Do you consider it disrespectful to ask if your partner has no STD before having intercourse?

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And how do you make sure if you won't ask out of respect?

BestUserName100 · Accepted Answer

Would you rather you didn't ask and he has one and you wind up getting organ failure or something and dying a horrible painful death. You shouldn't be with someone if they make you feel uncomfortable to talk about those kind of things anyways should you be? You should be able to feel comfortable enough and not try to guilt trip you or anything.

Reaperbot666 · Accepted Answer

not really. rather be safe then sorry. kind of why I don't do hookups or one night stands. some people might not let you know they have something. or they might not even know it they have something themselves yet.

best to get tested every 3-6 months if you change partners often.

Mystic_Nova · Accepted Answer

Nope. Before uneven lose my virginity, if my partner refuses to have an std test, I'm breaking up with them. I'll even take one to for fairness. My health isn't worth their pride. I lived real well with my massager, I can do so longer.

AustinMan · Answer

Don't hesitate to suggest you both get tested before any sex.

AzureGirl · Answer

No, you’re just being cautious.

Dargil · Answer

This is a concern nowadays. The solution is to decide when wet intimacy and intercourse is coming and make a date to get tested, regardless, together. Then celebrate good results.

lauraa9963 · Answer

No. I dont want t have aids lol

Alexandrubaschet08 · Answer

I simply talk about my past, her past. If something hapen in the last time from her last partener and in the very and ask if they ever make a test and ask directly if she is OK whit her healt. They ask me the same qastion before we decidet to do that.

genericname85 · Answer

not "disresprectful" but certainly a level of distrust, that i think you shouldn't be having sex with.

Raja1881 · Answer

Not at all, better to ask and not get

Iron_Man · Answer

No lol... why have sex anyway get married first

SuccessfulHornDog · Answer

I always ask

COMMODOREII · Answer

It is not disrespectful. You should be able to freely ask if you are considering to have sex with each other.

Twalli · Answer

You should ask. Even though I know I will be clean with the next person I have sex with, since I'm not a virgin I will get tested. Pretty much if your partner isn't a virgin you should ask for him/her to get tested just to be safe. If you aren't a virgin, you should do the same.