How is it gay? Is it gay that he likes getting a blowjob? Is it gay that you enjoy being eaten out as that's what lesbians do? No its not gay in any way shape or form. If your not comfortable doing that then just say it, don't come up with some half baked rationalization for why he is wrong for wanting what he wants that's not fair to him. He doesn't claim your a lesbian because you want him to eat you out instead of just straight sex, don't accuse him of being gay because he wants you to do something for him. Personally I would not want that done to me but again, doesn't mean its gay, it just means that's his kink.
Granted, being bisexual might make my reply biased - but I do not think ass-play equates to one's sexuality. Being rimming or finger or having his prostate massaged - these could simply be things he finds pleasurable but does not mean he desires having sex with other guys. I know many straight guys who like that stuff.
But are they really straight? Telling you all that and such?
And I respect anyone regardless of what gender they are so I hope I’m not coming off as a snob. Really it just made me feel uncomfortable and I think too much. This comment makes me feel better and look at it differently though. So I thank you! 🙂
You are quite welcome :) I think maybe there are two things within your question. First is about what you are comfortable with regardless of what the act might be. You should never feel like you have to do something if you do not want to. Regarding a straight guy liking his ass played with - I really think there are many straight guys who like it. He is asking you, a female, so that's one thing to consider. Some guys like their nipples played with (another erogenous zone) and I don't think that makes a guy "gay". One final thought on ass-play for guys, the prostate is the male G-spot - produces highly intense orgasms for straight, gay, bi, etc. guys all across the world :) All that aside though... most important part is if you are comfortable with it or not.
I don't know how I would feel if my guy made me do that. It's kind of a turn off to me. I would probably tell him its not my thing, but after that our sex would not be the same anymore cause in the back of my mind I know I'll never satisfy him that way.
nice. leave him.
I feel the same.. it’s kind of really off putting to me and in the back of my mind it makes me question his sexuality. I’m trying not to look at him different after that but I don’t know how to feel. Or if it’s even normal
I don't blame you cause it's not for everyone, certainly not for me. I wouldn't find it "normal" to be honest, but it seems like that's the new "thing" for some dudes nowadays... getting a fake dick shoved up your ass but as long as its fake you're straight, doesn't make sense.
I don't see anything wrong in it. For each his own right? I've never really done it and I have no desire in doing so... but if he does it to me, why not do the same for him? If you don't want to do it then don't.
It's not gay unless he is sexually attracted to men. Someone who is attracted to the same gender is considered homosexual, he's a guy and you're a girl so he's not gay.
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I've never gotten to experience it, but I would like to, and I'm definitely not gay. Maybe he just wants to experiment? I'm sure it must feel good since people do it. There's no way it's enjoyable for the giver, so it must be for the receiver.
This actually makes me feel sick, why would you want to lick something where your shit comes out of, honestly!
Are you a guy? No? Then how is it gay?
That’s why I’m asking. It’s just a feeling it made me have.. I have heard of straight guys liking it but it’s not very common and def caught me off guard.
Ass play doesn't make a guy gay in the slightest bit. Guys actually have a "g spot" on their prostate that can only be reached by going in through the butt. A guy can finger it himself or a girl can finger it or use toys and that still absolutely does not make him gay it just means he likes that sensation. And ass play is becoming much more common these days.
Tell him honestly how you feel. Ya, some people do that, it doesn't mean its in the "norm". Communication is key. Don't do anything you aren't comfortable with.
Kinda gay? Lol you think a woman doing anything with a man is somehow gay?
Thanks for the laughs I'm losing it so hard over here.
You know what, nvm, yeah, he will turn gay and leave you don't do it! Don't even look at it, heaven forbid you accidentally brush against it and don't you dare stick a finger up there!
You have a dildo? It's penis shaped, don't let him touch it or like, even carrots or anything, it will make him gay
Nah thats silly.
Its like... IF a woman loves having her pussy ate out, does that mean she will let another girl eat it? O. O
what you like to do in the bedroom
doesn't usually dictate sexual orientation :P
plenty of females like to play the dominate and submissive roles
IF she wants to be dominate in bed, does it mean she is more of a "man" O. o.. no
you are a girl.
he's a guy
its attracted to you
he wants you to do things for him O. o
it doesn't make him gay/bi/curious
How is that gay? I always assumed gay to mean attracted to men as a man.
He sounds like a gross dude
I’ll admit that that is gross, but he’s actually not gross, and super clean.
I've been rimmed by a girl and enjoyed it. I'm totally straight, only ever been attracted to girls. I didn't ask for it, she just went for it and I went along. No regrets, feels good!
I don't think it's weird. Do what your comfortable with. I would personally rather just worship her and lick her butthole but that's me lol
not really
I'm bi so I'll like it. But everyone's different
Nope, not at all. You surely should be in to it, if you don't like it, then don't. But if a girl would propose to lick mine, I would not hesitate.
You certainly dont have to be bi or gay to enjoy it :)
It’s normal these days. I’m not really into that unless she wanted to give me one. I think it’s gross and wouldn’t want to personally put her through that. I’m content eating pussy all getting a bj anyday!
Yuck, sry JMO
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