Sexual Relationships 
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When you are ready to get physical with a new partner, do you do things on a date to try to get them aroused and perhaps send a signal that you are receptive to getting it on? What things do you do to get your partner's sexual attention?
Do you do things during a date to try to get your partner sexually aroused?
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6 22Yes mostly just poking her with it or rubbing her thighs
I have done everything from nothing to having sex in a parking lot because we couldn't wait.
Now, I don't even date because I think it is too dangerous for men. I am not tall or rich and I am not particularly good-looking, so when women come on to me I am immediately suspicious of their motives. This happens a lot and I am not sure why, but it is very disturbing.
Given all this, if I were to go on a date, I would make damn sure we took separate cars, and I would walk into the restaurant alone and leave alone and make sure the waitstaff saw this. I would never be alone with my date in private or touch her or let her touch me.
Excessive? YES! Necessary? YES! Worth it? NO!
I just don’t go on dates with women to begin with
With me, by the time we're going on an official date, we're already attracted enough to each other that she would be disappointed if there was no sex.
An "official" date. Does that require a license from the courthouse? Your generation plays games wth sthemseles to deny that they have interest in a potential partner. We're just chillin'! Were just hangin' out! Etc. You won't admit that you are actually dating until you are on the way to the hospital for the birth of your second child. All quite silly!
never been on a date never felt the need for one.
Depends on their beliefs about sex, if you haven’t discussed it yet give it a shot but if she doesn’t bite then have a convo about her beliefs and if it’s not that then put in more work or move to the next.