Do women hate porn or that men watch porn?

Do women hate porn or that men watch porn?
Yes because it demeans and devalues women
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Yes because it spares the men the need to approach or "hunt" for women
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Yes because sex is disgusting
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Yes because it brings men sexual freedom and that means women lose their only power over men
Vote D
Yes but for different reasons.
Vote E
Women certainly don't hate porn.
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No. Women love porn too!
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  • Some do, some don’t, like pretty much anything. Whether it’s the porn itself, or if the fact that men are consuming it varies as well, I think.

    I think there are a few different flavors of disdain. I suppose I’ll be highlighting what I’ve gathered from straight women over the course of my life, but this could really go for anyone...

    1) Straight up jealousy - There are people out there who expect their partner’s eyes on them, and them alone, for life, and are uncomfortable with the idea of ANYONE ELSE being looked at lustfully, even in a harmless manner. They basically expect a partner’s visual attraction to other people to completely shut down, which I personally think is unrealistic.

    2) Moralists - This one is easy. Some people just aren’t morally ok with two unwed performers having sex with each other for pay with the purpose of other people watching it. This also includes the folks who believe porn is exploitative. Pretty cut and dry case right there.

    3) Questionable plot lines - Some porn (too much these days, IMO) has these straight up WEIRD scenarios that your everyday person might be bugged out by, if not outright offended. Porn has been around a long time, there’s always been these goofy scenarios like a pizza delivery guy showing up and the hot chick who answers the door has no money...”I think I know a way to pay you😉...”🤦‍♂️😂 That used to make porn “corny.” But now every other scene is step-siblings fucking and shit... I don’t know who greenlit this whole thing or who in the world is turned on by that, but that’s admittedly strange. That said, I think a lot of people skip the dialogue, so the scenarios of the scenes can be irrelevant if you want them to be. Still cause for raised eyebrows from porn detractors though.

    4) Physical Insecurity - Easy one here. Most people have insecurities about their bodies. Women in mainstream porn tend to be at least somewhat attractive, and there are some who are outright stunners. Also, many are “enhanced with fake T&A, nose jobs, etc, etc, and a lot are in good shape with attractive figures. So obviously that will leave some women feeling inadequate. This one can work both ways though. We’re past the days of Ron Jeremy, and the men are much more often in pretty good shape, some are decent looking guys, and we all know from the endless GAG questions that men seem to think women all need ten inch dicks to be satisfied🙄

    5) Performance Insecurity - This can work against men at times, as well, but I think more of the women in this case. So... women in porn are doing this, that, and third for the guys. I have bad news for you porn-hating women out there: guys don’t want to do that stuff because we see it in porn, that stuff is in porn because that’s what guys want to be doing. I know... we’re filthy, perverted animals😂 Take it from someone who was alive before you could just go on a computer and look up whatever you liked, the thoughts were already in our heads lmao. Sex steers porn, porn doesn’t steer sex, I think people get that confused a lot. There was a time when I’m sure it was as simple as “EWW, I’m not doing THAT!”, but if you think people weren’t fucking in any year of your choice in history, and no guy was ever like “so, babe... I was wondering... could I put it in your butt?”, or whatever act you see that offends you, you need to remember that real life has been real life since the beginning of time. SO... my most unpopular opinion on this, probably... in a lot of cases, I think porn raises the bar for women. They see these girls do the things they won’t, and they’re doing it with skill and enthusiasm, and they just do not like their man to know that exists as a possibility elsewhere.

    6) Overkill - Some dudes can’t just jack their dick off every few days to a scene. Some guys out there just beating it raw on the daily, and if it gets to a point where your wife or girlfriend is tugging at you and you’re “sorry, babe, just fired one off an hour ago...”, that’s a PROBLEM.

    • 7) Unrealistic Expectations - This might be more of a summary than its own bulletpoint, but I think a lot of it just overall creates some illusions about what real life sex is life. Whether it’s the scenarios; the looks, attributes, and skills of the performers; or just the performed acts themselves. Personally, I think that stuff is all fine if you can keep your head about it, whatever you do with your fantasies is fine with me. I think sexual incompatibility is a big problem for a lot of couples, and I honestly think that’s a crucial area to be in lock-step with each other. If you’re into something and she hates it, there’s going to be resentment there for the duration of the relationship, either over you not getting to do what leaves you satisfied and fulfilled, or on her end doing it reluctantly for you. For guys, a woman being “good in bed” is probably less about her proficiency in her techniques of what she’s willing to do than it is just generally having a very short list of “DON’TS.” And that’s probably the opposite for women about guys: it’s HOW WELL do we do it. I think that might be related to the nature of sex itself; generally speaking, the man is giving and the woman is taking. I don’t think there are as many variations on what guys will or won’t do, other than guys who won’t go down on women or whatever (do they still even make those guys in 2019?😂). Guys are just varying in their adeptness at whatever variation of sex you’re partaking in. But for women, there are a variety of different manners in which she can “take it”, if you’ll forgive the crude wording, haha. And like I said, the ideas about that are built-in to our heads, at least speaking for myself, I didn’t need porn to teach me that I could do this or that to a gal, that’s just instinct. But the difference now is the woman used to be able to tell you no woman in their right mind would do that, and now guys can say “Sure they do, just type it into the search bar on PornHub!” Lmao

  • My wife is more into porn than me...

