I focus on my wife.
She can have many more orgasms than I can. It also takes me much longer to cum. So we focus on her and when she's too tired to cum anymore... then it's my turn.
Plus I love her facial expressions when she cums. It helps get me a lot closer.1 0 0 0I care more for them than myself. It's more for me than for them that I want to get them off because I feel like a champ when I do. I was able to make my ex orgasm at least twice every time we had sex. The top I've done is 7 and it feels like you're a sex god lol.
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Absolutely! The moment they stop enjoying it, I stop enjoying it. Like a hard stop.
1 3 0 0Yep I get pleasure by pleasing.
Definitely! If they get off, I'm happy. Anything after that is icing on the cake
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0 19Very much so.
for me the entire session is for their pleasure.
at an emotional level I get my buzz far more if they are really getting off.
This is particularly true within real world BDSM and sub space linked with top space.2 0 0 0Well that's because you are a giver you are a pleaser you want to make it happen you can feel how beautiful it is within and you want your partner to go that same place with you I think that's a beautiful thing that's hard to find
0 0 0 0I do care and I like it if she has fun and a great orgasm. I know girls do not orgasm every time but I hope they just like being naked and having fun also!
1 0 0 0Yes, everyone should
1 0 0 0One of the joys of sex or making love seeing the pleasure on your partner, for me anyway. It matters very much to me that she is satisfied
1 0 0 0They're enjoying it if they're fucking. Duh.
0 0 0 0I care they enjoy it as much or more than I care if I do
1 0 0 0To me, that's more important than my enjoyment.
1 0 0 0Of course I care it would be enjoyable for me if the person I'm with didn't enjoy what we were doing.
1 0 0 0She’ll be my wife. Her happiness about it is equally as important as mine.
1 0 0 0Yeah I do to. Like I’m not happy unless they are getting off. Lol! My ex used to say I was kind of weird in my giving…
1 0 0 0I want her to like it
1 0 0 0For sure. I get more joy out of them feeling pleasure and intimate than my own
1 0 0 0Of course sex is about both of you. Orgasm at the same time is amazing
1 0 0 0Of course her sex life and pleasure is just as important to me As it is for her
1 0 0 0Yes, everyone does. But if you do that and you don't get there, it's your fault.
It's your body. If you aren't focused on enjoying his body and getting yourself there as well, you most likely won't get there.0 0 0 0Of course
1 0 0 0Very much so
1 0 0 0If your partner isn't enjoying it you should stop. It would be wrong to continue.
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