💋 Do you avoid kissing people in friends with benefits arrangement, situation?

[VIVANT]

I’ve only ever heard prostitutes talking about not kissing on the mouth to avoid catching feelings. And that was only in movies. So irl is it an issue for you when you are trying to maintain friends with benefits situation?

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[Guy13]

Friends with benefits is not something I do so I don’t have anything but second-hand lady friends who say “No, that’s too intimate…I need to feel it and a orgasm would be nice.” Guys I know are, “ I could care less as long as she a B- in the bed.”

Just not my style and the disease 🦠
🙀

[VIVANT]

Yeah I don’t like random contact

[Guy13]

It is not reasonable especially with health issues associated with disease. Herpes and nervous system for instance. I am obviously…a little overboard it’s std but still 🤷🏻‍♂️

[VIVANT]

No I hear you I agree 👍🏼👍🏼

[Guy13]

Thank you for real…I thought I was losing my mind with the amount women proud of their escapades. It’s not this way in the Eastern World/Asia. It’s my biggest draw to that people group. SOORY-whiny now. Thanks ‼️

[VIVANT]

No for me it takes so much for em to be intimate even just kissing with someone for many reasons esp health safety. I don’t think I it’s crazy at all to be careful ✨

[ZackBan]

I absolutely do kiss. If I don't it just feels like weird cheap arrangement not too different from prostitution.
End of the day a freind with benefits is a friend and showing affection is not wrong. And since the relationship also involves sex then kissing isn't too far removed from that

[VIVANT]

I think you are one of the few people I can imagine actually honestly being friends with a friends with benefits maybe the only one! 😅 (that I know I’m sure there are plenty)

[ZackBan]

Flattering as usual I see 😊. But yeah I think many people misunderstand the whole friends with benefits thing as that is way it fails for so many.

[VIVANT]

Agreed 💯

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

I'm sorry but "friends with benefits" is just another term for hook up or booty call (in my opinion) otherwise why does the "friend" part usually end when the "benefits" end 🤷🏼‍♀️

[VIVANT]

The weird thing is friend isn’t often part of it it’s usually low respect entanglement

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Exactly!! So people should stop faking the funk, and call it what it is.. Hook up/booty call🤭🤣

[VIVANT]

Definitely! I guess it makes it easier for people to scam their way into sex with others who didn’t necessarily want to just hook up —-yeah the title makes me sick 🤢 lol

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Yeah me too.. And also why so many people in relationships get more funny about their partner having opposite gender friends...

[DizzyDesii]

Im not kissing anyone who I’m not looking to date

[VIVANT]

I might kiss someone I’m not dating but that’s it and it depends on a lot.

[DizzyDesii]

I’ll kiss someone who I’m not dating. But i will not kiss someone who i have no intention to date

[VIVANT]

Yeah you had nuance three that I accidentally overlooked 😊😊

[DizzyDesii]

Yea i just think hookup culture is trash. Anyone i do anything with was with the intention to date or marry

[katiesmuff]

I always kissed with casual sex!

[Jooying]

Omg I won’t have no kissing in any sexual activity. It won’t affect me on catching feeling or not. I just love it.

[Lliam]

I think that prostitutes just won't want to swap bodily fluids with strangers. It's not about catching feelings.

I can't imagine not wanting to kiss someone I'm having sex with. Deep kissing, tongue swapping, face eating is super sensual.

[RobT312]

I like wild kissing with any kind of sex. So even with friends with benefits, i go crazy with the kissing

[Red_Arrow]

If I had a friend with benefits I guess I would probably go the whole way. Friend means someone you already like, and including sexual encounters gets imtimate. If you are doing that, get the whole experience. Kissing, fondling, oral... enjoy it all.

[mandyfire98]

I love kissing. It's one of my favorite things. If I'm being sexual with someone I'm definitely kissing them.

[Guffrus]

It's very important that you only ever fuck girls you dont intend to marry in the ass; touching mouths is dirty. (B)

[EmbraceThePain]

When things move fast, people just go with the flow/pressured into it. If you think about it for a second, it may be best to not do certain things with a friends with benefits. If you feel like feelings might be caught, then wouldn't that be ample evidence these things cannot be detached from emotions?

Rather, sex cannot he detached from emotions?

I feel like humans intentionally harm or sabotage their mental and emotional health... SMH

[JDavid25]

If I would've friends with benefits with somebody, then I like them and find them attractive enough to Kay these lips down on them.. I like kissing.. It really sets to the mood.

[Agape93]

Chose B. If I'm fucking you, I have no issue kissing you

[Finchie40]

No , if I am in a FWB’s relationship with someone I am only sleeping with her so I still kiss her with the possibility that we might end up together , FWB’s to me is just not rushing into a committed relationship , we are friends with benefits , before I get into one I explain to her that we only sleep with each other but if you meet someone you are more interested in then end it with me , the same goes for me

[LovingJo]

Kissing is one of the most amazing parts of sex, to me!! I wouldn't enjoy it half as much without!!
Kissing is a huge stimulant, and I've nearly cum just from kissing before!! 🫦

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I only kiss on the lips and tongue when I have a girlfriend only

[humanearth]

I never had friends with benefits before, so I don't know

[Kabluie]

I french kiss my friends with benefits.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Having friends with benefits and not wanting to catch feelings is stupid.

[VIVANT]

I agree actually lol

[Kichbazp_]

@vivant Eeeeeeeeeee What are you doing? Liplock?😂🤣

[VIVANT]

Lol I’m not doing nothing it’s just question 😂

[Kichbazp_]

OMG ! I thought Today You got too Much drunk 😂😍

[VIVANT]

😂😂🤣😅

[ChiTown33]

Not relevant. I would never be in a friends with benefits relationship. If she can't commit to me she can get lost.

[Andres77]

It’s more than feelings they’re trying to avoid catching

[VIVANT]

Those things can be caught with other contact tho no?

[Andres77]

Lots can be caught…yup

[VIVANT]

Yup yup

[KatherineJ]

Couldn’t tell ya. I’ve never had an arrangement like that.