Do women lie about their virginity to get with a guy?

I'm a virgin and I only want to be with another virgin. I've had things happen in my childhood that's made me very uncomfortable with sex and dating. I'm actually embarrassed to talk about it in person. I've tried to get out there but always shy away from it, after years of thinking ant trying to understand myself, dating someone at the same level just feels right for me.

I tend to worry about this. I have nothing against non virgin women, but if someone were to lie to me and rob me of my sexuality just for me to find out later that I'm not that special would be cruel.

It's hard to believe that someone would lie about being a virgin, but it has happened, and I would be devastated if it happened to me.
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Superb Opinion

  • I suppose some women have before but I can account for myself and say I have never lied about my personal virginity or how many people I have slept with. The thing with this is people can lie. Maybe you aren’t that special of a guy to others, but if a woman seeks value in you and does lie per say, what would you even do about it if she does take your virginity?

    • I'd break up with her and probably give up on dating. Not because she's not a virgin, but because she lied to me.

    • @asker why give up on dating? What happens if a girl takes your virginity and you also take hers and the relationship just doesn’t work out?

    • I don't know, I've never done this before. If I find someone I want to be with her for life. I'd make sure the relationship is strong enough before hopping in bed.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Oh yes, almost universal that they will say less than reality while a lot will say a virgin, if that will get them the man they want.

    Thankfully it can be "checked" but not always, sometimes it does break on "its own" or if they like to use toys.

    Go get a church woman. A lot of virgins there and good women.

    I got mine there, at a charity event. Now she is a sex crazed atheist like me, but hey, she is still a good wife.

    Good luck man, no shame in having past trauma, that's just life.

  • Women and men in general will lie about all types of things for sex... so yes women will lie.

    If I was you I would take some time to straighten out what ever I need to address about myself and fix, before having sex with anyone. Because honestly not may virgins out there over the age of 20 these days... so you need to get with it.

Most Helpful Girl

  • I'm also not a virgin and I completely understand that you wouldn't want to be with a non-virgin and while I would never lie to a guy about virginity, I could definitely see where some girls would, especially if they think that is important to you and they really like you.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • everybody lies, so in answer to ur q, then yes, it’s possible. but not common

  • Yes she can lie, maybe you should not tell her that you want a virgin, at first.

  • Lol ofc people lie about it guys and women

  • The only time I have experienced any female lying about their virginity wasn't really lying because spiritually they still felt as though they were a virgin. Physically they may not have been because if some horrible incident. Would you hold it against a woman who claimed to still be a virgin just for you to finally have sex and find out she isn't? Have you ever masturbated? If so then your not a virgin! Same as if she had ever masturbated...

  • Some probably do

  • I have never lied. Can’t say for others

  • I originally wanted to be with a virgin for my first time until about 25, then I gave up. I was lucky that my girlfriend was a virgin when I wasn't even looking for one.

  • I am a virgin but it's not something I would talk about

    • well you just did

    • She said it anonymous

    • and every girl on here says that anonly lol

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