Do you enjoy anal sex?

[ElissaIsBelgian]

I personally am over the moon when a guy enters me over there. Especially if he is really well hung. Doggystyle is very enjoyable with enough lube and gentle penetration imho. It gets hot especially when a guy tells me how tight I am and how wet my backdoor is. Dirty talk makes it extra pleasurable. I can orgasm from PIA sex. What about you? Do you like anal intercourse? Why or why not?

[nightdrot]

Absolutely! Especially when my girlfriend and I are having more primal, instinctual sex. It makes me feel dominant and aggressive and that I am using her body for my needs. Also, listening to her, as I mount her from behind, as she begs for more is a wild turn-on.

Embarrassing note, I have tried gay sex in the past - long story - and I enjoyed being both top and bottom. It was in many ways the opposite of anal with my girlfriend. With her, I am dominant and the sex tends to be very primal.

In the relationship I had, I would not call it romantic, but it was more intimate. There was also this weird sense that you would share things with another guy that you might not even share with a gal.

Even though I have been with my girlfriend for over a decade and we have three children and I have no desire to be with a man, feeling him inside me was a turn-on. Now aren't you sorry you asked?

[ElissaIsBelgian]

Exploring is never a shame. Don’t let anyone shame you for it. I enjoy it when a guy is dominant with me. The thought that he is breeding me and that I can’t escape. I don’t know, it makes me shivver from pleasure. As a trans woman, my prostate is also in my anus and on estrogen it feels even more sensitive. It gives me full body orgasms when he enters me. It doesn’t have anything to do with sexual orientation that you like something inside your butt. Enough straight men who like being pegged by their girlfriend. I love porn type sex but after it’s finished, I love being loved and protected. Like, first wild sex and then very protective and caring of each other. Does that sound weird?

[nightdrot]

First, thanks. I was only throwing in a bit of humor. It is not something I broadcast, but I am not ashamed either. Besides, it was my gfd's idea. (As I say, a long story.) As to part about wanting to feel loved, that echoes my girlfriend almost exactly. She tends to be submissive and I am the dominant one. We do have romantic sex but a lot of our sex is very primal and instinctual. We tend to be like two animals breeding in a field. Yet, she tells me that in a weird way it makes her feel protected and loved. When we are done, she tells me - and frankly I would do it anyhow - that she likes to be held and told that she is loved. It is an interesting mix - and I totally get it. In fact, even for me, I feel when the sex is very primal that I am in some way that she is mine and I am protecting her and caring for her. Again, very odd but there it is. With the guy, we became good friends for a while and there was something that clicked emotionally. It ended awkwardly, but he was a good man.

[partydelights]

Never been penetrated by a penis because I'm a straight guy.

However, I do enjoy solo anal because I could reach my prostate with my middle finger.

And I got ATOMIC explosion (LOL) from such "massages" - Orgasm that is much stronger than penile stimulation.

So I think guys should enjoy RECEIVING anal; me included.

[ElissaIsBelgian]

I was more talking about giving when you are a straight guy and receiving when you are a straight girl :) As a straight girl I can definitely say I love love love anal

[partydelights]

LOL! Sorry wrong direction... LOL! My wife hates anal. And I never gave her except with a vibrator. (But it's my fantasy she butt fuck me, but I kniw she won't. LOL)

[ElissaIsBelgian]

A lot of men fantasize about being butt fucked by a woman. If you knew how many men asked me to use my penis on them, men who are totally not gay at all, you would be shocked. Men who worked as construction workers, kickbocksers, alphamale businessmen,... Guys you wouldn’t expect it from. Many of them asked me to perform anal on them which I refused because my penis doesn’t get hard enough anymore for that and I wouldn’t want to do it anyway, since I’m passive only. With sex toys it’s not the same. The closest approximation would be to buy a huge polish sausage and wrapping it in a condom and ask your wife to fuck you with it. Use enough lube. I don’t like to do butt stuff on a guy ( or a girl ) but I like it when a guy crossdresses and tops me when he is in female attire. I’m a non-op trans woman. Lesbian sex is amazing. But I love dick soo much and I love men so much that women are not first choice because anal is too much. Maybe you should communicate your desires to your wife.

