Do you believe there are more submissive women then dominate men?

Do you believe there are more submissive women then dominate men?
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  • I know that there are way more submissive men than Dominant women, so the opposite must be true as well.

    • Yeah probably

    • Yes. That’s what I believe is the case as well. Dominant men are not the majority of men. AND dominant women are not the majority of women. I believe being Dominant is something that’s not the majority. As one wouldn’t say that the majority of the population would make great leaders if suddenly put into a position of leadership.

    • I believe there are a lot of men who "think they might be submissive" or want to "try it on", but they really aren't. It's nothing more than playing at a kink in order to get attention, and 99% of these guys will try and top from the bottom.

  • I'm a switch, so have no idea.. Love both!! 💯😜❤️

    • Being a switch is so popular today. I learned about this like a year or two ago.

    • It's the best of both worlds, I get turned on, by both dominating and by being dominated!! 💯😜❤️

    • Yeah Yeah Yeah this is what I hear but I don't fully believe it.

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  • Yes, no question. Only about 60% of men today are dominant even part-time, while around 90% of women are either outright submissive or want to be but can't find the dominant man she wants. My female friends talk about this a lot, and I've ran into a lot more submissive men over the years, most of them being younger.

    • I actually mis-read this question, but it's still true that there are more (sexually) submissive women (roughly 90%) than dominant men (roughly 60%). The number of dominant men used to be higher, though.

    • 60% ? Keep dreaming, it are max. 5 to 10%, probably even much less. 90% of women and girls are submissive? Heck not! keep dreaming motherfucker, then number is much lower!

    • @TheMystic Note that I specified SEXUALLY dominant or submissive. If you mean more generally, then I completely agree with you - the number of socially dominant men has decreased massively over the last 50 years, and the number of socially dominant women has risen similarly. And neither men nor women are happier with the result.

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  • Definitely.


    But just for the record, men and women can be dominant or submissive. What matters is what fulfills them at their core. Then developing themselves to actualize that part of themselves, whether that’s to be in service of one you trust and respect, through submission and support. Or, to serve as a leader, a dominant, protecting and providing and leading, taking responsibility and ownership of the well-being of their partner.



    There are many women who would prefer a man who is dominant, who can lead, who can take charge, who has their sh*t together.


    But, many men have lost their way. In this soft day and age, there are a lot of soft men.


    And men who have the innate potential to become dominant, who would be fulfilled being a true dominant leader, need to develop themselves to reach that point.


    Leaders and dominants are not born. They are developed and built.


    Unfortunately, men who are trying to address mens issues and guide this lost generation of men are often mislabeled as misogynists.


    And there ARE misogynistic male influencers mixed in as well, making it difficult for young men to know who to listen to.


    Anyway, I digress.


    I believe there are more submissive women than dominant men.


    And, though I believe that that may have always been the case, it is even more so now, with where society has brought us.

    • I felt an overwhelming sunlight after you said I digress.

  • A majority of women want a strong male who will lead. Not control or command, but who will lead in the home. It’s built into gender roles. Women want a man who will protect her from the world while still making sure she is safe in his arms. They want a leader in the home who will provide and be a husband/father. They want a man who will make love to her and lead in the bedroom. A man who will open doors, cherish her, take her on dates, and respect womanhood/motherhood. At the same time I don’t believe most self respecting women want a guy who is degrading or will treat her like the guy does in 50 shades of grey.

    Unfortunately many women aren’t getting a healthy relationship based out of respect, commitment (even marriage) love, and selflessness nowadays. Ideas from porn, reality TV, and 50 shades of grey seem to rule the day to the detriment of society and family.

    • Interesting how someone could give me the dislike on this. My entire answer is about respecting women and cherishing women. Someone who can dislike that is truly fucked up in this world and part of what’s wrong with society

  • I'm not sure if this is what you're looking for, and I have no real answer, nor am I going to spend my time looking up polls that would suggest one answer over another. Shouldn't this really be a subject that is discussed between two individuals? To be dominant or submissive requires a fair amount of internal examination of yourself and your partner. I suspect that rules change frequently in most bedrooms. Relationships as well as a non-committed relationships will likely have each individual accept or reject their expected roles. These rules may even change from partner to partner as relationships are ended and new relationships are started. I suspect we have all played different roles at one time or another.

