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Do women care more about those who care about them? Or are not only physically attractive, but who they really click with?
Or do they mirror the guy's behavior and treat you how you treat them? Some argue that by treating her like a "slut" she behaves like one. It's an interesting topic, what does everyone think? I always thought that the woman would want to be her dirty sexual self with someone she wants to submit to.
Take the following example and let's discuss what you all think.
The woman = Sweet and kind girl, very feminine. Cute, enjoys scenery and nice people. She does like dancing (classes) and having girly days. Also going for meals and taking pictures of her surroundings when she travels. Interestingly lots of guy friends as well as girls.
The guys =
Guy 1 is a kind and smooth guy friend who is someone she rates highly. He's always impressed her and is someone nice and also talented in many ways. She loves his energy and words, as well as him being polite and a really great guy. She poses with him closely in group and solo shots. Always uplifts her talking about qualities and she's excited to keep in touch and hear from him. Sparse physical compliments, which are genuine and make her blush - is he flirting? Seems very cultured, and her age.
Guy 2 is a brash guy in a different social circle of hers. He can be fun and is a little quirky or posey. Most of the girls know he's a bit of a show off. She has posed a bit like a model in group shots, otherwise pretty normal in solo shots. Very active on facebook and into photography. Ever so slightly younger, in dance class, more frequent physical compliments to many women.
She met both guys when she was already in a relationship. Both are attractive, if anything guy 1 is more physically attractive than guy 2.
Explain which guy she has more care and affection for and who means more from her sexual experiences with both of them below:
FOREPLAY STAGE 1
Guy 1 = they share a passionate kiss after sharing a moment. He moves from her lips to her neck as she breathes heavily and giggles as he moves his head down her breasts to her waist undressing her. She starts undressing him as he lifts her and guides on her onto the couch. He kisses her and gradually moves down to her thighs licking them. He then proceeds to go down on her and she moans in pleasure. He says "Do you like that my sexy girl" saying her name. It's his first time and he's the second person she's ever been with.
Guy 2 = She's just posed for one of his likeaboss photos with other girls. He kisses her lips strongly after a high energy night and they're briefly alone at a houseparty after a club social where she's drunk a little and feeling a little loose. She's taken by surprise as he moves her hands onto his crotch as he rubs her vaginal area through her trousers fast. She's a bit unsure about this, but his touching her down there seems to have aroused her. She happens to be wearing a loose top which he takes off. Can't believe his luck to be with the innocent and sweet girl and she's making out with him. He puts his hands on her shoulders and pushes her onto her knees.
FOREPLAY STAGE 2
Guy 1 = totally turned after receiving and after making out a little and looking at him with adoration, she moves to her knees and takes off his trousers. She licks nervously and then sucks him.
He says "Oh god yes, you're so hot! Yeah lick me like that!" She looks at him and moans for him.
He says "Oh yes my dirty girl, you love sucking me don't you!" to which she replies "Mhmm yes I'm your dirty girl, do you like it?" She loves how excited she's making him.
Stroking her hair, he says "Look at me, oh you're so good! Yes lick it up and down you sexy thing!"
She proceeds to turn him on a lot moaning and laughs and smiles a lot looking at him.
"Yes tell me you love to suck me!" he tells her.
"I love sucking your cock your highness!" she proclaims.
She puts her hands behind her back when he mentions it and then he says "come and join me up here" moving her up to the couch and commands her to "Get on her knees".
Guy 2 = He's still got his clothes on, and has moved her own hand to unzip his trousers. He just moves his cock near her mouth and says "Suck the boss." She sucks the tip and his moan tells her how much he likes it. He starts taking his top off and lets his trousers fall to the floor.
"Yes, suck me, that's it! You love sucking cock don't you". She's a bit loose and running with it and kinda moans a little.
"Moan louder, yeah, that's it, spit on it, go on spit on it!" The command keeps her going despite being nervous.
"Oh f**k yeah suck me you dirty slut!" She continues to suck him a little and moans a little oh.
"F**k yes, what are you, say you're a dirty slut!"
"Get on the couch yeah on your knees" as he sits down and guides her head down with his hand.
She replies a bit nervously "I'm a dirty slut!"
"Yes you are, f**k yeah suck me." She sucks the tip bobbing her head up and down.
"Yeah you want to be fucked hard don't you!"
THE SEX
Guy 1 = both of them are panting and she puts her hands on the couch rest as he slides his cock into her vagina and starts fucking her doggystyle. She moans "Oh yessss" and so does he as he pulls on her hair. She turns to look back at him with a sheer dirty look of pleasure. They both moan in pleasure as he starts softly and starts to fuck her harder.