[partydelights]

Thanks for your great advice and ezperiences. My wife and I are quite reserve and traditional. I don't do anal on her because of my personal stigma it's "dirty". That's why I only tried with a vibrator. And I am satisfied with our sex life. So anal from her to me is not necessary (although it's a fantasy to me). Anyway, good to know I'm still "normal" (LOL) as I always believe prostrate orgasm could be more enjoyable than penile.

[ElissaIsBelgian]

Many people around your age are still traditional. You also happen to be in the US where traditional views are the standard. I live in Europe, Belgium. We don’t really have right wing thinking here and we have a very sexually liberated society here. Even religion is not important here. So strange how two Westearn countries can differ so much from each other. The USA is fascinating in that regard. You still have traditional views that have been preserved. It’s rare for a Westearn country. Most Westearn countries are very sexually liberated. Separated by an ocean we live in two completely different societies it seems :) I wish you the best in your marriage and fantasizing is never wrong. You do you :)

[partydelights]

I think you missed my profile country: Malaysia. It's in Southeast Asia; and if you think US is traditinal, then multiply it by 10. We still have virgin marriages here and monogamy among the Chinese here is almost an implied lifestyle. My wife and I studied the Bible a lot and have adopted Westernized thinking. We talked more about sex and sexuality thank we know our peers and country man do. (Both our parents practically did not give us sex ed and we married as "extra pure virgins" LOL) As of now, were happy with our sex life and are learning to live and build a family tigether. We hope to grow old together and only parted by death. So thanks and have a great life yourself!

[ElissaIsBelgian]

Malaysia is indeed very very traditional. I have been to Hat Yai in Thailand, close to the Malaysian border, a few years ago. Met lots of Malaysian people when I was in Hat Yai. I was there for a cosmetic surgery trip. Malaysia is also not really accepting of LGBT people yet either. Thailand is much more open minded.

[partydelights]

O I like Hat Yai. Friendly people and WONDERFUL seafood. 😁 And Yes, LGBT is not tolerated in Muslim controlled states. Just this month, two lesbians were canes publicly for engaging in lesbian sex in a car. It rose a great social media complain even from non LGBT society. Although I'm straight and know little about LGBT, I think society has evolved and we should tolerate each other's lifestyle. I'm agnostic, by the way; although I read the Bible and write bible commentaries. Should you visit Malaysia or Singapore, do drop me a message.

[ElissaIsBelgian]

Malaysian people themselves are open minded though :) Muslim controlled States are indeed much stricter although that depends. Iran subsidizes gender reassignment surgery for trans people but they give gay people the chance to either transition or to be sentenced to death. Ayatollah Komeini released a Fathwa in the late 80s after having had a talk with a trans woman named Miriam. Komeini was convinced being transsexual was a mental ilness that you could cure by having gender surgery. Homosexuality was explicitly recognised as a sin by the Kuran and therefore sentenced by death. So gay people were forced to transition to escape death. A bit sad actually. I think I would be sentenced to death in Iran too though because they force sex change surgery on trans people while it’s not necessary for every trans person. I for example had everything done except for lower surgery because no one in the streets sees what’s in my pants. They see my face. The see food in Hat Yai was amazing, Yes!! :-D

[ElissaIsBelgian]

I love traveling to Asia by the way. Asia is awesome. I love the lifestyle way more than here in the west. I have often thought about traveling to Thailand. Pattaya or Puket. China, Hongkong, is a city I have thought about moving to as well but Chinese people are very conservative so probably not a good idea. I love the climate in East-South Asia as well :D I definitely will drop you a note if I travel to Singapore or Malaysia :)

[partydelights]

I think with the ease of use of the Internet and mobile devices, Asians are liberating. While we're still by and large traditional, we are ready to accept friendship with LBGT individuals. Asia has about 25% world population. So statistically, you'll find enough people who will accept and practice LGBT lifestyle. 😁 Apart from that, Southeast Asia is a food paradise. If you like to eat, then you won't have problem living here. Moreover, it's warm throughout the year. I know many Westerners like such climax. Well, whatever you choose in life, wherever you go, I wish you happiness.

