Do women really need to come during sex?

why not just let the guy bust a nut or two and be done? I don't really mean to offend, but getting girls off is just so tedious, it always takes a long time! And they will nag you if they sense you even think about being done once you are done
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  • It's actually not that hard in general, it is tediose if you think just pounding at her vag like a wood pecker is all that's required.
    If you are doing it for pleasure and not just specifically to only procreate, then it would serve you well to remember, the journey is more enjoyable than the destination.
    Learning the small things about the womans body that she has gracefully entrusted to you is key to a reciprocal expireiance. I would walk up behind my ex and I'd make sure she was busy and flustered and in now way interested or available to take a length of cock. She was like a praying mantis ready to kill but because I made it my life to know every inch of her body and mind, I had all I needed to take her down even when it looked like she was about to unleash hell on earth. Walk up just let her feel my finger tips touch her neck as I move her hair to one side, soft slow touch down her shoulders, making sure she feels my breath on her neck as hand gently hold her waist, I have barley touched her in a extreamly volatile mood, she doesn't even realise she has almost become motionless, kissing her neck to leave it a little wet for my breath to cool her, hand drop gently so I sneekingly brush my fingers across the inside of her wrists a nibble on her ear as I build the intensity only so slightly, move a hand to her breath and another to her crouch, slow but firmly pulling her in to my chest and letting her feel me cock pressed against her. Then I just let go and walk off grinning, as I watch a grown adult actually jump up and down saying babe don't, and she would get the sadest look on her face, bottom lip dropped and eyes going to cry and quiet a few times she would ball her eyes out and I would have to go back and hug her.. I wasn't trying to have sex I trying to turn a angry woman back to the calm appreciated beautiful woman she was. I ended up knowing her so well I could turn her to jelly in fifteen seconds and usually changing her knickers soon after. Every woman has their own special places on their body that respond in a very powerfull way and if you know her mind and body better than her, it is no effort for her to orgasim and you can roll over like a bum and go to sleep cos most women are bloody greatfull to even get of once, twice is like winning lotto.
    This is my contribution for today and blokes I'm right, trust me, not one women will correct me on this comment x

  • No , women don't need to cum during sex.

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  • yes. Assuming guys prefer to be with one person with whom not only they know will be a good source of emotional support, as well as someone they know they can fuck on the regular.

  • i don't, most times i just like the sex itself and if i want to cum and i can do it later

    i think most girls don't need it as much as guys think

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  • They need their orgasms for the same reason we need ours. It's the culmination of sex.

  • Tbh man if shit's done right and if they are in the mood it shouldn't take that long. Especially if they are really horny. Just mho.
    , Matt

  • If getting a woman to the point of orgasm is tedious for you, then you must be doing something horribly wrong!!!

  • did you really ask this question? are you really expecting something for nothing? do you expect a girl to love and respect you when she does most of the "giving" while you do most of the "taking"? do you think a girl who has to make sure you're satisfied without any promise or expectation or reciprocity is going to stay with you for very long?

    yes, women NEED to cum during sex in the same way that you do... maybe not ALL the time everytime, but they need the release just like you do...

    once you get rich and can hire your women to come in and please you, then you can expect her to get you off without any need for you to worry about her.

  • If you want to nut, the least you can do is make the girl cum
    Otherwise hire a prostitute where they're used to men who can't have decent sex.

  • Well sure it can be tedious and hard to get them off, but it's pretty selfish to just flat out "not care" if she orgasms.

    It's not their fault that their junk is more complicated and hard to make them orgasm, im 99.9% sure they aren't hard to get off on purpose.

    If you aren't at least whiling to try to get her off you dont deserve her, you want a quick but? Just go jerk off and leave her alone, she's not a sex doll.

    Not trying to roast you but really dude, that's the most selfish thought I've read in a long time.
    Dont be selfish.

  • you joking right?

    • Not really, I do think it gets tedious once I'm done.

    • Then don't come until she's done. Sex is mutual pleasure. Why do you need to come then, if you're not conceiving a baby? Everyone needs to come to get satisfied.

  • When a woman comes that's pretty much when she is the hottest she will ever be.
    If a man doesn't care enough to see that, then perhaps he is just gay.

  • If you do t care about being good in bed... then nah, women don’t need to come.

  • So just a thought, why did you decide to ask this question under an anonymous mask?

    Ladies, on behalf of the Y chromosomes NOT so incredibly dumb, we're sorry... This guy doesn't speak for all of us!

  • Do men really need to come during sex? Why not let your girl squirt on your dick and be done? I don't mean to offend but getting men off is so messy, and it never lasts long enough! And they will act like it's your fault you didn't cum in the 30 seconds it took them to nut

  • Troll but a cute one lol

  • Sounds like the ladies will be lining up at your door. Who could resist?

  • I wish i had your problem it takes me 30 minutes finish and half time she gets sore so i half just finish on her face

  • YES, WE DO!

    • Oh I forgot that women are not supposed to feel anything. They're just supposed to lay there and be pretty.

    • This guy sounds like a rotten lay.

    • @Whtevernever probably trolling us.

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  • Mate, if you know how to deal with a clit it takes like 2 minutes. Come on. Don't be selfish.

  • If you make her feel good, she will work harder to make sure that you feel good. See how that works? It's like trading Yu-Gi-Oh cards. Except the monsters you're beating are personal insecurities, and the curses are the disparaging remarks her girlfriends will try to make when she describes with misty-distant eyes, the way your cock bends in an "interesting" way and secretly makes her toes curl.

  • Ok that shit is just selfish, I can't come until the girl Im with comes at least twice. Women need to come too.

  • Making love is about pleasing your partner. If that is not your goal, why not just masturbate?

  • It's not biologically necessary

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