  • Yes even though im not one of them

    • You're a dominate woman?

    • Not fully dominant. But certainly more assertive than submissive

    • There was some guy on this site who was madly in love with you like 2 years ago remember who that was?

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  • I just know that I am a submissive switch

  • There could be. I wouldn't know though. But what I do know is that there are lots of guys that want to be dominant.

  • Yes, but more becouse dominate over all in amount is lower then submissive pepole, that makes sense gentecliy
    If you got too many dominate pepole you get more fights and issues
    So over all there is pretty much always more submissive pepole then dominate once

  • I believe the answer to this would be hard to truly come by. The reality is that yes there are likely more submissives in today's world just in general. The downside is that the quality of Dominants have been so degraded because of the inept understanding of what it truly means to be a Dominant. There are so many fake Doms out there that use the BDSM dynamic as an excuse to be abusive and vile towards a submissive and think their submission is their right. Of course, those of us true to the dynamic understand the power exchange and recognize the gift of submission. It is earned through trust and care and not demanded. So when you take out all the fake abusers out there who claim to be Doms, you truly will find a lopsided Dom to sub ratio. You could also get into the question of active Doms and subs versus inactive ones that in circumstances that don't allow them the ability to be involved in D/s dynamics. Such as a submissive married to someone who is not a Dominantn or Dominant married to someone who isn't a submissive. Could find more level playing ground if those individuals were accounted for. But overall I tend to think as far as TRUE Dominants go, you will find more submissive women than Dominant men. Also, I think you may find more submissive men than Dommes. But I feel that may be more level.

  • Yeah I do think they are more submissive women. Women are historically submissive and their ratio hasn’t changed too much while I think mens dominant role has changed / decreased. Would love to see if there are any real statistics, it’s just what I have seen with friends, etc.

  • I just believe that everyone is a switch

    • I call that role playing lol

  • I first clicked yes but in my experience the number of openly submissive women have also gone down. But is that bad? I hear people in podcasts and on YouTube say it's bad but it's not a problem of my daily life. At least in my life it seems that many women have become not necessarily dominant but at least assertive enough to take initiative in many situations plus society is rather feminist over here.

  • apparently being a dominant man these days is just "toxic masculinity"

    there's a lot of unwritten societal expectations on who should and shouldn't be dominant. if Mike Tyson and Michael Cera were to swap personalities, it just wouldn't look right. Mike Tyson looks dominant and should be dominant. Michael Cera doesn't look dominant and looks weird being dominant.

    as far as submissive women are concerned, only the "right" guy can make them submissive. they call it "conditional femininity" which is silly because guys can't just be "conditionally masculine" just for the sake of it.

  • Yes, but times haven't changed at all.

  • There's no way of knowing, but I wouldn't be surprised if someone hasn't published a "study" on the matter, citing statistics that have been pulled from the same place my dad's Cologuard stool sample came from.

    • UGh omg

  • I do believe that there is no way for me to accurately assume either way about this... lol

    I really don't pay much attention to what all other people do behind their doors

    • No didn't ask for accuracy just an opinion.

    • I do believe that there's a perfectly equal number of both...

    • Well the research I've seen is 60/40 ... 40 being men who are dominate and 60 women who are submissive.

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  • Be a switch 😉 problem solved

    • LOL I don't hate it

  • I believe the opposite. I believe more women are independent and dominant oriented these days. They CAN be submissive, but only for the dude who they are attracted to and is more masculine and dominant than them.

  • Same as it ever was. The change is that women are no longer considered chattel. There's a difference between dominant and abusive.

  • Not sure how you'd even measure that. I think most males and females have different degrees of dominant/submissive and masculine/feminine energy, with men on average having more. Some might express that dominance more in some areas. Ideally it'd be complementary.

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