"You love that don't you! Yes tell me to f**k you harder!" he says
"Yessss f**k me harder hehe" she moans and giggles. He even slaps her ass, though he's nervous about that, but as she purrs his name her does it again.
After a little while, he slowly pulls out and says "Come here".
He sits and has her straddle him and she rides him as they face each other cowgirl.
She moans "Ohhhhh" a lot as she sucks his finger and bounces up and down on him and they hold each other's hands, kiss each other a lot.
Guy 2 = On her knees, she's feeling a little slutty, but then he puts his hard cock into her and she starts to feel turned on. He starts immediately to roughly pound her.
"Yes, you love it hard don't you!" he says and she does start to moan.
"Yes, you dirty little slut!" he slaps her ass as he pounds her and tells her to tell him to fuck her harder.
"Yes f**k me, fuck me harder!" she says as she starts to get going.
He keeps at it, pounding her really fast and hard.
"Yes, you dirty slut! What are you?" he shouts
"I'm a dirty slut!" she sighs as she is starting to get off now. He keeps going focusing on fully enjoying himself.
"Say it again you slut! Tell me to f**k you! You love f**king a hard cock don't you!"
"Mhm yess, f**k me!" she says nervously as she begins to reach pleasure.
ORGASMS AND ANOTHER ROUND
Guy 1 = they hold each other's heads with their hands as they look at each other and both cum moaning each other's names. "Yesssssss!" from both of them. After cuddling and him giving her a massage she proceeds to massage him and then ends up getting him hard again. He looks at her mouth and stands up and she giggles.
She proceeds to give him head and call him her highness again. This time, she knows what he likes and licks his shaft from bottom to top and looks right at him.
"Yess my dirty girl! Suck me, oh god yesss!" he proclaims.
"Mhmmm do you like that!" she moans.
He orders her to put her hands on her knees and "Beg for my cum!" moaning her name.
She isn't quite sure what to do, and opens her mouth moaning and smiling up at him as he cums on her face, in her mouth and a little in her hair. She laughs as she swallows a little and it actually tastes quite good. They both giggle and then they make out.
They cuddle again and fall asleep together. The next morning, they awaken, after he massages her, she gives him head in the shower and they have sex against the wall. Later have breakfast across the road.
Guy 2 = Pounding her as she moans and then pulls out. After a short while of him having maybe dozed off, he briefly fingers her and then guides her hands to do it herself, as he says "Get on your knees yeah!" and guides her lips to his cock as she continues to finger herself. She is almost climaxing as she sucks the tip. He starts to thrust a little into her mouth holding her head.
"Yes suck me!" He mentions her name for the first time in the interaction and then goes "Oh f**k yes, suck me you slut!"
He briefly even takes out his phone and videos it, commanding her to suck him.
As she moans getting herself off, her moaning and sucking are driving him wild and he pulls out and shouts "Beg for my cum you SLUT!!!"
Before she's done anything, he blasts her face with his cum as he moans "F**kkkk!" It's a hot finish for him and she takes it on the face.
He slaps his cock a little on her face afterward laughing. She does a little laugh, but can barely believe how much cum she has on her.
She goes to clean up discreetly in the bathroom and sees him later in the communal lounge where the party stragglers are. He just smirks and they part ways at the end of the night. She sees him at her dance class socials again, but doesn't interact with him intimately again.
WHO DOES SHE CARE FOR OR ENJOY THE MOST?
Your views on the guys, the girl and the sex?
What Girls & Guys Said
16 11Hey it's me the one that said "guys do it too"
This is pretty good since im kinda like the girl in your scenario except I suck at dancing and I'm too awkward and shy to try in front of other people. I have more female friends than male but more male acquaintances than female.
People do think I'm cute but I mostly attract guys outside my social circle. Guys in my social circle are never interested in me like that but guy #1 sounds like a dream.
I wish I had a guy like that, maybe they are somewhere lurking around but aren't making a move or my shyness comes off as cold or closed off.
I just wouldn't do the dirty talk or oral unless we're married... Ideally I'd like my first to also be a virgin but that's rare at my age (him being good looking too caz usually those guys aren't virgins and 99% of the time already have a gf)
Ever thought about writing erotic novels?
Hi! Welcome and happy to see you here. That's great that you can relate and find it helpful. Don't worry about being shy, so long as you send the good guy a signal, he'll come. So you think guy 1 is a dream and what makes that so? I get a certain closeness helps with dirty talk and indeed being fully sexual. I kinda agree with you that I'd like to do that with a close person like a female friend or partner. I mean guy 1 and the girl above are like that. Hahah erotic novels? Do you think I'm that good? In terms of the lady above, what do you think about her and each guy? Did she have dirtier and more fulfiling sex with one more than the other, did she try to please one more? And who did she voluntarily please and care for?