[lovelygirl1234]

yeah anal is great you put a lot of lube and have a guy with a nice thick dick go inside, gives you that weird feeling of your throat closing if the guy is big enough.

I've seen here that you're a trans girl I always wanted to have sex with a trans girl would you be willing to get it on with a girl?

[ElissaIsBelgian]

I’m not into girls :) I don’t even have sex by using my penis. I completely ignore my penis. My sex organs cause me mental distress. I plan to undergo gender reassignment surgery in the near future. My penis shrank to 4 cm and that is in erected situation. My testicles retracted. My genitalia look more like a large clitoris. I fall for heterosexual men. There are a lot of lesbian trans women though but I consider myself a heterosexual female. Once I will have had bottom surgery in the near future. Anal is awesome, I agree.

[lovelygirl1234]

aww that sucks doesn't hurt to try right? I'm sorry your genitals make you feel like that just take it easy and girl yourself up

[ElissaIsBelgian]

I would never try something with a girl to be honest. Unless she was a trans girl herself. I will have bottom surgery in the near future so I’m confident that everything will be ok. I get enough male attention. Men don’t like to admit it but sneakily a lot of straight men approach me. Online they are pretending not to want anything to do with a trans girl because their ego can’t handle being honest with themselves and others.

[lovelygirl1234]

I dont see the big deal if I was a guy I'd be fucking trans girls trans girls are probably hornier than us bio girls and probably take it up the rear like a champ

[ElissaIsBelgian]

I can’t wait until I have a neovagina. Having my clitoris licked and played with and having him do me doggy in the puss hmmmm

[lovelygirl1234]

thats always great by the way will you retain sesitivity after than procedure?

[ElissaIsBelgian]

All sensivity is retained, Yes. Orgasming is very likely. Estrogen gives me full body orgasms already and what used to be the head of my penis now responds like a clitoris. It takes longer to warm up though. The guy has to touch the right buttons to get me in the mood xD

[lovelygirl1234]

so what if a guy licks what used to be the head of your penis?

[ElissaIsBelgian]

Lovelygirl1234 : the structure is completely different on estrogen. My penis shrank, my testicles retracted and the skin of the penis and the scrotum is very soft and has the same bacterial environment as a vagina has. Have you ever heard of lactobasilli? That’s the main flora in the vagina. On estrogen my penis also has lactobasilli. It would be a completely different experience for the man than if he would go with a man. The structures are feminized by estrogen. The skin thinned a lot too. Just like vaginal skin is thinner than penile skin.

[lovelygirl1234]

that sound interesting tbh have a guy give you oral like as girl see how you fare out

[laurieluvsit]

YES! That's my favorite too!

[Sunsetman]

I love it with the girlfriend who enjoys it too!

[laurieluvsit]

UPDATE: I'm blonde actually... lol ... you have a "big one" of what?

[ElissaIsBelgian]

It’s my favorite too. I don’t have a big one. I love a big one haha. I meant that I love a big dick. I think you read it wrong. I updated with : ‘’ I love it when he has a big ( dick ) one ‘’ .

[laurieluvsit]

OMG... I warned you I was blonde! ... lol

[ElissaIsBelgian]

I’m blonde too, dark blonde lol

[Sunsetman]

I see that a breakfast club can be born haha

[laurieluvsit]

@ElissaIsBelgian OH MY! Now I know why you like the "BIG ONES" ... lol

[ElissaIsBelgian]

Laurieluvsit , why do I love ‘’ the big ones ’’ ? Girl, I’m blonde too, you have to be more explicit otherwise I won’t get it :-P

[ElissaIsBelgian]

