First of all, you're not too old for this site. The best conversations I have on here are from the 40+ crowd. Just read the moronic replies you've gotten on this question.
1. Go online and get him some free pills. They work magic.
2. You said you feel pressure. Most women would kill to have a boyfriend who cares about them getting an orgasm, because many would rather just get theirs, and fall asleep.
3. In the movie, "Space Cowboys" Donald Sutherland said that he likes to help women discover their infinite supply of orgasms. If you don't want them, then tell him that. If you do, teach him how he can get you to the promise land.
thanks for your comment. No i dont need pills for me. I never said anything about him “caring” about me orgasming…. He “expects it”…. Which puts pressure on me to be inauthentic…. Plus he has DIFFERENT expctations for himself. Suppose i expected that from him EVERY time…. Noticeable from the poll, men AND women both dont orgasm all the time…. Im glad the poll exists as it helps my understanding that im not alone.
Hun, the pills weren't for you, they were for him.
I don't know your situation, but if he just expects your orgasms to magically happen, then I can totally see your frustration. It just doesn't work like that. But if you're asking if it's possible for you to orgasm every time, then, yes, it is.
My boyfriend is an ex marine. They are trained to "improvise, adapt and overcome." And they never give up.
My boyfriend doesn't give up until this fat lady sings. lol
I do whenever we are intimate. I’m not going to go into explicit details here but I cannot orgasm from penetration alone, if you get the picture. That is about all I will say about it.
So long as you are satisfied, there is no problem. I don’t know why he expects you to “perform” every time. I would also resent the pressure. It isn’t going to help matters either if you have that mental block about it like if you don’t there will be disappointment.
thanks you for your understanding and feedback. and YES! I get the picture✅. Now He approaches OFTEN (no matter if i desire. Or not) expecting and orgasm for the reason of getting a thrill/satisfaction from when i do.(not w the intention of pleasing me) plus all activity stops after that…. Ok responders, guess what? I also get satisfaction for my man to orgasm when i put in a great effort for that plus when i approach him i make sure he agrees to intimate play. Ps i dont know why someone gave you the straightface for your awsome answer
@verdepaws I agree with you. There is that psychological part where now you are worried if you don’t and that just makes it even harder because it is on your mind instead of just enjoying intimacy. Don’t worry about the downvote. Those are just trolls that love to downvote me. Means nothing though. Likely they had their account frozen by at some point for violating the rules and they are bitter. Who knows….
I feel this question is more for women but I always make sure my girlfriend orgasms before I do and try to last so I make sure she is sastified. I usually eat her out which gets the job done because I was taught by a older woman until I was a pro at it but if I feel she needs another or she not completely sastified I give her the pounding of her life as long I can till she orgasms or maybe let her take control so she can use me to make herself orgasm.
if men read my “my take “ they would lol it’s not that hard and your dick size only matters if you allow it to, and that’s coming from a 9 inches long and thick black man 😂🍆💦👅
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Nah definitely not. Orgasms aren't that big of a deal to me during sex. I'm having sex for the intimacy not just to orgasm.
Tell if he wants you to orgasm everything he'd better get used to giving you some good oral rather then just using his limp dick.
Every time what
My partners 95% yes ;)
Dude at the age of 56
You're playing boyfriend boyfriend. ?
You should have him read about the orgasm gap.
The amount of men in here thinking they are making their partners climax every time make me laugh
No, I think if that were true, than their would be a lot more happier girls in the world.
Sorry to hear that I guess. I make my girlfriend orgasm most of the time but she told me I have nice thickness so maybe thats why
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