Yes you have a good story line and give details. Maybe a romance novel? The lady above seemed to be trying too hard to please the 2nd guy so he'd like her. She should have stood up for herself instead of just going along with what he wants. I'm not sure if it was more fulfilling since I don't know how she felt afterwards. The 1st guy seemed more on her level and taking things at her own pace. Guy 1 seems like a dream because that's my bf/hubby material and it's hard to find a sweet caring guy who's also physically attractive and most importantly single!!!
Oh thanks! You really think so? I see, in terms of guy 2, was she trying to please him, or was she just running with it in the heat of the party/drinks? E. g. the guy seemed most keen to please himself and not sure exactly but got her giving him head and she didn't seem enthusiastic in reaffirming his requests to say she was a "slut"? With guy 1, she seemed to like him and want to be dirty for him voluntarily? This was at her place and a kiss turned into not only romantic, but dirty sex? She seemed to reaffirm being his dirty girl enthusiastically during giving him head and the sex which seemed to have more variety too? Thoughts?
I agree but I can see why she did what she did with guy 2... she probably wanted him to like her and would do anything also the excitement of a bad boy on the edge makes some feel that spark
Not sure I understand. Just to clarify - BOTH guy 1 and guy 2 are in her social circle though they don't know each other. Guy 1 is suave and charming. He is probably more handsome than guy 2. Guy 2 is a bit of a brash guy - e. g. fb posts, objectifies people and so on. He's not any more exciting than guy 1, just different interests. He happens to be in her dance club as mentioned at the top and they're at a party. She didn't seem to respond and affirm his dirty talk as much to try and "get him to like her" as you say? Do you think she tried to please guy 1 or guy 2? And who did she enjoy the sex with more?
I thought guy 2 was portrayed as more exciting meaning he gets her emotions on a rollercoaster since he's hot & cold. I can't determine which guy's sex she enjoyed more since I'm not her
How do you mean? I don't understand what you mean guy 2 was exciting. Did not guy 1 and her have an exciting time at her place when they started to make out? She seemed to voluntarily respond/affirm him and try to please him. With guy 2 I think she was at someone else's party and it started to happen, but guy 2 seemed to be more about pleasing himself and she was running with it, and not really enjoying it? Dirty talk wise? What do u think?
Any thoughts?
None at the moment
I meant on my reply to you: "How do you mean? I don't understand what you mean guy 2 was exciting. Did not guy 1 and her have an exciting time at her place when they started to make out? She seemed to voluntarily respond/affirm him and try to please him. With guy 2 I think she was at someone else's party and it started to happen, but guy 2 seemed to be more about pleasing himself and she was running with it, and not really enjoying it? Dirty talk wise? What do u think?"
I mean exciting in the sense of being unpredictable
1. How do you mean though? Reading their descriptions of them (both of them are her friends), how is one unpredictable? 2. And did she enjoy one guy more? 3. Who did she prefer before and after sex affection wise?
I don't know how to explain myself more clearly -_-
Well just break it down to the 3 points I just asked. So you mentioned guy 1 was a dream, so in those 3 points I just replied to you with, explain to me?
I've heard this is the case for some girls. For myself and girls I've discussed things like this with I think we all agree we like a nice guy who adores us but treats us like a slut in bed... Kind of the male version of lady in the streets, freak in the sheets.
Guy 1 is the best overall, but guy 2 would get a girl off easier probably. I see it like there are different things- sex, a fuck, and making love. Guy 1 seems more like the sex or make love type, with all the kissing and stuff, but guy 2 could just give her a really good fuck, which really we all need from time to time, even if you love making love.
Very interesting point! So when you say a guy who adores you and treats you like a slut in bed, so you like the concept of being some totally wild girl yes? In terms of guy 1 being best overall, was he not getting the girl off better than guy 2? In terms of the different stages of sex described above? It kinda seemed to me like guy 1 gave her a very good fuck so to speak as well, and she voluntarily tried to please him and be dirty as much as possible? Whereas guy 2 was more about getting himself off and very quick versus the guy 1 sex which was longer and had hard moments as well? What do you think, and give me an example from above to explain your point, I'd like to understand it?
Any thoughts
Pls I would love to hear your thoughts
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for me it would be no 2. As perfect as no1 sounds, I have mostly chosen for guy no. 2 who I knew would just fuck me and dump me, while I could have chosen to start something more serious with guy no 1. that same night, even if it didn't lead to sex. And most of my friends have done the same.