@sunsetman I love breakfast clubs :-D what about ‘’ The blondies ‘’ , does that sound good? :-P

[Sunsetman]

yes I can agree.. lol. @ your service ;)

[ElissaIsBelgian]

@sunsetman , do we let dyed blondes in too or only natural blondes? :-P

[laurieluvsit]

@ElissaIsBelgian Because "Blondes have more fun!" and the bigger they are the more fun they provide... lol

[Sunsetman]

@ElissaIsBelgian first session with natural blondes ;)

[ElissaIsBelgian]

@sunsetman I’m a natural blonde, yayyy I’m welcome then 😂

[Sunsetman]

of course ! ;)

[ElissaIsBelgian]

Are you blonde too? @sunsetman :-D

[Hisexy]

Anal is the best love fingers and dildos up my ass

[roxy_362]

I can relate to everything you wrote from a somewhat different perspective. I am a gay man who is an exclusive bottom during sex with guys. I simply love getting fucked in the ass, it gives me a feeling of being full and complete unlike anything else… So, from the standpoint of a man who receives anal sex, it can be extremely pleasurable, if my man knows how to be a good top and takes his time fucking me. I would not exchange this feeling with any other act of sex.

[musicbrain5]

It's not my thing. I'm not interested in it one bit.

[ElissaIsBelgian]

To each their own. That’s why exploring is so great. Nothing has to be, almost everything can be.

[OlderAndWiser]

I don't discuss sex with transgenders.

[ElissaIsBelgian]

Transgender is an adjective, not a noun. I’m a trans woman. Trans describes the type of woman that I am. Just like you don’t say tallwoman you don’t say transwoman or transgenders. You say tall woman or trans woman. Your reaction is a bit childish. You could have skipped the question.

[OlderAndWiser]

I appreciate your lesson on transgrammar.

[John_Bouff]

tfw when trans is a noun

[ElissaIsBelgian]

You are welcome, Older and Childish. Did you even know that your theory doesn’t make sense? I was born with XXY chromosomes, not with XY. Klinefelter is quite common. Based on my chromosomes I’m not a male and have never been. Did you know that not everyone is born with XX or XY? Intersex people exist, idiot.

[John_Bouff]

If you have a dick, you're a goy

[ElissaIsBelgian]

@ John_Bouff : I don’t have testicles and in the near future I’m having gender reassignment surgery. You do know that a trans woman can have a vagina, right. How can you claim that a post op trans woman is a man when she has a neovagina? Explain.

[OlderAndWiser]

I studied molecular genetics as an undergraduate. I am not the idiot.

[ElissaIsBelgian]

OlderAndWiser : I have XXY chromosomes. What about that. Chromosomally I’m not a man and soon I will have a neovagina.

[John_Bouff]

You think the Frankenstein monster is a man or a golem made of the parts of different dead men?

[ElissaIsBelgian]

John_Bouff a neovagina is structurally exactly the same as a natural vagina. I don’t get where all these negative feelings come from. The most important is that a person is happy with their body and lives a good life. I try to be a good person for everyone around me and transitioning has allowed me to be happy in my body. Why would that be a sin according to you? I don’t get why some people always feel the need to attack someone if they discover that person is trans. I always honestly tell my partners. I have never hidden it. I don’t see why you feel a need to treat people who are trans this way. Anyway, I probably will never understand what lives in your mind. Live and let live.

[John_Bouff]

Bro you can't become a woman. It's in your head. When I was a kid I wanted to become a pirate, then I wanted to become Genghis Khan, I settled for being a history teacher and finally a software programmer. Those are somewhat realistic goals. Becoming a woman isn't. You might as well want to become Mongolian

[ElissaIsBelgian]

John_Bouff You do understand that gender dysphoria is a biologically determined condition, right? Should we just ignore the biological facts in your opinion because that fits better with your conservative outlook on life? Gender identity is determined by the gender dysmorphic nucleus in the brains. The hypothalamus and the thyroid show a different structure in trans women than they it shows in men. The brain structures of trans women are more analogous with what they are in cisgender women. Do you understand that? Have you actually read any scientific papers on gender dysphoria? You do understand that sex is not black and white either, right? Some people are born intersex. I was born intersex. I was born with XXY chromosomes. It amazes me how many Americans are still so ignorant and only want to believe right-wing nonsense proclaimed by idiots like Trump. Sexists, misogynists, transphobes, homophobes. Your ignorance never seems to stop amazing me. In a negative way that is :)

[John_Bouff]

What a wailing wall did not read

[DeeDeeDeVour]

It hurts but, yes, I do.

