Do you agree with this or not?

[JessieBellll]

People complain about young girls getting pregnant with older men and use it as an excuse to say its wrong, but you don't see them complaining about getting pregnant with boys their own age. A young girl can get protected the same way an older woman would, and you can't stop girls from having sex, so why not with an older man?

It's like they have prejudice against older men and so make up excuses so girls won't have sex with older men.

[molonski2]

Let me be honest , I've slept with a stack of much much younger women , and I just love how forward they are , its really great , and the sex is good , really good. Now I have thought about this topic , I can't get them pregnant fortunately because I've had a vasectomy , these are smart girls too , but I sense some of them would like to fall pregnant , I never feel the need to tell them In neuted , and I think only 3 have ever asked , and them jumped straight in happily when they found they couldn't fall pregnant.
However , walk to a public place , with these girls which I do , Southbank Melbourne when no CV , and frankly the looks of distain I get , always from women strangely , if the girl grabs me or kisses me in public , the girls don't care , or they don't seem to , but the judgmental looks really annoy me , why can't they just mind their business? I'm not doing anything wrong or illegal , they should just walk on by.

[DJB72]

There's certainly some hypocrisy about it. Assuming the girl is of legal age and the guy is happy to stand by and support their child then what does his age matter, or hers in the case where the situation was reversed.

As long as everyone is consenting adults and the child will be loved and supported, back the fuck off and let them live their life.

I know a couple where the wife recently passed away. Aged 92. They were married just under 51 years. Her widower is 71. They have great grandchildren and he's devastated by the loss.

I know other couples who are the same age as each other and they didn't mage ten years.

I think it's time we mind our own business.

[BlondeGoneWild]

Often times older men are more financially stable and more responsible than younger men as well

[tasleen]

I believe if both of them are comfortable with each other than age is just a number

[Cyclopentane]

That just doesn't seem right.

[ChillMatg]

Agreed. Age is a construct that has nothing to do with maturity

[Cyclopentane]

So if a 14 y old was mature u think it would be ok for them to be with an adult?

[ChillMatg]

Yes. If both consent

[Cyclopentane]

I gotcha, so lemme ask when u talk about maturity, what are u referring to exactly? I don't really understand.

[ChillMatg]

Just a personality thing. Some people understand life much younger than others

[Cyclopentane]

That's what I mean, what personality would u expect them to have? At the end of the day they are are kid/teen first and foremost. Should they understand that there are men that like underage kids? I hope it doesn't sound like I'm picking a fight with ya, u have ur opinion and I have mine, I'm just tryna understand your perspective

[ChillMatg]

I just mean, if you understand what sex really is and what the consequences are... Like there are plenty of high school students who act way more mature than college students.

[Cyclopentane]

So if they understand what sex is and what the consequences are and there's consent it's ok? That's a daunting thing for a underage kid to understand. I can see ur point with the highschoolers.

[ChillMatg]

Yeah. I'm not saying 14 would be normal by any means but there are definitely some that exist

[Cyclopentane]

It definitely isn't normal, I don't think I can agree with your initial opinion tbh. The only reason why a grown man or woman would pursue someone that young is because they're young, that will forever be a red flag. It's so easy for kids to get wrapped up into something they aren't prepared for (trafficking, abuse, mental challenges) even if they act mature. But that my point of view, so thanks for discussing with me

[ChillMatg]

No problem. I would argue that someone older is often attracted to a certain body. Most teen girls look much older these days. I can be attracted to a certain look, without knowing age. I think there is a fine line between being attracted to some one who happens to be 16 and being attracted because she's 16.

[Cyclopentane]

Yeah for sure, people have their physical preferences, and there definitely is a fine line to bein attracted to someone that happens to be 16 and someone that is.

[ScottStevens]

You ask a lot of very thought provoking questions. The only thing you left off of this one is what age do you mean by young girls. If they are minors the older men should be adult enough to know better. If you mean 20 something, the young girl is actually an adult making adult decisions.

[JessieBellll]

Of course minos

[Shizunk]

There is really no difference. If the man impregnates a girl and doesn't stick around his age is really not the issue. If anything, a teen guy is often unable to take care of the child, while an older one could at least get pressured into paying.
Still, obviously girls should not sleep around early, or risk getting pregnant without a stable partner. So this is already assuming the parents and in a way the society as a whole failed at preventing risky behavior.

