Do voyeurs watch for pleasure or curiosity?

[Anonymous]

I don't mean a creepie peeping tom, but the guy who does it consensually. I have a guy friend who confessed to liking watching. I noticed him trying to catch me in some tricky situations, but I thought I imagined it. But then he said he likes to watch in a voyeuristic way. He said he likes to observe details on a woman's body. Some imperfections and asymmetries. Now it became a game we both enjoy. I find new ways to give him what he likes, sometimes he says what he wants. We do it in person or by nudes. Does he do it for pleasure or plain curiosity?

[RobT312]

Sounds like he’s doing it for pleasure…. I have done it once out of curiosity. My girlfriend and I were in our backyard, and we heard moans next door. We looked through the fence and watched out of curiosity…our neighbors are gay and we wanted to see what kind of gay sex they got into! It was super hot

[Billlewis]

I love watching (or listening) to a beautiful woman getting fucked by her lucky boyfriend, and I always play with myself afterwards, because even listening to their passionate lovemaking session drives me crazy!

[Katie1964]

Do voyeurs watch for pleasure or curiosity? I think voyeurs watch for the pleasure they derive.

[Billlewis]

@Katie1964 The reason I enjoy watching is because it makes me so jealous and frustrated, because I never get any pussy.

[Katie1964]

@Billlewis Sorry to hear that.

[Billlewis]

Oh, no, please don't feel sorry for me, because I love being constantly teased and frustrated!

[Billlewis]

In fact, just listening to you having sex with your husband is more exciting than anything else in the world, because when he begins to climax, and I hear him shudder in ecstasy as he blasts stream after glorious stream of his hot semen against the tender back wall of your bucking pussy, that is, quite literally, the most exciting moment of my entire existence.

[Katie1964]

@Billlewis OK, I have heard about people that are into that kind of abuse, so I know its a "normal kink" but never understood it. I do have a girl friend who enjoys going to nude and clothing optional locations just because she gets pleasure out of seeing naked men. I never thought it was that big of deal but she is a true voyuer in the sense that she gets a lot of pleasure just from looking at them. Several of them have told us that they are just the opposite, and don't really derive pleasure from looking at naked women but just want to be looked at by women while they are naked. I guess it takes all types.

[Billlewis]

In my opinion, it's not abuse, because it makes me so happy and fulfilled to be able to hear the luckiest guy in the world during that moment... that amazing moment that defines my frustration and futility and reminds me of just how utterly pathetic I truly am. Being pathetic is not necessarily a bad thing, when it makes a wimp like me so content.

[Katie1964]

@Billlewis OK well if that's what gets you off, its fine by me. At least you are fullfilled and not hurting anyone. In my view, any kink that doesn't hurt someone is a good way for them to get off.

[Billlewis]

Yes, ma'am, thank you very much.

[LordMadara]

@Billlewis it can be bad for your health to have sexual frustration and difficulty getting the right women to help out with your sexual needs, but don't make it your persona I'm 3 years deep in a dry season, I also like watching the local drug addict prostitutes in the bushes of the city where I'm from, I got caught by a hooker once she was angry for seeing me spank my monkey but I couldn't careless , I occasionally go to the sex bushes to watch and wank the whole day, I get angry that this has become the norm for me as I'm starving for sex. I wish I could have my own personal easy lay no matter how ugly of a drug addict she is I just want to stick it in and cry happy emotions 😂 , my buddies think I'm a demented pyscho who's gonna rape one day, I highly doubt that tho, don't condition yourself to be sexually frustrated it breaks the human spirit to get and do better in life

[Billlewis]

@LordMadara As one of the characters on 'Sex And The City' once said, 'Don't knock it 'till you've tried it' ;)

[LordMadara]

@Billlewis try to stay away from triggers such as mainstream media and it's garbage film industry , I regret watching sex ànd the city , the truth is there's no sex in the city , it's a hollyweird metaphor for deprivation and thirst I'm 10yrs deep in the CAPITAL CITY OF south africa which is Pretoria lots of negative folk here cànt blame them don't wànt to detail the downside of city life , if you know you know, to summarize it all LIMIT YOUR CONSUMPTION OF MAINSTREAM MEDIA , leàve the womenz alone and work on self improvement Truth be told, when I was at my home town far away from big city life I was a nuasance a j3rk had lots of free sex I wàsnt even tall or muscular far from being handsome very skinny but I scored a lot of lays to the point that it got me into serious trouble as I was banging an underage thick young girl 16yrs old, my country's law forbids it as statutory ràpe , my life kinda went downhill after that year (2012) The point I'm trying to màke is WOMEN ARE THEE MOST SOPHISTICATED LIÀRS I thought I had game when infact all those pretty hotties (and not so pretty sluts ) I was fucking were the ones who initiated the 1st approach (incl the underage sexy neighbor of mine) I on the other hànd had little to none to offer in the courtship process Its women who decide everything You just have to read the signals they put out that's the difficult part , there are women out there strictly attracted to you and only you but you won't see or recognize them (find that type)

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I don’t know I like being watched rather than watch others. What’s the fun in it?

[Justaguyagain]

Both or just pleasure, it think is pretty clear

[slatyb]

For pleasure. I enjoy watching PDA as long as one of the people is a woman. It's better if they both are.

[Dargil]

I think it is both.

[AviatorTom]

Pleasure, which may lead to self-pleasure.

[misogynistic_pig]

Pleasure from observing a person without their consent.

[bowenw]

They may enjoy focusing on what other people do when they don't know they are being watched.

[Asker]

But he let me know that I'm being watched. He told me what he likes to watch expecting me to give him what he likes.

[bowenw]

He may find it is like watching porn, only live.

[Wise4myage]

Maybe both, but definitely for pleasure. Does it turn you on knowing he's doing it?

[Asker]

I like it, otherwise, I wouldn't let him do it.

[In_Trance]

both

[Luckycharms12]

Guess both

[bananathunder]

watch for pleasure and being watched for pleasure. Why else would someone do it?

[Asker]

For curiosity. He said that he likes to look for and watch imperfections and asymmetries of women's bodies. Maybe he just said it at first, not to scare me away?

[bananathunder]

I don't know... everyone has their own kinks

[CubaPirate]

Some folks in the UK are into public watching and being watched especially in cars in quiet country lanes. Its know as "Dogging" and "Piking". The former are doing the act while the later observe.

[riverrat3]

A combination of the two

[dinojames22]

Both

[forknowing]

that indepth it's for "pleasure, his", curious isn't so obsessed