If you meet someone and hook up with them, how comfortable would you be getting kinky or would that be a step too far?
If you're in a relationship or not into hookups any more (but you might have been before) please think back to those times.
I'd say yes because most people aren't murders or rapists, and one who was sufficiently motivated/equipped wouldn't need to tie me up first.
I might still be nervous, though. Whether or not bondage is part of the equation, I'd expect to have a talk about expectations and limits beforehand.
This is hypothetical, also. I haven't done hookups/one-night stands/NSA.
Of course not.
My definition of bondage is:
The act to tie somebody.
A prisoner is tied; in the US, a person being given the lethal injection is tied; slaves were tied.
All those people lost either their freedom or their lives. First I would never lower myself to do a "hookup". I have too much dignity and self-esteem to lower myself to such a deviant and vile act.
Next, if this target is a hookup, then the likelihood that he is infected with some sort of STD/STI and my health is way too important to me to want to jeopardize it for a few pathetic spasms or muscular contractions.
To sum up: I would rather die than to subject myself to something as deviant as bondage.
Each to their own, and I respect that hooking up isn't something that's right for everyone. But I think whether it's with a long-term partner or someone else, letting them tie you up, giving over that kind of control to someone else willingly, is an incredibly intense experience for both of you and in a sexual situation that can be mindblowing.
I don't want to have to lose the control over myself and I would never trust a person not to abuse. What guarantees would I have that the person does not sexually abuse me if I am tied up or does not respond to my pleas to stop?
That’s definitely an opinion to have. But have you ever considered possibly not shaming the things that other people enjoy simply because you find them to be repugnant? People can enjoy bondage and much more without condoning things such as the American prison system, slavery, and the death penalty. That might be a shocker for you but it’s entirely true. Also people can enjoy hooking up with one another. There are actually these new things they came up with a year or two ago that actually like go over your dick and they stop the semen from being released into the vagina during intercourse. I can’t for the life of me figure out the name of them though, but I bet you could google it and find out if you’re interested. They also came up with this thing that literally like tests to see if you’ve got any sti’s or std’s. They’re cheap to have done and readily available for the most part. Crazy crazy world we live in, right? My whole point was to say this. Try not to ick someone else’s yum just because you don’t enjoy it personally. If they’re not harming anyone else then you could really just not say anything at all and probably expect for everything to still be completely okay! Just my thoughts!
I'm not really one for hook-ups, but if I was I don't think I'd want to be tied up at the mercy of someone I'd just met. Maybe if I hooked up with the same person a few times though it would be different.
Dunno about tying them though. Maybe?
E, I don’t do hookups. I also don’t do bondage even in a long term relationship. I have more respect for the girl I love than to engage in that type of mistreatment of women.
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I don’t do hook ups, but I’d be willing to try it with my future wife.
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