Do you believe it’s true sex before marriage weakens a relationship?

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  • I mean it all depends right? But the no, I do not think sex before marriage weakens anything. But there is nothing wrong with waiting.

    Statistically people wait for marriage to have sex, have longer lasting marriages. But again, most the people that do this do so for religious reasons and there for are more deposited to avoid divorcer at all costs.

    So, there is not really way to determine if waiting on sex leads to happier marriages, but they definitely have lower divorces rates and last longer.

    But less than 10% of people wait until marriage, which 90% of everyone else is fucking. But it a fact, those that wait are less likely to ever divorce for any reason... they are redeposited to believe in the sanity of marriage no matter what.

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  • False. Ever buy a mattress without trying to lay on it? Ever buy clothes without trying them on? Ever buy a car without a test drive? Ever buy a house without a visit and careful inspection?

    Yeah. Rarely. It does happen from time to time but it's a foolish thing to bind your life to something or someone you haven't even try to get to know.

    What if he got something you don't like? Bad sex? Weird fetish? Cheats with prostitutes for his fetish? Likes cuckold? Threesome?

    Without good sex the guy might as well marry another guy for tax benefits and th girl might as well marry another girl.

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  • Yes. Statistically, the lower the bodycount of a couple the higher their marital satisfaction will be.

    • And then people like me hit the jackpot on their first try. In other words, my girlfriend and I intend to marry the first person we had sex with.

    • @LazerBean What study said that

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  • No, I think if sex "weakens" the marriage, the relationship was already weak from the start.

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  • Nah it probably makes a relationship stronger if anything. I've heard people that wait till marriage often regret it

  • With the same guy? anyway sex before marriage is likely to make the marriage pointless.

    https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/why_buy_the_cow_when_you_can_get_the_milk_for_free

  • No, why would it?

  • No, thats bullshit.

  • No I wpuldnt state that a fact

    • I know I shouldn’t believe everything I read online but according to this website sex before marriage weakens a relationship.
      www.tom-talks.org/.../whats-wrong-with-having-sex-before-marriage

    • From what I was reading its clear that their stance was that sex before marriage was already a negative so the studies that they where referring too only took into a fact that sex somehow makes partner fight more or have more issues because they are not prepared to have a relationship that involved sex yet marriage don't just prepare you either that point just shows people are having sex without be ready which can still happen after getting married another point was that once u break up it males it harder which yes that's true but breakups are never easy even without having sex with the last point connecting it to the bible which at what point I say follow the bible which ain't a point

    • At the end of the day can sex weaken a marriage sure it can but thats dependent on the people let's take for example u get with a guy never had sex and u find out he has a kink for pooping somthing you are not into now tour marriage is equally gonna be messy because sexually u are not compatible

  • So I've never been married. As a Christian it's our requirement to have sex only in marriage. I've failed at that, yes. But I personally cannot say that sex before marriage has weakened relationships for me. That's just me. I am the kind of person who will love you forever if the fire in your heart matches mine and I just can't get enough of you.

    Maybe it weakens other peoples' relationships if the sex is what they largely base it on.

  • Sex with your long term exclusive partner doesn't weaken the relationship.

    Having casual sex or having many sexual partners (even within relationships) does weaken the bond you are able to form with someone within a relationship.

  • Nope

  • Sometimes it makes a relationship stillborn. Sometimes it enhances a relationship.

  • It’s the complete opposite. If you don’t have sex before marriage you’re way more likely to be unhappy. You don’t buy a house without walking through it. You don’t buy a car without test driving it. You don’t do any of these things before knowing what you’re getting. The old days of marriage are gone because they don’t make sense today. Women are now on an equal playing field. Relationship dynamics have changed. Both parties are looking to be happy with their sex lives. It makes absolutely no sense to marry someone without sleeping with them first. It actually makes no sense in marrying someone without living with them first. I don’t understand these people who are waiting for marriage. It’s so idiotic to choose to do this just because you’ve been brainwashed to think it’s normal. It’s not!

  • My girlfriend - now my wife - and I both decided to wait to have sexual intercourse on our wedding night 🙂👍. Sex is not win all / lose all. It’s about loving each other and doing things for each other. 🙂👍

  • I couldn’t imagine but I think sex b4 the time is right would definitely wreck the sex and marriage potentially. Sex b4 marriage was definitely a great cultural instinct back in the day cause it made healthy normal human boundary. As much as we are atheist in North America I believe customs and religion are honestly the best way to make and create social norms. Partly because honor but because they bring a meaning to our lives that just makes sense wouldn’t want it any other way. Only other comparison I could make is Ahmad comes from Pakistan or whatever and then tries to tell everyone to not eat pork cause it offends him. “Sorry Ahmad go back to Pakistan this is my home”

  • Not at all, nor do I believe that waiting till your married makes it stronger.

  • Yes. Stats say that waiting with sex till marriage makes the marriage less likely to divorce.

  • Not at all. We had sex before marriage and our marriage is still going strong

  • Not at all.

  • Yes and no. Sex at all, just just with the person, weakens a relationship. You can't fuck 50 men then wait on the 51st and now it's strong. The 50 men before have already weakened your relationship.

  • No I don't think so

  • only weakens a weak relationship

  • I believe that sex before marriage is a good idea so that you can tell if you have any chemistry in the bedroom because that's also very important and not everybody enjoys it the same way together so it would be a great way to tell before you make an important decision

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