Do women orgasm everytime they have Sex?

[Anonymous]

Even though their guy is good in bed, are there times when they don't orgasm? What are the driving factors?

[Anonymous]

It's not uncommon for a woman not to achieve orgasm each and every time, especially if you're skipping foreplay. Most women need oral or manual stimulation to the clit to orgasm. Some women can cum from penetration alone but usually there needs to be clitoral stimulation. Missionary is good for this because your pelvis will rub against her clit. Otherwise you or she can play with her clit while having sex so she can cum during penetration.
Factors that lower the chance of her orgasming can include less foreplay than needed, depending in the woman she may need 5 minutes or 50 to really get going.
She may not be mentally into it, men can compartmentalize things better than women, in my opinion, so if she's worried about something or her mind is otherwise occupied it can be difficult to be in the moment and enjoy sex to the fullest. Keep in mind, just because she doesn't cum it doesn't mean she's not enjoying it.
Bottom line though, if this is an issue you're actually having with your girl and not just a random question then your best bet is to talk to her about it, one trick doesn't work for all women. You need to find out what SHE needs you to do for her.

[Asker]

Now that was pretty conclusive. Thank you!!

[Opinion Owner]

Absolutely. Glad I could help. 😊

[Mr1derful]

Great insight and totally agree. You have to know her needs and wants and explore her and it's actually so much fun to ensure she has one and I will always go to all costs to ensure we both have one and hopefully together. Start by relaxing her and use a nice massage oil or clit stimuating warming or cooling gel on her. Give her a nice massage there with your hands and seeing what pressure she likes. You can mix in oral or using toys, vibes, etc has always done the trick for me! But once she is all worked up she will grab you or get on top of you and you can finish her off and climax together!

[whilstinlove]

well said.

[P31chica]

It depends. Most women orgasm through fore play because of clitoral stimulation but some also can orgasm through penetration. There's a lot of factors that add into a woman's orgasm. She's got to feel comfortable
Her mind has got to be stimulated, As well as her body etc...

[Asker]

Ahh, you talked about mind. I really appriciate that :)

[P31chica]

Just speaking truth. There is a lot of factors that factor into a woman's orgasm and it's not just if the guy knows what he is doing

[Asker]

Yes I completely agree. There could be days for guys when they are stressed out and just can get in action even though their women may want to

[P31chica]

There's days that guys might not feel in the mood for it. But a girl always knows how to get a guy up js lol guys are physical creatures

[Asker]

Haha, I am sure you are good with that. Your guy must be lucky to have you

[P31chica]

Well im single has now but I have my eye on someone. Who's trying to persue me. Will see how it goes

[Asker]

Ahh, I am single too. I so wish us to be together😂 Never mind!!

[P31chica]

Lol why do I get that all the time!!

[Asker]

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[P31chica]

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[Asker]

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[ShaunaM95]

I've never had an orgasm when having sex. Usually only happens during foreplay.

[Asker]

So you have your orgasm during foreplay?

[ShaunaM95]

Yes..

[Asker]

So are you able to orgasm everytime you foreplay with your guy?

[ShaunaM95]

Yes I am

[Asker]

Sounds good. What does your foreplay involve & approx how much time it takes you to orgasm from what you do in a foreplay?

[worldscolide]

I always make sure my wife has an orgasm, though most of the time it happens during foreplay, unless she's on top.

[Asker]

In your experience, what foreplay techniques leads to her orgasm? And how intense they are compared to orgasm from intercourse?

[worldscolide]

Lol, oral always does it for her

[Asker]

Sure you are good at it. Between, how much time it takes her to orgasm through oral?

[worldscolide]

I'm sorry, but that's not really your business so I'm not going to answer.

[Asker]

Haha, interesting.. no problem

[STR8guy]

Dont have sex for yourself do what she likes and she should cum, try to maje her cum multiple times

[coralee]

Women in general do not orgasm every time they have sex. Many women can not orgasm for penetrative sex alone, so rushing foreplay is a bad move. Mindset it a big thing too, if she's distracted it's harder for her to orgasm.

[kittycat119]

Depends honestly. I know I always cum during foreplay with my guy and sometimes during sex. But sometimes I just don't because most women can't achieve vaginal orgasms oddly enough

[Asker]

So what do you think could be done to make you orgasm when you didn't? Or is this just a mood think & nothing can be done about it?

[kittycat119]

Well like I said most women can't cum that way. They need clitoral stimulation 2 b able 2 so maybe more of that

[Asker]

So oral sex is better bet than intercourse?

[kittycat119]

Sometimes yes

[Asker]

But you said you always orgasm through foreplay. So I am assuming is always oral. So that should be your first choice, isn't it? ;)

[kittycat119]

It's never been oral 4 me actually. I've only given my partner oral, he's never given it 2 me. He's only fingered me and had sex with me

[Asker]

Okay!! So fingering gives you orgasm..

[kittycat119]

Yes.

[Warmapplecrumble]

90 percent of the time, I orgasm.

Sometimes I feel sick, sad, emotional, dehydrated. So I don't really get a orgasm.

[Asker]

And what makes you orgasm the most: intercourse or oral or anything else?

