Do women have fetishes?

Question

I feel like fetishes are predominately exhibited by males, I never hear about many females having any fetishes.

redeyemindtricks · Accepted Answer

[heavy shit]

I mean, sure we do. We just... aren't as forward about TALKING about them, because suddenly it's 12/7/1941 all over again, and our fucking inboxes are the new Pearl Harbor.
Ahem.

Srsly boys, this is yr fault.
Not ALL of you, but, enough of you. Whenever a woman says something interesting about these things... there's always some boy responding with shit like "CAN I MESSAGE U THE THIRST IS REALLLLL"

That. That's the reason why we don't talk about it.

IRL, multiply that x 10000000000 for the scary creepy factor, because "inbox" is suddenly "our bodies and our homes".

[/heavy shit]

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Anywaysss

I have lots of interesting little... uniquenesses (lol) but the thing that most deserves to be called a "fetish" is this weird love I have for tasting and smelling MYSELF, all over my man, in a sexual context.

I mean... I like myself.
LOL
Also, there's a certain aspect of "marking my territory" associated with this.
But, if I can just completely *saturate* my husband with ME, then, my own sexual satisfaction is just amplified by... thousands of times.

I'll give my husband a nice, hot, barbershop-style straight-razor shave, and then lay him back on the pillows... and I'll get up on top of him facing reverse, grip his obliques nice and tight, and ride the everloving shit out of his mouth and chin until I've scrubbed EVERY possible taste or smell off of him except ME. Me me me me me. Wifey.
Oh yeah, I'll fuck that boy's face until he's got a flash flood running down into the hollow of his neck. Then I'll give him a nice deep relaxing shoulder and neck massage, and rub the sweet smell of ME deep, deep into him. He'll smell like wifey for DAYS.
Mmhmm.

Then I'll make sweet, long, hard love to MY man.

And when I kiss him, and I taste *myself* all over his lips... ahhhhhh you've never seen a woman's whole body explode so hard.
#fuckyeah

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I mean, this goes waaaayyy back, too -- all the way to when I was first sexually active. I used to take boys' condoms off, have a few seconds of unprotected sex, and then finish them with my mouth... just so I could taste *myself*. Wasn't even about them, really. Lol I'm a horrible person who is going to hell.
(Yes, I was on birth control. Big walloping early-'90's doses of it -- several times what's in most of today's pills.)

brianna_b · Accepted Answer

I guess it could depend on what we mean specifically when we say "fetish." I bet most girls I know have one, of some kind, though. Maybe girls are very unlikely to discuss them with guys they aren't intimate with. :)

Jxpxtxr · Accepted Answer

That's because fetishes are in fact predominately exhibited by males.
But I'm sure there are plenty of women who have fetishes, too.

Personally I have kinks but nothing that would qualify as a fetish.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Few people have fetishes mate, men or women. If we're using fetishes to mean kinks then sure. Female kinks are usually just down to:

A. Being submissive to varying degrees (60-70% of girls reportedly fantasy about being raped)
B. Having sex with other girls. Not sure if that counts as a kink but it is the second most common one.

Then there is of course a small number with all kinds of other interests.