Guys, Do white guys only like black women as a sexual fantasy or fetish?

I'm attracted to white men. That is my preference. When I start talking to a guy and liking him I'm always questioning if he really likes me or just wants to fulfill a fantasy. I hate comments like when guys tell me how they have always wanted to fuck a black girl or how black girls are better in bed or have nicer butts.
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  • No sexual fantasies here. I dated some wonderful black women but living in Sweden, being black and be together with a white is very rare here and the girls told me this just having fun and their parents/family will never allow this. Am talking in general that even a black guy, dating a white girl is very rare because of what soceity thinks.

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  • This IS how a guy connects. Guys connect physically. Girls connect emotionally. This isn't to say guys don't have any emotions, it's just the reality of the genders.

    So yes, all guys are into women for sex. Otherwise, why would they bother? It is up to YOU to create high value, and properly vet them before getting sexual with them.

    Girls are the keepers of sex.
    Guys are the keepers of commitment.
    Don't be giving up yours without at least a little of his.

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  • Unless you are wait until marriage, it's always hard for a woman to tell if a man only want sex.

  • I find we fantasize about people we know like a coworker, or someone we know of - like a celebrity. They could be any color.

  • Hey girl I got to say you're not really that good looking you shouldn't worry about being used for sex anyway.

  • Personal is not a fantazy of mine, i'm all the time curios about the "diference" from us and how they feel in any way.
    But personal is a little dificul for me to be impres by a chocolate girl, is very rare for me to see a girl like that and to fall for her and want to make my girlfriend.
    So personal i don't like thous girl as a sexual fantasy or fetish, but because i feel less atracted to them i will just have fun whit the others.

  • its not about race to me. though a much different skin tone does add an extra thrill during sex.

  • Does it matter? Sounds like you're fetishizing them as well

    • That's who I vibe with. Its OK for black men to go after white women though huh?

    • Idc what color dates what color regardless of gender. I'm saying you personally seem to be fetishizing them by the way you make it about color so how can you be upset if they do the same?

  • I only prefer darker skin. It is just a preferance.

  • I date a girl for personality not their color or race so im not into using a girl

  • Black girls can be as sexual as white girls.
    We are all humans, i see them as girls and don’t see any difference!

  • Of course it's a fantasy. Just like how you orefer white men. It goes both ways you know

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