Do we already live in a polyamorous culture?

Rollo Tomassi has been saying that we're headed to being a poly society. He thinks it will be a female initiated polygyny, where multiple girls concede that they all really want the same guy at once instead of being single or a guy that doesn't pass her hypergamous filter. I agree that we're headed to being poly, but it will be a polyandrous culture where multiple men orbit a single girl. Give her enough time, money, attention, favors (like the traditional husband has done in the past) and she'll supply you with that missionary sex.

According to the statistics, more men are sexless, but the stats also say of the men having sex they are fairly monogamous. Whereas women are far more likely to have multiple partners (not sure how the math works out, but for every 1 man with 10 partners or more a year, there are 5 women).

The average guy who has sex only has sex with 1 or 2 women a year. Meanwhile we constantly hear of moms who aren't sure which of the three guys they banged in a single night is the dad of their baby.

So the question is, do we already live in a poly society?
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  • I strongly believe in polygyny. I actually did a question on this the other day in the “relationship” section to which very little people saw it due to the time of day in which I posted it.

    I want to be married more than once concurrently, to one woman in each marriage aka polygyny. The girl I’m with now fully agrees and finds it the better path to take moving forward in the future. It’s biblically correct. If you think about it, it’s a much more efficient way to go because families can pool their resources as in one or two wives who love children can do that aspect and keep each other company while some other wives who want children but a career can still do that too. Everyone has their role to freely play and responsibilities according to what they want and where their passion/talents are.

    We are quickly at a point in human history where the world will become much more difficult to live in. Food, money, housing, energy, the ability to defend and produce goods necessary for survival and comfort will require more of a village otherwise known as a pride in which humans are already wired for anyway. I’d rather be deeply in love and legally/lawfully married to all the women who are part of my pride/family! It’s a well known fact that men naturally were never wired to be monogamous.

    I believe a man can truly love equally and give 100% to more than one wife. I have talked to so many good women who are either young mothers with 1-2 children where her man left her or no longer wanted to me married, or the other situation where so many young women who have never had the opportunity to even have a relationship or find love who want it. So many younger men now days have 0 desire to love, date, marry or extend feelings. So I think the law should legally accommodate those willing to marry more than one wife. Why not if each wife can be mature, quash the jealousy, support/love one another as sisters, and consent to each other sharing the same husband who loves them all?

    Lastly, polygyny isn’t a free for all group sex like many of the other poly relationships. 1. They are all married to him in their own marriage (still one man and one woman) and 2. He doesn’t sleep in the same bed with them all. Every wife still has her own autonomy and personal area in the house if not a whole other home close by on the same property. There are boundaries so that respect is afforded to each wife.

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