Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
When it comes to being able to get laid, women in general hold the most power (as to whether that happens or not). Most women, don't have to initiate a conversation with a man in order to capture his interest for a one-nighter. All we have to do, is put on clothing that flatters us, style our hair, and the power is all ours, when we enter into a nightclub with pure intent to get laid.
Our looks that attract will have a flock of men noticing and approaching us.
Why do women hold so much power? We do, because there's a old fashioned mentality circulating in this world, where men have to be the aggressors. They have to go after what they want.
Although times are changing, and women are finally stepping up there's still a fair amount of people set in that mentality.
When a man finally builds up enough courage to pursue the woman of his interest, it is our choice as to whether we give that man the green or red light.
Most men are in a situation, where they have to have confidence and courage, to walk up to a girl and attempt to make things happen. If a man lacks this courage, most likely he will be overlooked by tons of women. He will have a hard time getting laid!
If a man is extrememly unattractive and in combination with that, does not know how to talk to women he is at a huge disadvantage, unless he works on the way he expresses himself towards the opposite sex.
I've seen very unattractive women be able to get laid.
They don't have to be the smartest, the best dressed, or the most lady like but it's still easier for them
as opposed to an unattractive man.
The sole fact that the ball is most likely in their court, is again what gives them the power.
If the shoe was on the other foot, and we lived in a society where men typically had to stand back and wait to be interacted with at social settings, i would say men have it easier getting laid.
But until then this view point stands.
What do you think?
What Girls & Guys Said
17 64Yeah it's totally easier for us.
@SakuraCherryBlossoms www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a25202-guys-have-a-harder-time-getting-sex
Yes, by a long shot. If a girl goes out looking to get laid and she's decent looking, 99% of the time she will. The same cannot be said for a guy.
Does that mean all women are sluts or promiscuous? No, that's just how it is.
It's quite obvious that they get laid more than men, once she shows up anywhere she is going to get someone to carry home. With men it's like a card game if your hand isn't worth shit your not getting nothing on the night or any night.
You know what grates the living shit out of me @stacyzee is that us guys know this, its the most obvious thing, but women don't get this or the implications thereof. That's why we look thirsty, because we are thirsty, while girls hold the bottle of water. That's fine, but then women dismiss "thirsty guys" as bad, you forget about this little fact that women can get it so easy.
At the end of the day, this is a FACT: Women can CHOOSE their sexual path. Many men can't.
Then what really FUCKS me off beyond measure is when I put up a "why prostitutes rule" my take, or something along those lines and everyone of you women (including you missy) argue against it, knowing very well that a man has no choice. Its abstain (boring) or get out there and get it (including prostitutes, playing women, whatever it takes).
Then... lol... this fucks me off even more ha ha, women hate players, the shit that I write, "alpha bullshit" etc and yet Corey Wayne is one of these dudes, and what he says is everything I have said and yet women will listen to him and not some of us guys on GAG.
So in summary, my stance still stands: Men MUST play women to get on the level that women are born with, Men who get a lot of women deserve their "stud" labels, and men shouldn't be afraid to use prostitutes. In fact, I would love to see a world where using sex workers is so common that my mom asks how it went ha ha. If you disagree, please read this mytake, think about the implications for men and come back to me.
Yes, I argued against prostitution for the simple fact I feel it is a pathetic last resort. It is also illegal. Many women that are prostitutes are trafficked , have some psychological issue , or have are std because of their high exposure to many men over the course of a short time. Very few women actually love what they do (let's not be fooled by the act they give you when you hand them over money ), I'm talking about deeply , internally when the day is over and the act fades away. I understand why these services are used but my outlook definitely changes when a guy resorts to using it especially when he becomes addicted like you have. Correct me if I am wrong , pretty much all your sexual experiences including the loss of your virginity came from prostitutes. I see this as psychologically damaging to men who rely on those services. It is unhealthy long term because men like you give up on regular women and end up spending a great majority of cash to satisfy their
urge for women who only want what is in your wallet and not your heart. This can not only he psychologically damaging but financially damaging as well , depending on the frequency of how often you go.
