Do you believe that even though a guy may be a young adult and a lady is 45, still is illegal to have sex?

[Anonymous]

I mean the age difference is way too much but both are adults already. A friend of ime is a bit crazy and asked me that. She does nto ahve the hots for a guy younger than her it is viceversa a guy has the hots for her but the guy is not a minor it is an adult. He is 18 and my friend is 45.

The age difference is way too much sure but both are adults already. SOme many see it as ilega and inappropriate l cause she could be her mom, others may see it the guy is not a minor anymore, she has his ID of an adult already but the age is way too much of a difference. The guy offered her to have intimacy and of course she said no, then the boy/guy asked her "Why not? im no longer a minor Im an official legal adult and I h ave an ID to prove it and you are also an adult"

[ohshee]

When I was 16 almost 17 I was baby sitting for this. Lady she was in her late 30s the lady she went out with was in her mid 40s both had been drinking anyway the older lady asked me if I wanted a ride homē I said yes and through the lady I babysitter for I meant 7 older women so from 16 all most 17 to 27 28 all I ever went out with were older women I would not change a thing some of the best times I've ever had the strand part is that I still feel the same age I still fantasize about old women but younger women and I connect for me if the guy is mature and he knows what he wants he is doing it and loving it I say yes be happy

[ElDiablo666]

Ah, you are confusing legal issues with morals.

If both are considered legally consenting adults, the its fine.
Some may think it's immoral though, but sod them.

I had a relationship at around 20 with a woman who was over 40 with two kids.
I also had a 16 year old girlfriend when I was 23.
No problems, legally, in either relationship.

[btbc92]

Way too much. And this guy Just wants sex. He got issues. All your friend can do is ignore him. Of he keeps it up, he can get reported. If he doesn't want that then he needs to leave.

[Asker]

but like i said he is not a minor just the age difference is too much. But he is the one after her

[btbc92]

He is 18 years old. She is 45. What business does he have with a 45 year old? Nothing. I know he's the one that's trying to go after her. He's still just want sex. And in the end it's all about sex. All the red flags is right there. The fact that he's trying to prove himself, tell others that he has an ID, that he's now an adult. That's just a guy that just simply wants to prove himself to other people problem because he couldn't sleep with anybody before that. He's probably been targeting your friend because he thinks that he will become a man if he sleeps with an older woman. I'm telling you regardless if he's of age to make that decision or not, if your friend don't laugh a bit set serious boundaries with this guy, he may do something crazy.

[btbc92]

People like that tend to not be stable.

[ElDiablo666]

I've been with an older woman when I was a lot younger. Was not trying to prove anything. Maybe this guy just really likes the woman, in the end its up to her what she does. If she likes the idea of a nice younger guy, go for it.

[btbc92]

@Diablo666 Correction "been". Don't have them now. No, he wants sex. Many young men like that are usually just after sex like many older men are seeking sex with younger women. She doesn't like him and you listening go the Asker?

[coderedcerberusnight]

It's a bit creepy to me but two consenting adults dont concern me...

[Asker]

for me it is way too creppy 18 and 45? is like she could be his mom

[coderedcerberusnight]

He's still below 20 yeah, and that's a concerning age to be messin around with someone so young.

[Asker]

even if he is official a legal adult?

[coderedcerberusnight]

Legally it's okay, but morally it's hella messed up. Think about it, if this was a 45 year old man going after an 18 year old girl, it would be HELLA creepy.

[ElDiablo666]

well, in that situation, it would be 18 year old girl going after the older man. age has experience, and they dont piss you about as much. when i was 18-20 the girls my age just wanted to fuck around, I didn't.

[Avicenna]

Of course it isn't illegal, Whether it's a good idea may be another story, but lots of young guys that age have had hookups with much older women, so I don't see a problem here.

[Dargil]

Sex is not illegal between consenting adults and shouldn't be.

[Drumlin2001]

If he's an adult its legal. Appropriate is a different matter.
But you only live once, they are both adults, they can do what they like

[reptocarl2]

It’s legal and leave them alone

[Asker]

Like I said my friend told him no as the difference is many years between them. SHe could be wel be his mother. The boy is just 18 and my friend is 45. He is the one having the hots for her, not so much her to him

[reptocarl2]

It isn’t too much. What two people do is their business.

[Asker]

it is not too much 18 and 45? For me it is a lot fo years thyey dont have anything in common she is inthe age of being her mom it is creepy all the way

[reptocarl2]

I’ve dated 25 years younger and 15 years older. If two people are happy together leave them alone

[Asker]

He's still below 20 yeah, and that's a concerning age to be messin around with someone so young

[reptocarl2]

Not really

[reptocarl2]

It could be a positive learning experience for both

[Asker]

Legally it's okay, but morally it's hella messed up

[reptocarl2]

Who says?

[Asker]

everyone

[reptocarl2]

I don’t and so does a lot of others

[Asker]

He is the one after her,. Not her after him

[reptocarl2]

So. . .

[Asker]

She is not havign sex with the guy she does nto a hve the hots for h im and the age is a creepy thing.

[reptocarl2]

Lots of cougars and I’ve been with a few myself will disagree with you. No boner pills needed, always hard and ready to fuck anyway she wants it, unashamed to teach

[Asker]

sure becuse that is the only reason a 18yrd will go after a woman of 45 just sex and nothing else and her to be used especially if she is not the one who does not want anything to do with him

[reptocarl2]

Some 45 year old women want that

[Asker]

not all

[reptocarl2]

I didn’t say all but there are some that do

[COMMODOREII]

Yes they are adults and can do whatever they want.

[jasco]

18 and above for anyone over the age of 18 having sex with someone

[Twalli]

It isn't illegal and shouldn't be

[asshole_]

It's like saying, why shouldn't all immoral things, be illegal

It depends on what you think is immoral, right?

[simplelikeme]

As long as he's 18 years and older go get him you cougar. If you want it go get it who cares what other people think. It's okay to be a freak we all are :-D :-)

[Tstrbrainer]

Nothing wrong in it as long as they are both consenting.
It's their private business

[mrgspoter]

Maybe not lol

[Jakeofalltrades93]

as long as it isn't a student/teacher relationship or something i don't see a problem with it. they care both adults if others have a problem with it that is their problem

[jimmy2]

As long as he is 18 years of age it their decisions togther not ours

[Jmmmfi4]

I see no problem

[Anonymous]

No it's okay once he is 18 he can fuck 100 old lady no problem

[Anonymous]

It’s legal and ok to have sex but I doubt it will become anything else but if you just want sex then go for it because that’s all he wants too

[Asker]

i mean the age differnce is huge. it is legal but not morally acceptable. My friend does not ahve the hots for him, it is the guy who have the hots for her

[Opinion Owner]

Well it won’t be enjoyable if you are not attracted to him but it’s just sex, and not dating or having a relationship with so who cares, let him lose his virginity