[ElissaIsBelgian]

If it hurts then the top is doing it wrong. Anal should be pleasurable when practiced correctly. It is key to start slowly and gently. Butt plugs help with this. First starting small and then making your way to bigger. Building up is key. Starting big at once is not a good idea because the muscles have to get adapted to it. Water based lube is also not suitable for anal. It creates too much friction as it dries up too soon. Silicone based lube is better for it. Trying with fingers first might be a good idea as well. Enjoy and practice safe anal sex only and never switch from anal to vaginal with the same condom. It can cause infections. Have fun ^_^

[DarkFunction]

I love it I think it's great

[ElissaIsBelgian]

Oh definitely. I can orgasm from penis in anus sex. I also love it because I know he is in control of me.

[DarkFunction]

That must feel awesome! I like doing it in missionary too so I can use my fingers inside her v and use my thumb on her clit

[SjE78]

I have enjoyed giving but only ever with women, and even then only with those I am in a serious relationship with...
but the thought of anyone entering me is a hell no

[ElissaIsBelgian]

It is pleasurable, indeed. Enjoying to give doesn’t automatically mean enjoying to receive, I don’t dispute that. Anal sex doesn’t have anything to do with sexual orientation. Gay / straight and bi couples can all practice it safely. Enough men who get pegged by their women with a strap-on. I’m a trans woman and many straight men who didn’t have any interest in men at all, admitted to me that they liked being with me because anal is easier to ask from me than from a woman who has a vagina because she will be more prejudiced against it because of societal anecdotes that circulate about it. To each their own though. That’s what makes life so great :)

[SjE78]

yeah I know it feels amazing tbh when giving and the women who've i've tried it with have enjoyed it even orgasm from from it tbh due to my own health issues anything involving my anus is uncomfortable and problematic nor have I ever had any interest to attempt it either. I agree society does play a huge part in the misconceptions of the way anal is perceived but as long as hygiene is adhered to and precautions taken it can be as fun and enjoyable for both party's involved, I mean taking the time can be equally part of the fun as it is for safety reasons...

[Bruce_VVayne]

I like it, but I've never been obsessed about it if my partner doesn't like it.

[ElissaIsBelgian]

Sex is something you do with two. So it’s good you take your partner’s needs into consideration.

[Bruce_VVayne]

Of course, we are not animals

[AlbertsPrince]

If I have a partner, she's going to be one who naturally loves anal sex. I'm pretty well hung so if she likes 'em thick and pierced, then good; she's in for a good time.

[ElissaIsBelgian]

Personally I love anal. A lot of people want to try it but are ashamed because of prudish leftovers from other times that still circulate about anal.

[NeglectedChild]

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If you study medicine you'll know it's a public health crisis.
Anal intercourse, as a violation of our bodily design, is unhealthy and anatomically destructive, damaging the rectum and spreading disease because the rectal tissues are fragile and porous.

People are a bunch of degenerates.

[ElissaIsBelgian]

If it happens gently and with enough protection it’s not as bad as you would think it is. You are dilating the entrance over there. The muscles will get used to it when it’s done more often. Taking an enema will kill most bacteria. If you let your body reculture it’s flora after anal sex, it’s not like it’s really threatening. Smoking isn’t good either and there are more people who smoke than who fuck each other in the backdoor.