Lol... damaged heart, that came long ago from lack of love, not prostitutes. Psychological damage comes from your childhood years and is reinforced through your teens. Sex: For me it came when I reached a tipping point: die a virgin or not? But to be honest, I lost my virginity to a stripper who screwed me on a couch because she couldn't contain a lapdance. A stripper, not any one of my friends that were girls saw my sexual worth, so forgive me if I am more in support of them over other types of women. My point with prozzies is that it wouldn't be psychology damaging if people like you didn't project it as such. and I'm not addicted to them, I'm an advocate of them. I hope all men that can't choose their sexual path realise they can get it through prozzies. very simple. My number count is half prozzies, half normal. I only use prozzies for things I can't get. Like I paid for a model so I could at least say "I banged a 10" before I die.
But even so, men are damned if they do , damned if they don't, with each outcome being psychologically damaging.
You didn't address any of my concerns pertaining how detrimental prostitutes are to themselves and can be to you. We've crossed paths too many times for you to not acknowledge that psychologically for the most part you rely on prostitutes as the easy way out. Also, a stripper isn't a far fetch from a prostitute. You pay most of them a little extra and they will sleep with you. 90% of strippers are prostitutes. You still lost it to someone in sex service.
Lol, let's move away from psychological stuff because, as mentioned, the real argument is: did psychological damage cause the behaviour, or was it an attempt at the behaviour that caused the damage? what interests me though is when you say "prostitutes are an easy way out". A) yeah, for many men, they are the ONLY way, especially when it comes to getting crazy sex acts (when wifey refuses to do anal for example) b) why should any man take the hard road for something that comes so easy to women and those minority men? It just makes logical sense to get a prostitute then. And yes I lost my v card to a stripper in a communal lounge, but I didn't pay for it... and we got into shit with the bouncers. My main problem in my life is that I can't get that again😏 that was hot. I'm a naughty nice guy, but nice guys don't attract naughty women. That's my personal issue. Put that on record.
Prostitution should be illegal because not many of them actually like the job? If that was the criteria most jobs would be illegal. Besides, legalizing it would REDUCE the amount of trafficking and such because it would bring it out of the sordid underground it exists in today. It is legal in a lot of countries today.
@zagor dude, don't worry, it's wasted here. She's made her mind up. You can throw evidence her way and she still wouldn't see it. I could tell her to read some call girl biographies but she will project it as wrong based on her opinions. Women don't see the shit that men do because they don't know it. It's like a man trying to discuss periods. I can throw my opinions on what I think it would be like, but I would never know. I at least admit I don't know, women don't (with the realities of relationships)
@Zagor Nice of you to jump on the bandwagon. We're talking about people that are most likely drug addicts, trafficked, were sexually abused, molested, raped, etc. and this profession seems okay to you? So, you wouldn't mind if your daughter grew up and said she doesn't want to go to school because she'd rather lay on her back for a living when she reaches 18? Crime will always occur no matter if a reduction takes place. Laying on your back is not a job.
@Scrambledagain You can justify it all you want. But I would never be with a man that's been with a shit load of prostitutes, it sounds dingy and dirty. Good luck finding a quality woman that would be okay with that. Of course these prostitutes will do crazy sex acts, not because they WANT to but because you are PAYING them to. Why don't you pay your WIFEY a couple of hundred? and see how quickly she leaps!
You guys are acting like prostitutes are doing this because they genuinely care. They don't. They a zombies for the cash. Don't you want a woman that wants you back? Doesn't that turn you on more? Apparently not.
@stacyzee yeah I understand you (and many women, maybe even prostitutes) wouldn't be with a guy who had been with some, but my argument is that it's illogical? Why? The intention of the guy is exactly the same as a women who wants casual sex. But this is where you (and most women) get it wrong: some guys can't get quality women. A quality guy doesn't always get quality women. and sexual acts? No... lol, would you be up for a threesome? Would your husband be allowed that? Mmf? Exhibitionism? its funny, many women only seem to get adventurous when you pay for it. Very few do it for fun (in comparison to men anyway) And no, I do not for one second think they care at all. Where do I imply that? first prize would be to attract a girl that cares and could be a "sex wing girl" to have fun with. But many guys cannot get that? Do you understand that? Only rich and/or handsome men can dictate their sex life on the level of the average girl.
