Do voyeurs watch for pleasure or curiosity?

[Anonymous]

I don't mean a creepie peeping tom, but the guy who does it consensually. I have a guy friend who confessed to liking watching. I noticed him trying to catch me in some tricky situations, but I thought I imagined it. But then he said he likes to watch in a voyeuristic way. He said he likes to observe details on a woman's body. Some imperfections and asymmetries. Now it became a game we both enjoy. I find new ways to give him what he likes, sometimes he says what he wants. We do it in person or by nudes. Does he do it for pleasure or plain curiosity?

[RobT312]

Sounds like he’s doing it for pleasure…. I have done it once out of curiosity. My girlfriend and I were in our backyard, and we heard moans next door. We looked through the fence and watched out of curiosity…our neighbors are gay and we wanted to see what kind of gay sex they got into! It was super hot

[Billlewis]

I love watching (or listening) to a beautiful woman getting fucked by her lucky boyfriend, and I always play with myself afterwards, because even listening to their passionate lovemaking session drives me crazy!

[Katie1964]

Do voyeurs watch for pleasure or curiosity? I think voyeurs watch for the pleasure they derive.

[Billlewis]

@Katie1964 The reason I enjoy watching is because it makes me so jealous and frustrated, because I never get any pussy.

[Katie1964]

@Billlewis Sorry to hear that.

[Billlewis]

Oh, no, please don't feel sorry for me, because I love being constantly teased and frustrated!

[Billlewis]

In fact, just listening to you having sex with your husband is more exciting than anything else in the world, because when he begins to climax, and I hear him shudder in ecstasy as he blasts stream after glorious stream of his hot semen against the tender back wall of your bucking pussy, that is, quite literally, the most exciting moment of my entire existence.

[Katie1964]

@Billlewis OK, I have heard about people that are into that kind of abuse, so I know its a "normal kink" but never understood it. I do have a girl friend who enjoys going to nude and clothing optional locations just because she gets pleasure out of seeing naked men. I never thought it was that big of deal but she is a true voyuer in the sense that she gets a lot of pleasure just from looking at them. Several of them have told us that they are just the opposite, and don't really derive pleasure from looking at naked women but just want to be looked at by women while they are naked. I guess it takes all types.

[Billlewis]

In my opinion, it's not abuse, because it makes me so happy and fulfilled to be able to hear the luckiest guy in the world during that moment... that amazing moment that defines my frustration and futility and reminds me of just how utterly pathetic I truly am. Being pathetic is not necessarily a bad thing, when it makes a wimp like me so content.

[Katie1964]

@Billlewis OK well if that's what gets you off, its fine by me. At least you are fullfilled and not hurting anyone. In my view, any kink that doesn't hurt someone is a good way for them to get off.

[Billlewis]

Yes, ma'am, thank you very much.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I don’t know I like being watched rather than watch others. What’s the fun in it?

[Justaguyagain]

Both or just pleasure, it think is pretty clear

[slatyb]

For pleasure. I enjoy watching PDA as long as one of the people is a woman. It's better if they both are.

[AviatorTom]

Pleasure, which may lead to self-pleasure.

[Dargil]

I think it is both.

[misogynistic_pig]

Pleasure from observing a person without their consent.

[bowenw]

They may enjoy focusing on what other people do when they don't know they are being watched.

[Asker]

But he let me know that I'm being watched. He told me what he likes to watch expecting me to give him what he likes.

[bowenw]

He may find it is like watching porn, only live.

[Wise4myage]

Maybe both, but definitely for pleasure. Does it turn you on knowing he's doing it?

[Asker]

I like it, otherwise, I wouldn't let him do it.

[In_Trance]

both

[Luckycharms12]

Guess both

[bananathunder]

watch for pleasure and being watched for pleasure. Why else would someone do it?

[Asker]

For curiosity. He said that he likes to look for and watch imperfections and asymmetries of women's bodies. Maybe he just said it at first, not to scare me away?

[bananathunder]

I don't know... everyone has their own kinks

[CubaPirate]

Some folks in the UK are into public watching and being watched especially in cars in quiet country lanes. Its know as "Dogging" and "Piking". The former are doing the act while the later observe.

[riverrat3]

A combination of the two

[dinojames22]

Both

[forknowing]

that indepth it's for "pleasure, his", curious isn't so obsessed