Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health I see this question a lot on here. Yes I understand men have questions and some of you worry that you are not big enough.
But I just think it's a flawed question to ask, and here's why.
1. Men seem to forget their genitals are not the only one that comes in different sizes. Women are the same. We have larger vaginas, and smaller ones and avg size ones.
Not every woman wants big.
Not every woman hates small.
And yes most women will prefer avg penis.
Why because we are all built differently.
I have a friend who once told me she is so tight that it hurts (when wet) to put her finger inside. So obviously she will prefer a tiny penis to small sized penis.
Stop grouping us into one mind, one vagina and one preference.
2nd reason it is flawed a lot of men who think, or actually do have a small penis go it's small why try.
I'm sorry but that is a get out of trying victim card.
No matter your size, if you don't attempt to 1 up your stroke game, and take the time to learn what your partner wants, you ain't pleasing your partner.(same goes for us women) stop pretending size alone determines
if you can please a woman, and realize skill is like 80% of pleasuring your partner, and size is like 20% important.
3rd and most importantly sex is like 5% of a relationship. I would rather have a good man with a tiny penis who loves and respects me, than a guy who is boring, but he got this big ass dick. Be a good man.
4th a lot of guys really only look at it as i don't like being smaller than other men, but if you really are concerned about our pleasure you would realize too big is far worst than too small. Too small, you can change your technique, penis sleeves and foreplay can help you finish us.
If ya too damn big what can we do? Not like we can shave the sides down, or chop a couple inches off of it. There's no magic penis shrinking cream we can rub on it. Ya too big, ya too big.
So stop asking if ya big enough and ask what can I do to please you with what I got.
Do you agree, the question "is my penis size big enough, is a flawed question?
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17 53Not every woman wants big.
Not every woman hates small.
please explain to me the difference between the two words highlighted bold.
It's a flawed question
All women are different some like bigger ones some prefer small some like curved some don’t.
its not really something that is able to have a concrete answer.
plus how well you use it and your technique also makes a difference to.
All that really matters is if it satisfies your partner.
Exactly
thanks for your input it was rather enlightening and yes having good foreplay, during play and after play skills can make a big impact in a couples sex life long term. because there is no one size fits all when it comes to parts of the body or whole body regardless of gender. most cultures of people have different averages for varies body parts due to evolution.
Those kind of questions make me want to run away from GaG.
Lmao
What I find interesting is how far girls are willing to go to lie. When a girls is insecure about her body and post pictures to reassure herself, guys will literally ask for more. But what do think a girls reaction would be if a man posted a small flaccid penis. Men know that girls would recoil. So these small dick questions will continue because men know how girls feel about dick size.
no not really. because obviously there's variance but that variance does have a bell curve to it. and if you're an outlier to that bell curve, you'll have more difficulty finding a mate that you can please. and that's the very real fear guys have who ask this question. of course there's loads of other variables to sexual arrousal, stimulation and attraction. but this one is just the easiest to put a ruler on and validate.
are you big enough to make her happy.. probably but will you take the time it takes for her to be satisfied?
Yeah in the end it's not about the size, it's about how you use it. Some men don't really understand that. My penis is above average and it has a curve so through the years I learned positions that can work for both me and my partner.
I think the general idea of dick size is skewed and screwed. Bigger is just more fun to look at play with but it's not gonna help a girl fall in love. Well it could be a nice part of the package and one up on the other guy I think. Basically its undeniably an important factor for some. And the need for the big dick varies. But more often you'll find women who love em bigger.
Thank instagram for "are my boobs big enough" and porn for "is my dick big enough" questions. I will answer these question till forever because those questions are asked by people who are insecure about it, when they dont deserve having such thoughts. Yes, these questions are annoying but I see them as a request of help I cannot deny. There are indeed questions asked about how to please your partner but insecurities are insecurities, you aren't being helpful with ignoring these questions or telling them it doesn't matter, they won't believe you. You can bring on some facts so they can see they dont need a have a dick long as a truck to satisfy a woman, the average vagina is between 4 - 5 inches, less then a percent of people have a less then 5 inches penis. The G-spot is nearly 3 inches in there and only the upper third have nerves associated with pleasure so even a 4 inches dick is enough. About breasts, many surveys even here showed men actually like smaller breasts more, while also having no problem with bigger ones. Smaller breasts put less pressure on a woman's back, dont require bras, won't bounce around when doing sports. Don't even ask about vagina size and shape as I have never ever heard a guy saying "that vagina is unattractive" all vaginas are fine
I think the problem here is that modern day pop culture, entertainment, media, porn etc. perpetuate the idea and stereotype that a man is inadequate if he doesn't have a giant donkey dick. I've heard plenty of women say "they don't want no short dick man" etc. I also wonder about these women who use bigger and bigger sex toys. Maybe they should be trying to tighten it up instead of stretching it out, unless they plan on fucking elephants
Yes, and very stupid too.
Not so long ago we saw such a question getting featured by the GAG admins. So no it's not flawed at all.
Psst... Of I send you pics will you tell me if I'm small enough😁😁🤔
Yeah. Because all women are different. Vaginas aren’t the same. Some are just bigger than others.
Exactly. We are all built differently just like y'all
I agree guys should be happy with what they have but the problem is some guys have had girl friends cut down the size if their genitals an that makes them think their to small or its ugly plus the fact some guys get messed with by guys in school about size I admit it took me growing up an learning who I was to feel comfortable with my height looks an body parts but I learnt no one has to have a perfect body personality an caring count so guys need to learn to just be your self an nice
I know a guy that literally picks up chicks by telling them he has a monster cock…. while a lot of women won’t care or will be put off, I think many do care….
"3rd and most importantly sex is like 5% of a relationship"
I'd have to disagree. In my relationships, sex is like 33%. It's the glue that hold couples together, sometimes longer than they should be. :(
Sex is a pillar of a good relationship, along side communication, respect, and of course love.
we are all judged for something :(
This is true
I totally agree with the points raised by you