Anybody not care about being the best? Everybody explain themselves
I left my parents house when I was young so I wasn't for sure how to love somebody or to tell them you love them or tell them thank you and I mean there was no book or nothing and nobody I could watch to show me so
In my relationships making love having sex fuvking screwing is another way for me to say thank you for everything you do for me. Thank you for being who You are. And I show them in many other ways but with sex is a one-on-one bonding moment to say thank you I learned something from the very first time that I had sex I was lucky it was with the person that it was because. Of who I am wanting to know wanting to understand
And the girls that took my virginity it wasn't one time it was four times and out of those four times I learned something very very powerful and that is you make it all about the girl I mean every touch every kiss every grown every moment every grunt the way you stick your toes in the mattress and push LOL it's just everything because I do make it all about her I can look into her eyes read the color of her cheeks the way she breathes the way she moans the way she moves her body and she will tell me everything she wants in that moment and I will either give it to her. Or I won't.
But I will take her to that edge so yeah I do care and I'm not going to be a selfish person and get on and say wam bam thank you mam. I'm going to get on get under stand up sit down go sideways upside down. Whatever it takes with timing to give her the best orgasm ever I don't want to just fuck.
I want to become one with that person and that in itself for a long period of time is intense and hot and I believe I know how to do that pretty well
And once again all women are different so do your best on the first round and on the second round have it all together
tldr
Jk I read. You rambled a lot there, a lot unnecessary details but ok. I am not sure what to add to any of that. Good
Yeah basically all it says is I don't need to be the best I just need to please the person I'm with
There is no "best" because you're only doing it with one person, so there is no comparison or competition occuring.
Thats the mentality I have about this. Any woman worth having sex with has never had sex before being with me, because otherwise she's too gross to put my dick in.
I dont like the comparision, I just thought me being being the best I can be in bed is just a bit exhausting a bit. Was wondering if women had this same pressure. Women aren't discarded because she had sex to someone else prior but your now always compared to the first guy which is sad and depressing. But that only matters if your not good. If your good at sx then the "review" will be whokesome and positive.
1. I'm not putting my dick in a woman who had some other guy's nasty dick in her already. 2. Sex is something you get better at as time passes with a person, but for every new person, you are reset, because you won't have prior experience with her specifically, and she will want you to perform differently than your last girl wanted. This is because people's sweet spots, pace, sensativity, stamina, attraction level, hormone levels, shapes, sizes, etc. will be different. So its not possible to practice to get better at sex, its only possible to practice to get better at sex with a particular person. So even if you're not a virgin man who only wants a virgin woman you stay with for life, there is still no comparison.
Prnstars seems to manage just fine, with practice. Discounting a human being because they had sex prior to someone else isn't very moral, seems like a very anti relgious thing to do. But I do understand the negative repurcussions. This is why being the best there ever was is important so there is no negative comparisions to previous lovers.
Nah I couldn't give a shit if I am good or not as long as I get off and they do.. what does it matter...
See this is the type of mentality, that is super super foriegn to me lol. By the way women can be good at sx k. Flexibility and stamina help enthusiasm helps.
Being imaginative, empathetic, patient and curious and respectful. Hot bod lol
Yeah but if everyone cums.. the job is done.. the urge is gone.. why do we have to be fucking around for ages proving who is the best in bed.. it is only sex.. its kind of like if I came, then you better hurry up and get the fuck off me bro.. if I didn't you better get that dick hard again and fuck me right this time LOL
I don't have to be the best and I need to be able to satisfy my partners.
I want to be the best there ever was.
Partners?
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I care about being the best possible partner for my fiancee, but I don't care about competing for a title.
Yes everyone has there catagory. (Yes best possible partner) THE title is vague
I absolutely want to be the best at my work, which is servicing my mistress and anyone else she orders me to service.
Express yourself and let no one ever silence you. Unless you want that. Good on you.
Thank you very much, Sir.
Pfff no, I care more about being the best version of myself, sex I can always improve in with my wife
That is an extension to it. (So you do care)
Well not really, the experience will come naturally, I'm going to have sex with my wife and the experience will naturally grow as I learn things about her that she likes sexually, it's not really something I should care about because experience is inevitable unless I reject her sexually which is a no no from me
Well there is bad exp and good exp. You dont just get better. Like soccer you dont just get better doing bad plays you methodically train and experiment and do things to improve sex life. Being the best version of yourself (Includes better sex life) lifting weight better sx Work better sx less anxiety Improving would be to suggest you do care.
Yes and I very good
Goood :)
I try to make sure she orgasms most of the time. But I know I'll never be the best.
Yes I like being good in bed.
Don't we all.
@Cuminginside Apparently one of the commenter in this, said she expressed apathy towards that claim
She was more like as long as she cums, your alright it seems.
How can be you sure to be the best? According to what criteria?
We know who are the richest people in the world, the best scientists, the best leaders, the best warriors... But the best in bed? Unless you really suck (and you can improve), why would you care?
? Unless you really suck and you can improve... Who is to say we both dont fall in this catagory. Why would I care? Where do I begin lol
OK. 1) Learn about erogenous zones of your partner. In preliminaries, thease these zones, but in a playful way, as it's natural. 2) Ask your partner what he/she likes. 3) Nipples's women are really sensitive, so it's not recommended to bite them. 4) Apparently, women love pussy eating. But doing it at the beginning seems a bit fast. First you need to set a mood. 5) There are some pornographic videos who are educational-oriented, not all. You could watch them. After, I don't know if I'm really good about that kind of thing, so take my advices with a grain of salt.
Addendum: women's vaginas are poorly innerved, contrary to the clitoris, so preliminaries are better to excite your partner. Also, you could try to make her squirt. I didn't try that technique yet (I think), but the woman who teach how to do it on Pornhub seemed to really enjoy it.
How would one judge sex to determine the best at it? I just want to have sex with my girlfriend that is satisfying to tge both of us.
Why not better? Change things up, throw a little spice and pototies in there.
Yes I care about being the beat at sex or making love it's why I carry lots of oils an a massaging table so just to put it out there yes u can PM me an ask about what types of massage's I do with or with out a very happy ending.
God Bless
Yeah the variety and skills to be learned so much. I can't wait.
God bless to you to
Then send me a private message and hopefully we can meet up somewhere and I can show you a few things or as much as you want. God Bless
There is nothing like being the best in sex. Sex is not office work
It's an combo of emotion like passion, love, anger, care , aggressive and many more
At the end of both are satisfied it's a happy ending
Anger lol why isn't it hard damn it !!! lol Oprah sounds play in the background
Just care enough to help her to orgasm then she can do that
Think about it
Let it make sense
She can do you after I mean
Yeah that make sense, but sort of lame though.
Yep
I once got humbled when I was dry humping a sex doll in missionary when I couldn't last long since my arms got tired
So I went on a push up routine till I hit 50 and now women praise me how good I am at missionary position , in which I often finish off the sex session
Make sure you switch off, do dumbell row action to counter act muscular imbalaces. Engage the lats and do it evenly on both sides. You pull her towards you. Another I would imagine is let her work switch it up make her earn it.
Yeah man.. I imporved now Now I am super fit and ace in bed I love carrying her and pinned her to wall sometimes!
And yeah making her work sounds fun lol
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