Really so I don't quite understand that though. Why would you want to be dirty for someone who means less to you? In terms of this girl above (as described), was she trying to impress and be dirty for one guy more than the other? Give me an example and who she wanted to please and cared for more?
Why and thoughts
I can fully understand wanting a nasty, primal fuck; I dig dirty primal sex as much as any man. But don't allow men to use you and break your self-esteem. :-/
@Prof_Don Yeah well said. by the way you're free to post your own opinion as well :-) I agree, that sex is better with a connection, feeling etc. In terms of the people above (they are described at the top), who is she affectionate for before sex. And during the sex, who does she try to please and enjoy being dirty for? After sex, who is she affectionate for?
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I'd say 1... but it's could be a personality.. 1 because it seemed to be more intimate.. however that goes along with the fact that she is mirroring you too..
Women tend to do that..
But now guy 2 she's also mirrioring.. but it less sensual and more aggressive.. and on some level that's also a turn on... to me it's regarding her preference. However I'd say she likes both equally
Great insight! Ok so very interesting you started with 1 haha So why 1? I mean it was intimate but it also appeared to get quite sexual/dirty as well didn't it? And she seemed to reciprocate more? As for 2, explain your point, I don't quite get. Did she like him, or was going along? And in terms of the language used with him (voluntarily or not) and guy 1? Does she mirror or prefer anyone?
What do u think?
I mean even guy 1 has these type of moments (taken from above description)? "You love that don't you! Yes tell me to f**k you harder!" he says "Yessss f**k me harder hehe" she moans and giggles. He even slaps her ass, though he's nervous about that, but as she purrs his name her does it again." So is she giving herself to him?
Yes completely... it's actually the readers choice.. what I like... yet another reader might find it differently with the more aggressive partner.. Here's the thing, the man can be the same person.. however she doesn't change.. she is still equally engaged..
Good point. But when you say aggressive/dirty, wasn't guy 1 also dirty? If you read Foreplay stage 2 after he has gone down on her, she gives him head and he's telling her what to say as well? In addition: "Yes tell me to f**k you harder!" he says "Yessss f**k me harder hehe" she moans and giggles. He even slaps her ass..." Was she equally engaged with both as you put it? Or did she prefer and try to please one more? E. g. was she voluntarily actually trying to please one of them more and enjoying herself?
I'd say in my interpretation she enjoyed guy 1 the most.. she wanted to please him... over and over
Interesting, ok! So guy 1 because of? Yes that's a point, on the over and over. So was she trying to impress him and be dirtier for him in terms of actions and the dirty talk? Versus guy 2?
What do u think
Actually I think she was trying to impress guy 2 more Being in that room at that time and place.. very unsure of it all I gathered she tried to impress boy 2.. Boy 1.. was simple and it became more sensual more seductive.. boy 1 kept her yearning, engaged in the physical pleasures giving and receiving.
Overall she likes boy 1 the most
Interesting explain? Did she voluntarily and enthusiastically not try to please guy 1 more? E. g. during giving him head and during sex, she seems to really want to please and make sure he's impressed? With guy 2, it seems like she wasn't that keen on reaffirming his dirty talk - e. g. compare how she responds to saying she is dirty to him compared to guy 1? Was the sex not romantic and also dirty with guy 1? And more enthusiastic (at her place and escalated fast) compared to running with the moment and not being keen on it afterward with 2? E. g. receiving cum from both of them?
Clarify?
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Women are different, so this does not apply to all. Some, yes.
Interesting, but can you elaborate haha? Who does she have care and affection for based on the details above (the woman and 2 guys are described at the top), the sexual interaction is below. It's pretty readable. What do u think?
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Any thoughts on the woman above? So does she care more about one?
Thoughts
I would care more about Guy 1.
Ok, so why? In terms of the woman described, skim reading it, what do you reckon she feels? Was she trying to please guy 1 more? Was she dirtier for either?
She probably feels more connected with Guy 1 but Guy 2 is into more kinkier things. She is likely to enjoy pleasing them both. Guy 2 seems to like kinky things, so she was kinkier with him. Guy 1 could do the same if he replicated what Guy 2 is doing, saying, and so on.
Interesting. So when you say connected with guy 1, explain. I mean I kinda get the impression she was trying to please him more and reciprocating much more - e. g. asking him whether he liked it and also with the dirty names, pleasing him voluntarily. Not to mention the ending seemed way more enthusiastic? With guy 2, explain how you mean? I mean didn't she do the same thing with guy 1? And was she just going along with it?
I should clarify that with guy 1, she also repeated that she was his "dirty girl" when he repeated "Yeah what are you!". With guy 1, she seemed to say it willingly and very quickly?
Any thoughts
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