Red_Arrow]

I think your question explained it rather well. You can be a virgin because you are a prude, in which case they are connected. Or, you may want to remain a virgin for the time being, but partake I; many o5her sexual activities, I which case they are not connected.

If you choose various forms of sexual contact, many will say you are not a virgin. But technically you are. And the sexual activities may be such that even those who would call you a non virgin for the more overt acts, will say you are still a virgin, but not a prude. For example, if you trade nudes, that does not affect your virginity at a

[Berethor]

An prude woman is more likely to be a virgin, but not all virgin women are prudes.

[Asker]

Why some virgins are not prude?

[Berethor]

Because they was able to not become sluts despite their high sexually. Also there is an so called technical virgins that tend to be considered quite hypocritical.

tvtropes.org/.../TechnicalVirgin

[ohshee]

Each person is different summer Boulder than others someone to experience things more than others everybody's different

[1coolguy]

You have a point but it wasn't easy talking to girls about a sexual relation later on cause i wanted to save my virginity

[DesperatelyHangry]

No just cause your a virgin doesn't mean you are a prude it could just mean that you want to focus on school or your job

[Wi_Fi]

I agree with your view.

[anametouse]

I think the old guy has a point yea. I am a virgin due to lack of comfort-ability and shitty circumstances in dating. Does that make me a prude because sex isn't my focus? Maybe, but I don't mean to be if that is the case. Perhaps there is a connection between the two. Wouldn't say it's full-proof tho