Do you actually enjoy sexting?

What's your favorite parts? Least favorites?
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  • Yeah sexting is hot!
    I'd say it's greatest appeal is that when you're in a relationship it's an absolutely wonderful thing to do for passing time when your partner is out of town

    (Naturally you'd be doing this with your partner of course and not someone else or at least I hope you wouldn't be doing it with someone else unless this is like a polygamist relationship or whatever or an open relationship I'm not going to judge)

    I'd say the downside to sexting is that it's not the real deal but sometimes you don't get that so it's great for long distance relationships or when your partner is out of town or I don't know maybe you and your partner decided to hang out at your place but decided to do sexting to what your appetite before she comes over

Most Helpful Guy

  • What a great question!

    I love playing with women, both in real life and on line. Sexting is a big part of what we do when meeting in person isn't possible. I love it. Often times it leads to cybersex. A different subject, but very fun.

    Often times we'll explore subject matter that may not be comfortable in person. Fetishes/taboo/kinks and the like. Those conversations are usually very hot.

    On the down side, I have been duped by guys pretending to be women. I don't know what their motivation is. My best guess is they're attracted to men and pretending to be a woman is the easiest way to exchange explicit messages and pics.

Most Helpful Girls

  • No I don't enjoy it.
    First of all, I even hate texting.
    Second, I don't see the point. I prefer the real deal but if it was a long distance relationship for example, I'd rather do a video chat.

  • I love erotic chat and sharing erotic art images in PM.

    I don't like being asked to solve sexual, or other, problems for someone that needs weeks or months of counseling... lol

    Do you actually enjoy sexting?
    • The art ALWAYS 👏

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  • Yes, when I’m in the right mood and I vibe with my chat partner it can be HOT. I like to play with the imagination. I have the most fun when someone is willing to follow instructions, because I’m a dominant and it’s what gets my blood pumping. I like orgasm denial but secretly I love when I get the other person to climax. It’s not amazing when we start hot but the other person is not on the same frequency.

  • Favorite Part: the eroticism in the imagination plus the emoticons (I role play with images)
    The downside: the slow, short responses that make it hard to work with but it kinda makes me happy knowing it's hard for them to type with one hand and stay focused ifykwim

  • Every now and then it's ok. I would say it has been a good way to bring up something you want to try but didn't know what your partner may say

  • Getting a woman turned on is fun. And reading frank, dirty talk from a horny woman is hot. When texting, you can both fantasize about any scenario.

  • If you have a good emotional connection, if you both have imagination, have the ability to create scenes with words, to paint a picture, to understand each other’s fantasies etc. then yeah it can work
    alternatively just factual stuff you have done can be a laugh.

  • Mary... while I like sexting at times I prefer Facetime or Skype sex more. It is way fun to watch each other masturbate (if you can't be together or sex that is) and orgasm. Have you ever tried it?

  • I'm super awkward at sexting so sure I enjoy it but I know I'm a disappointment to the other person

    • haha awkward is cute

    • I would like to experience what you're talking about

    • @20yearsolder lol what the awkwardness?

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  • Yeah it’s fun , the intimate conversations, the photos that are starting as suggestive but builds into more, sexy role playing, etc

  • sometimes it’s awkward but sometimes it’s really fun. since i’m not too visual i like it and imagining. also fun to get to know them and what they like to do during it over text.

  • If you ever want to have a sexual talk, hit me up. I love doing it

  • No
    It's super boring to me
    I am not interested in sex

  • It's okay, I prefer real sex or just masturbation by myself or with someone. Sexting sometimes takes me out of it, you have to type and I like to use both hands when I masturbate and if the other person isn't good at it It's the worst.

    • Your so right

    • You are absolutely right, if the other person sucks at it it's a waste of time

  • I love when you're texting in public and they send smutty words and you gotta act normal but they tease you.

  • It can be

  • Most people aren't imaginative or descriptive enough to make it engaging

    • That goes both ways esp if you 2 are strangers, get tall first get to know eachothers gives and then it gets fun..

    • right? Can feel like you are talking to someone who just learned what sex is lol

    • I totally agree, I like to give as much description as possible but it always seems like the woman that I'm talking to can never do the same

  • I have never done it but back in the day we used to have phone sex. It was fun and I was surprised at how much fun it was.

  • Yup very much but only when there's a proper build up n finishing

  • It's all fake - what's the point?

  • only if there's nudes. otherwise it's boring.

  • I enjoy it and it can be fun with the right person. The least favorite part is when you do all the work typing and they give one word responses and they are not inquisitive about you or what you are doing.

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