[PurSeduction]

Pregnancy no matter what age, is an act of responsibility!

Nothing that should happen without awareness!

[Anon621]

I can understand people have flawed logic despite the fact I personally disagree with the flawed logic

[snackthatsmilesback]

Children should NOT be getting pregnant. With anyone.
Adults should NOT be getting children pregnant. They can get other adults pregnant, that's fine.

So yes, I agree that adults getting children pregnant is WORSE than children getting each other pregnant. Because in that case there are two different bad things playing out, instead of just one.

[JessieBellll]

That doesn't make sense

[JessieBellll]

Why it's worse

[snackthatsmilesback]

Because it's a child having sex AND an adult having sex with a child. Double bad.

[JessieBellll]

But that doesn't explain how the impact is worse

[snackthatsmilesback]

I don't know. The act is worse.

[Kabluie]

Goes back to girls liking older men because of the chase and maturity. Like minors dating each other, you know what limits you're going to have.

There was always states like North Carolina for destination weddings because the minimum age was 14, and they would avoid statutory rape say if an older guy got a minor girl pregnant but got a married on paper. It got changed to 16 just a few months ago when they signed a new law. So we are seeing some tightening of it.

[DaveToo]

Society still has the Victorian mindset that whites belong with whites, blacks with blacks, young with young, and older with older. There's a limit to the spring to September relationship though. A girl between 6 and 12 is not fertile enough to bear children, in most cases, nor should she be subjected to that kind of situation.

I know it's done in other countries, but it shouldn't be practiced here. Some states don't have a minimum age for a girl to partake in sexual activities, although most put 16 as the minimum age.

[Nerdvana]

What age are you talking about when you say young girl?

[JessieBellll]

Under 18

[Nerdvana]

I don't think anyone under the age of 18 should be having children.

[aquamarine321]

No disrespect, or misunderstanding but based on your questions around older men and younger girls make me wonder if you’re a dude behind a girl girl profile, forgive me if I’m wrong, but that’s what I’m getting, especially because that you’re okay with the idea of younger girls dating older guys

[JessieBellll]

So guys who support older women with boys are secretely all women? No offence but this is one of the most dumbest comments I read. I think you just have a bias against older men and young girls and not the other way around

[ChiPaPa]

Neither seems right to me.

[Pete671]

Yes I agree, an older guy is more likely to be in favour of contraception, and be a more considerate lover, generally speaking,,,

[Twalli]

So you think it's better that an older man should get her pregnant?

[JessieBellll]

Of course

[Twalli]

Even when he leaves?

[JessieBellll]

Yeah

[JessieBellll]

And this doesn't answer the question as usual

[Twalli]

I don't see why it should be with an older man. In my opinion you shouldn't have sex with someone who was going through puberty when you were born or vice versa. Obviously if they already went vfc through puberty when you were born, that's also a no. Even if you seem mature for your age, you aren't as mature as that person.

[LegendaryIcon]

Young girls shouldn't get prego. PERIOD

[tasleen]

That's true but if they are OK than what is the issue

[LegendaryIcon]

they shouldn't be ok, that's the point

[Nick473]

A hit and run or a get her pregnant and run is always wrong no matter who it is

[Luckycharms12]

I don't care really people can do what they want

[Typhon_]

Fun fact: condoms exist.

[Brigantexx]

Do young girls like to have sex with older men and get pregnant?

[Anonymous]

We men are all villians in the eyes of society. Like petite women? Pedo. Don't like big women? Fatphobe. Don't like women who used to be men? Transphobe. Like younger women? Pedo. Expect a woman to pull her own weight? Misogynist. Don't expect her to? Cuck Simp. Control your emotions so others can't use them against you? Toxic masculinity. Show your emotions? Weakling.

Why would you ever think that a man could do ANYTHING without being vilified for it?

[Anonymous]

it's not prejudiced against older men it's just that young girls get pregnant with young guys those guys can take care but if that's an old man he may die early, maybe before the kid is born also.
its simple like that

[JessieBellll]

What? I am not talking about grandpas

[Opinion Owner]

so what do you mean by "old men''?

[JessieBellll]

30s or 40s