Do you believe this sounds true?

[Anonymous]

The majority of women only think it’s sexual harassment if the guy is not attractive or not handsome.

[HighlyVolatile]

I think it's a bit off but handsome men (along with women) in my experience have more experience navigating the social side of things to put people at ease, to make them laugh, smile, etc. So I think it's more of a charm and confidence and ultimately charisma thing although more good-looking people have that than bad-looking people.

Very unpopular people don't have the social experience to put people at ease that way. You look at them and you feel uneasy just looking at them. They're weird. So that's why I think they creep most people out and especially if they try to make flirtatious moves.

[HighlyVolatile]

I'm far from a hunk but I got this guy on here who said I'm a total creep. WTF. He was describing how he found women attractive at the dentist appointment leaning into him. Then I shared how I do the same except I voice my thoughts out loud! "Hey, nice boobs!" Then the women laugh and touch me dearly behind their masks. So he thought I was a total creep but from his picture, he seemed far better-looking than me. I think what he lacks are charm and charisma. I know how to tickle the edge of social boundaries without ever being called a creep, and I'm pretty sure it has nothing to do with looks. It has to do with making women feel most comfortable around me.

[Citizenkirk]

I don't know, a standardized poll might give some insight. Than again, I've never been a fan of standardized testing of anything.
If a woman feels like she has a choice in the matter, than maybe she will be open to being approached. Maybe respect is a factor. Is he being a gentleman or a creep?

[Citizenkirk]

Thanks for MHG

[sunflower00]

No that’s not true, sexual harassment is sexual harassment whether the person is attractive or unattractive

[MCheetah]

I agree it's definitely true.

[Lionman95]

Yes it does.
If a guy is less attractive he's more likely to be considered a creepy or pedo than a handsome guy doing the same.

[TonyV]

Absolutely.

[EmmaMary]

No, absolutely not.

[DonkeyDan]

I believe you can ask the same question too many times.

[mark000h]

Sounds plausible.

[slatyb]

No, it's not at all true.

[Avicenna]

It could be true

[HighValue]

It is mostly true. Two different guys can do the exact same thing, and based on how attracted to him the woman is, she will think one is harassing her, and she will think the attractive one is just being persistent/flirty.

[douride2]

Sounds like a fairy tale to me.

[Iron_Man]

Maybe it sounds like it

[Twalli]

Up to a certain degree. If the "hot" guy is extremely offensive the girl will see it as harassment. If it's just "agressive" flirting, it won't be seen as harassment if they flirter is hot.

[FamilyGuy2020]

I find most claims of sexual harassment to be somewhat valid from girls against guys

[anton_dee]

Yesss. It is true. I mean if Brad Pitt was to flirt with them, what would they think bout it eh?

[In_Trance]

true

[OddBeMe]

Well…yeah. Though power dynamics are the issue.

[Anonymous]

Abso-phuk’n-lutely!!!

[Anonymous]

yea this is true.

[Anonymous]

This one things where not all attractive sexually harass but all guys who sexually harass are NOT attractive. Do you understand?
If a guy is attractive his advances will be tolerated a lot more by your AVERAGE woman, yes. Because she will be more inclined to take it as a compliment. While to get a comment from an ugly guy is just unpleasant and really holds little value.
But i'd say this the key when does a a guy making an advance become sexual harassment?

[Anonymous]

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https://www.mentalhealth.gov/get-help/immediate-help