Do you believe the Christian girl stereotype that they are freaks during sex from repression growing up?

[Anonymous]

[btbc92]

That is a lie from hell. There's no such thing as repression for people who are virgins. Only those that are not virgins have some type of repression. If anything a person that decides not to have sex it's somebody who's scared of making the wrong decision because again it's my biological level. It has nothing to do with repression. God and the Holy Spirit will not have somebody do something that's going to lead them to send. If a girl chooses to be in send that's her choice but she is the one that has to live with those sinful choices. If God had sent and he did say that you wait until marriage to have sex, then you wait until marriage to have sex. A lot of these girls that rush into having sex early and they do it outside of marriage is simply because they're driven by their own fear that they will stay a virgin forever. That is a fair that any growth experience. It has nothing to do with being Christian. I know because I'm a Christian, and my friends that all Christian that didn't wait until marriage to have sex can say the exact same thing. I choose not to have sex outside of marriage because I know it's wrong. The guys that claimed that they wanted something with me did not want the same things that I desired. They did not want to get married they wanted to fool around. Natelson people are living with sexual regrets. So it's not true. If they have that kind of way of thinking that's just them. Because there are plenty of Christian girls that are not like that and they have sex and it perfectly fine. That's just has to do with the person. Look at those that aren't Christian and think the same way. Because that's just how they are and that's just how they were born. If they're bored fairs in problems than they are the ones that have to deal with that. That's just naturally how the person is but it's up to them to change. That has nothing to do with being Christians. The Stereotype is just what I want because I got a lot of those girls don't want to wait. They just don't want to be responsible for their own choices that's where they have the problem at. And then once they finally do it guess who they want to blame for their choices? They're going to blame you as if you're the one that entice them. When they don't want that chose to open up their legs. Then they will get mad at someone like me because I stand for righteousness and I stand for the things that are of God. A lot of them sadly don't even believe in God. If they had the fear of God in them they wouldn't want to do the wrong thing to displease God. It doesn't mean that sex or anything is wrong. But it's about the intent. A lot of this girl being know that they're not able to find partners because in the end a lot of men don't want to wait for marriage anymore. But then the moment they sleep with a girl they want to call her a whore. There is a lot of issues with this.

So the double standards in the misconceptions need to stop. People today don't give a damn about you. Men today screw whoever today they can find. So if a woman is scared to have sex I think that's a rational Reason. Not repression.

[btbc92]

No it's not. I have nothing to do with somebody being a freak or whatever. It's a simple fact that women are designed biologically different from anybody else. It all depends on whom you have sex with. If you see the sexual history of their families especially certain nationalities also called races of people. Don't show called races and nationalities of people are more sexual than others. A perfect example not to be generalizing as dolls that are in the Spanish communities. They're very sexual in nature. That's why they tend to marry Young have a lot of kids they want lot of kids that want sex all the time they do a lot of things but the only problem is that a lot of them have a hard time keeping family together because of the dysfunctions that go on. And if they already in sexual sins the nasty sexual sin becomes generational curses. That's why a lot of them become very sexual so young. So again there are cons and Pros to a lot of things. That's why you got to evaluate why you want to be involved with somebody let alone have sex. And not everybody want in this world is going to want sex a lot or any at all. That has to do with people. The fact that a person sexual interest is judged that is hurtful is why there is so much confusion. Please tell me why should I bother having sex with somebody who is not going to guarantee he's going to want to love me for me even if I can't, or judge me as a prude when that shouldn't have to matter? Should I live my entire life and God forbid go to hell with so much regret on a can of a man just so he can get whatever Adam me? I think people better really seriously evaluate why they choose to have sex. Doesn't matter if you're Christian or not.

[btbc92]

The sad reality is that a lot of people that believe in us are type now believe that a lot of Christian girls are secretly whores. When the reality is not all of them are like that. So now the question is where's the standard for anybody? The people even want to live by Godly standards anymore? That's the real questions.

[Joe1956]

not really... i think they may be eager... but lack experience so really dont know the difference between good sex and bad

[TheFlak38]

This is basic psychology. Whatever you repress comes back later amplified, often with vengeance.

[jordnaus]

Somewhat. Anyone that was suppressed sexually will act out most of the time. Religion or strict parents.

[In_Trance]

They're not.

[JennieF]

Ask my husband.

[Anonymous]

I know that I'm ready for sure!!!