Do you discuss your sex life with your friends?

Do you think it’s normal to discuss it with your friends in detail?

For example, knowing your best friend’s boyfriend has a swollen penis. Do you consider that private or something to tell your friends about?
Do you discuss your sex life with your friends?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Fine, talk... but never reveal anything personal about you S. O. without talking to them first because that's a total dick move. Keep it general. For example, unless a guy is a total ass he won;t go into more detail with his buds than "yeah I hit that," "she gives hella head," or at the extreme "yeah we head sex under a bridge the other day." If you start talking about the way she shaves, how she orgasms, they way she sounds, et cetera... not cool. That's the same as one of you friends telling you about his swollen penis; that shit is private and it is not okay on any level to discuss that. Otherwise, he'd be waving it around on a banner "I HAVE A SWOLLEN D*CK." (most) Guys have emotions too don't talk about personal stuff.

    Exception to the rule is as petty revenge for if he starts talking about your personal things ;) Just don't go too far with that.

  • No I don’t kiss and tell. That’s a very juvenile/trashy thing to do in my opinion.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Depends. Sometimes I'll brag, like this guy knows how to eat pussy, or if were it wasn't the best sex I'll be like because he's so big and I'm not used to it so we have to take it slow. Nothing so personal that he'd have a reason to feel "betrayed" I guess. Although I did tell my friends when one guy couldn't get it up after 3 very separate occasions.

  • No I don't, the only thing they will know is who the guy is I'm sleeping with but I won't tell details
    Or maybe we will say like if we found it good or not but again no details needed, there is something called privacy lol

  • No, it's not something I will ever talk about, nor am I interested in hearing about others.

    • Thank you for the MHO.

    • No problem 😊

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  • I don't talk about the physical characteristics of my partner, but I do talk with my best friend about the last time I had sex or if we did it more than once, stuff like that. Or when I just tried something for the first time, but never get into too much detail.

  • I usually will talk about stuff with my friends (male or female) in generally vague terms. How good it was, how bad it was, etc.
    But I have one friend I tell everything. She gets all of the details, and I get the same from her. Lol

  • In general no. I keep it as private as possible 😎

  • I admit it, I do and so do my friends. We don't get into too much explicit details but sometimes we'll talk about what he is performance wise, especially if its steamy and passionate

  • I thought everyone did? lol

    Do you discuss your sex life with your friends?
  • I'm surprised so many people answered yes. Keep your mouth shut about your partner's business!

    • I agree with you completely.

  • Yes I have done since high school.

  • No, I never did that. I only discuss it with you. Oh, wait, shit. Nothing :|

  • Some things, I never go into too much detail. That’s disrespectful. Just advice and stuff.

    • That's respectful.

    • Yeah, I wouldn’t want his mates knowing anything about me or him talking about me in a sexual way.

    • I think epolle and share within reason even some personal details but it depends on you your parenter and your friend. Not everyone is going to be comfortable with it but I think with proper boundaries it can be acceptable.

  • Sometimes, like very briefly, won’t go over the detail.

  • No, not something we talk about.

  • My friends probably surmise that my relationship is sexual because my girlfriend stays overnight with me. That is all that they will ever know.

  • Wait wait wait. Hold up. You said in the question "discuss YOUR sex life with friends?" Then your example seems to be talking about the sex life of your friend? Discussing your sex life is cool, but why do you need to bring up someone else's sex life to someone unrelated? That's just gossip.

    • I used it as an example of what someone else told me which I felt was TMI and the inspiration to this question..

    • Yeah, them telling you is fine, but you going and telling other friends about it just seems like gossip, at least in my opinion. It maybe was a little tmi though haha.

    • I didn’t tell other friends...

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  • No. You said hsi dick was swollen? What do you mean, what happened to him to cause that? Like it would seem you said swollen because it was different than normal. If you just mean as in it was hard, that's kind of stupid. That's just an erection that's all, not something different than any other dudes boner, so I don't know why that was an example or what would be discussed...

  • Never!

  • WHy would you want your friends knowing the shit that goes on in your bedroom? Or sexual problems you guys have? Unless they are really close and they take it to their grave and you need them to figure shit out perhaps. But then I would think it wouldn't be so graphic or intrusive to embarrass you SO.

  • Surely not.

  • No, I don't. I would think things like that were really inappropriate to discuss with friends. I don't do it myself and would feel uncomfortable if a friend tried to talk to me about that stuff.

  • Not details, but I will tell my best friend who and where I did it

  • That is betraying a trust. What happens in your bedroom is nobody else's business.

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