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  • I'm completely fine with porn itself and with men and women watching it.

    What I'm not okay with is most of the porn industry's exploitative practices as well as most porn's negative influence on young people's sexual developments. People now grow up with completely messed up expectations on how sex should be and what your sexual partner should do to you or let you do to them.

    This applies to the vast majority of all professional porn. There are exceptions, of course.

    • I agree for the most part. What the porn industry is professionally producing most of it is somehow junk.

    • Yeah. I mean, it's also a matter of taste, obviously. But I will never get the appeal of these ultra polished, painfully obviously staged and awfully acted porn videos. Don't people want to get off to things that at least remotely resemble something real?

    • I agree.

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  • Some porn seems to engender some very weird ideas about sex is really like, and what feels good. It can also be very demeaning without context.

    But I don't hate the concept of it. I watch it too.

    I think some women just feel strongly that it's improper. And some feel jealous on a personal level.

    But many have some very legitimate complaints about how trashy much of what is popular is.

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  • Because they are jealous... that is why women hate porn so much...

  • Many different kinds of porn and many different kinds of people watch it

    I don’t like watching lorn but I have no problem with anyone else watching it provides the people acting are doing do consensually and it does not promote violence rape sadism nor humiliation. Unfortunately that stuff seems to be most popular. I think amateur porn seems to be in best taste.. just real people getting it in the way they like.

  • Porn is liberating men...:):):)... we will start WW3 if anyone tried to block our access to it.

    • Kazakhstan, Russia and China and many other cuntries have already banned porn. People's revolts are punished with prison for life or something like that. But these are shitholes, so it's expected.

    • No in Kazakhstan porn is not banned online they just don't allow the local people to make porn or open stripper clubs in country. They have actually banned prostitute business and some popular porn sites like pornhub due to offensive under-aged porn. Russia have no data of banning the pornography in any form in their country and even prostitution is allowed. China has not banned pornography online but again censored some popular sites due to offensive content and those countries are actually not in favour of the PROSTITUTES cuz it devalues woman. I gota accept their Rape and sexual offences rate have gone down pretty fast in matter of years but our Eu/US are in top 5 along with India.

    • Now I'm going to debunk all that:

      Kazakhstan - I have a coworker coming directly from there and he confirmed, that every single porn site is banned there and not only that.

      Russia - I used a VPN in russia before and accessing porn sites has failed. It has either returned a 404 error or a message from the ISP of that VPN server with some official information about the website being banned. It's a totalitarian territory.

      China - I believe wikipedia en.wikipedia.org/.../Websites_blocked_in_mainland_China

      It makes much more sense to me, that sexual assault rates are going down with access to porn since I watch porn myself and don't ever feel the need to grab random women.

      The result is the same - If I cannot access a porn website just like that, then I consider it banned. If the most popular ones are banned, they'd ban all of them in the end.

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  • Well, it encourages perverted views about sex. For example, I did a poll on here once & most guys said that porn is what made them crave anal sex.
    Studies show that anal is a turn-off to more than half of women, but a turn-on to more than half of men.
    So porn affects women by increasing the chance that women will be coerced into unnatural and possibly harmful sexual activities that they don't even enjoy. The anus is designed to be an exit, not an entry.

    • I can fully relate to that. Anal is disgusting. I haven't tried it but I am disgusted by the idea of putting my magic wand into a dirty and stinking hole, that disposes of humanly generated waste (excretion). I don't even like anal porn. Instead I like the real kind of porn. Man and woman make love slowly, then undress, then do their thing feeling like in heaven. Unfortunately I have seen only as few of them as the amount of fingers on one hand. However that is not to say, that the anus mere purpose is an exit of humanly generated bodily wastes. Certain parts in that organ (seem to) trigger sexual pleasure.

  • My girlfriend enjoys porn and doesn't care that I watch it

  • Women spend more than enough time spanking their monkeys. Let's not forget that many admit to women having rape fantasies, so they're not well placed to talk about what is gross or creepy.

  • I personally know 4 women off the top of my head that loves porn. So not sure why you believe women hate porn.

  • I don't like porn cause I think it's annoying. It don't bother me that men watch it thought.

  • Fake-sex porn is a giant fail. For a lot of reasons. It's not about what women 'like'.

  • No. I don't mind. I don't mind watching it with him either.

  • Some do and some don't.

  • Women love porn

    • You sure about that?

    • Certain

  • I think women want to be the center of all men's attention! When that ideal is threatened they get pissed! lol

    They are very jealous of other women.

  • Men that watch porn and masturbate regularly suffer from sexual dysfunctions so yeah they frown on that

  • I think the whole idea of porn is gross and creepy, the thought of watching other people get off is weird to me.

    • You have zero sexual drive. I wouldn’t not be surprised if you thought sex was gross too

    • I don’t think sex is gross. I just don’t find watching other people having sex appealing. Having sex with my own partner is not gross to me.

  • Some do. Some get off on it also