This is absolutely true and I'm happy there is a part of the internet that will just say this. Feminists and society are so focused on aggressive rapists that they think all guys are like that and all women are victims. They forget all about female privilege.
By the way, the above article also applies to online dating. Good luck sirs. Girls, all they have to do is pick and choose. Guys... even if there is a girl you like, there's a 99% chance she won't like you back. That means you have to try 100 girls before you get one. Imagine that girls... get denounced 99 times before you get 1... and women think they have self esteem issues because of men... ya!
Of course they do. Lmaoo, then they get pissed if we don't approach them right then. If we go in an hour later i get the cold shoulder... the fuck.
Lol it is funny how feminists want women to appear as sexual and peomiscuous as men.
If you think it's harder for a woman to get laid, you're probably brain dead. That or fat.
Yea, you totally didn't read what I said at all.
I feel they do, but I could be wrong.
Perhaps, perhaps not. Not my concern.
Meh. Both have power but it's different.
Yes, women can get sex easier, but not with anyone. They'd like a guy who's the best of the best.
Guys who can show they are the best can attract women easily, and you could say they have the power.
It's a power struggle.
Yes. Full stop.
+1 For Corey Wayne.
Its so easy for chicks yet they still like to complain it pisses me off. the thing is though most women don't just wanna get laid they want to have an actual relationship which just as hard for women and men when it comes to that.
Women have 1 thing all straight guys want. Pussy. Yes, it is much easier for a woman. Just the right look at a guy and we're all yours.
A direct sexual advance by a dude is regarded as creepy
A direct sexual advance by a female is regarded as a miracle to take advantage of
Bud, the animal debate is whatever, But this "A direct sexual advance by a female is regarded as a miracle to take advantage of " is so genius ha ha. I love it
Hear hear!!! Shame I can't like this answer twice! :D
@vlrdngr It's okay I forgive you for not doing so :'( but yeah amen amen!
Women are allowed to be selective given how many partners are made available. Men however have to hustle and keep on looking and risk rejection after rejection before finally scoring with the right woman.
I haven't had any in 2 years. so I think women have it easier
Is this supposed to be a serious question?
I answered it already clearly and I am asking for other people's opinions to build a discussion. if you don't want to participate in this discussion I can gladly remove your comment since you're not being forced to do anything here.
If we remove the taboo of women having sex and stop calling them names like "slut" for enjoying casual sex. It will be equally easy for both.
I find it very surprising, ironic and sad that some men complaint that women won't have casual sex like men but those same men will say how much of a bitch or whore the woman is for giving sex easy.
"Women dont get sex easy, Men give it to them easy"
If someone is given something, they get it. Therefore your last sentence is bullshit. Just like the rest of your comment. Women who sleep around are called sluts, because it's easy for them. If they weren't called sluts it still wouldn't be equally easy.
@inneedofaname "If someone is given something, they get it" Of course, those women are not having sex with chimpanzees are they? So, obviously the person who gave sex recieved it too. Its like trading. Its about who is more open to casual sex. If Women want to trade, men agree and trade with them. But if a man want to trade, women dont easily do because of social formation. I am saying that if we remove the labels from women they will be as much open as us about casual sex. Because they will not have to tackle society and those labels for that.
And what you are saying is just wrong. Women tend to see themselves as being better and worth more, they feel like they are entitled to men hitting on them. Meaning that even if they were not called sluts, what those females who sleep around are however, they would still expect men to do all the shit.
@inneedofaname Okay you are thinking from a different point of view. I got that and I respect it. Those self entitled girls huh? Yeah thats also one one the points. But do you know why they have that attitude? Its because men feed their ego all the time by giving them sex ( trading) easily. Men should say NO to them offering sex often to bring them down to earth.. Dont you think so?
Excellent point @IceEverest. You just made my day.
@Chief16 Thank you... That I was helpful.
@IceEverest Actually, amigo, any time a woman would ever even try to ask a guy for sex, she's really making it very easy for the guy to get.
@ManOnFire True...
Yes I think they do.