[Warmapplecrumble]

Vaginal intercourse where his body slightly hits my clitoris, it makes me orgasm a lot

[Asker]

I really hate to bring it on but, does bigger penis size contributes to orgasm through vaginal intercourse?

[Warmapplecrumble]

Well I am quite small lengthwise, so ideal is 6". Anything too big hurts. But 6" enough to feel the whole penis. Also I don't really use dildos or do fingering etc, so I notice if I don't have sex in a while... it gets pretty tight. So too big for me hurts. But I do understand that the feeling the penis reach everywhere and touch everywhere feels nice. I don't think it effects the orgasm. The orgasm is easily reached if somehow your body slightly touches the clitoris during intercourse. Also when the tip is just at the very start of the vagina, and moves slightly... it can create a big orgasm. It definitely increases natural lubrication.

[Asker]

Thanks! What you mean by tip.."move slightly" , is clitoris not fixed at the start of the vagina? Also according to you, orgasm only happens at the clitoris, but what about sensations on the g-spot which is inside of vagina, does it even exist?

[Warmapplecrumble]

Clitoris is longer than it seems and has many connections. There is the g-spot too. Orgasm happens both at clitoris and g-spot for me and that gives me most pleasure. I require intercourse and very little stimulation on the clitoris.

[Warmapplecrumble]

If you put the tip of your penis at the entrance of the vagina, and not go inside. The vagina will lubricate, swell. If you keep teasing eventually she will ejaculate like after 40 minutes.

[Asker]

Ahha, so 40 mins of teasing & no intercourse will make woman orgasm, wow!! This will require a man to be extra patient, also not all women will have that much patience level, I guess.. Between, by putting the tip on the entrance you mean rubbing continuously, right?

[Warmapplecrumble]

No interesting penis ever so little in the vagina... yeah pretty much teasing her to the maximum

[Warmapplecrumble]

Inserting not interesting*** lmao

[Asker]

Wow you are so amazing!! I actually like to take things slow, tease and be teased. But my ex would get really crazy and start telling me to penetrate and all, she didn't even let me oral her properly. Maybe because she was inexperienced or some girls are like that, that I won't like now ofcourse..

[Warmapplecrumble]

No thats normal, she will scream for more.. you just keep teasing

[Asker]

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[Warmapplecrumble]

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[Asker]

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[Asker]

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[Warmapplecrumble]

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[Asker]

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[Elliegirl]

Unfortunately, no. We don't orgasm every time. The trade off is we can have multiple orgasms I relatively rapid succession.

[Asker]

Haha, yea. Getting multiple orgasms is really cool

[GirlRay]

Nope. Mostly orgasm on the outside.

[Asker]

You mean fake?

[GirlRay]

No; clit.

[GirlRay]

Not during intercourse.

[Asker]

Okay, so more oral I guess

[GirlRay]

Yes.

[jacquesvol]

If the guy knows how to.

[KatherineJ]

I wish!!!

[Asker]

It is psychological or something which you miss during sex?

[KatherineJ]

It could be anything or nothing.

[Asker]

Oh really

[KatherineJ]

Yep. Most of the time it's mental.

[averagejoe805]

The majority of women cannot reach orgasm from intercourse alone. Oral sex and plenty of clitoral stimulation helps.

[Rayofmoonshine]

Hell to the no.

[DizzyAster]

No, vaginal sex doesn't always make a women orgasm.
Clitoral stimulation is a better bet.

[Asker]

But what about g-spot, which is 2 inches inside vagina?

[DizzyAster]

I don't know shit about that, I just stick with the tried and true method of eating the pussy!!!

[Asker]

Yeah that works. And idea how much time it takes to orgasm through oral?

[DizzyAster]

Depends on lots of things. Time of day, her emotional state, if she started horny or not.

[JustCallMeLeon]

If the girl is mentally ready she will cum the moment you stick it in. Keeping your girl horny 24/7 is vital. If you dont, a great deal of foreplay will be needed unless she is a super quick cummer.

[Warmapplecrumble]

Actually this is true

[CT_CD]

No..

[Uncut]

I always make sure I give my girl an O

[Asker]

How?

[Uncut]

With my cock or oral

[TheAshCooper]

Personally I only let a girl down if I'm drunk. Gotta heat up the oven before cooking

[Anonymous]

No. Women orgasm a lot less often than men do during sex because what they need to orgasm gets ignored.

[Asker]

Please feel free to explain. I would like to know

[Anonymous]

Not every time no, it can depend on where she is in her cycle, sometimes she just won't feel as sensitive and other times that sensitivity will be heightened! That doesn't mean you've failed though or she doesn't enjoy it!

[Opinion Owner]

I'd say most of the time she does but it's just not guaranteed every single time.

[Anonymous]

I rarely fully orgasm. I either dont at all or experience a "small" orgasm.

[Asker]

Oral or intercourse? Or anything else?

[Opinion Owner]

Both. High chances though with oral of actually orgasming.

[Asker]

Then may be you are not receiving enough oral as much you need

[Opinion Owner]

That has nothing to do with it

[Asker]

Ah okay