[NeglectedChild]

Peoples lack of knowledge of anatomy is concerning. The anal opening is not an "entrance" it is in fact an exit, used to excrete waste. Maybe when you have to witness someones anus being sewn up you'll understand why you shouldn't put things up there and realise that it is in fact "really threatening". Anal tearing can also lead to pregnancy believe it or not. I agree, smoking isn't good but I don't see how that's relevant to this discussion.

[ElissaIsBelgian]

Rectovaginal fistulas do not occur often. They are a very rare exception. The sperm wouldn’t make it past the colon because the colon is filled with acidic fluids which the spermatozoids wouldn’t survive. Anal to vaginal can indeed lead to pregnancy but so can mouth to vagina. It has nothing to do with anal. The anus is an entrance though. Why do you think so much medication is given rectally? Because the bio-availability is much higher in the rectum than elsewhere. Suppositories are very popular for that reason.

[NeglectedChild]

Some medication must be applied or treated at the source or close to it. It doesn't make the anal opening an entrance for a penis, especially not a "big one". Regardless, anal sex is damaging to the body, whether you believe it or not. If you enjoy anal stimulation, that's fine, just know that there are risks associated with it. Also fingering is less damaging.

[ElissaIsBelgian]

I will take the risk :) crossing over the road also comes with risks. Voting for Trump also comes with risks. Probably more than anal comes with risks. Lol.

[NeglectedChild]

You should also know what these risks are. Children are taught how to cross a road and how to avoid danger. And there are public facilities and utilities to ensure pedestrians safe passage. Unlike crossing the road, anal sex is not necessary and is as foolish as smoking. The act of sodomy itself is intrinsically masochistic.

[ElissaIsBelgian]

I think you have a lot of prejudices against anal sex because of religious interpretations about this form of sex. Vaginal isn’t necessary either. Many people have vaginal sex for other means than reproduction. What is your opinion about neovaginal sex? The act of sex between a man and a trans woman who has undergone gender reassignment surgery and now has a vagina created through penile inversion?

[NeglectedChild]

My criticisms of anal sex stem from the fact that it is bad for your health and also the health of others. Whether I'm a religious bigot or not, you can't argue with proven medical findings. Vaginal sex is necessary and fulfils a natural function and purpose, where as anal sex does not. You could say it's a perversion of a natural desire/function. I've not studied anything about neovaginal sex so far so I plead ignorance when it comes to the dangers surrounding it.

[Inneedofusername]

@NeglectedChild Oh my God, finally. A man who knows that anal sex is damaging to the body. We need more people like you. I don't care what people are doing in private, but it is so sad that so many are seeing hurting someone as something fun

[NeglectedChild]

@Inneedofusername Like I said previously, the act of sodomy itself is intrinsically masochistic. And that's aside from the fact that it is anatomically destructive.

[jacquesvol]

Not in any sense

[ElissaIsBelgian]

Well, according to your profile age you come from a different generation so I can understand that :)

[jacquesvol]

@ElissaIsBelgian nothing up to date in anal Greeks knew it 2700 years ago

[Browneye57]

Some do. Some don't. So what.
And a anus isn't 'wet' by itself silly.

[ElissaIsBelgian]

The anus can absolutely be wet. Mine is. When a person is hydrated enough the small mucus lining in the anus secretes humidity.

[Browneye57]

And you're a complete idiot. Sorry toots. LOL Humidity? Geesh.

[ElissaIsBelgian]

The anus has a minor amount of self-lubrication. I know that mine does and I know other people who experience that too. Why do you fall back to insults when you could have stayed polite? I don’t call you an old pervert either, do I?

[Browneye57]

You are a fake. FAKE FAKE FAKE FAKE. And I resemble that remark. LOL

[ElissaIsBelgian]

Old moral preeching idiots like you are tiresome. I’m not even going to give you the attention of my day anymore. I have never hidden the fact that I’m a woman of transsexual experience and have talked very openly about it. You can’t even call me a man based on biology since I was born with XXY chromosomes. Not everyone is born with XX or XY chromosomes. You don’t even know what you talk about. Alzheimer boy.

[Bhragu]

How unlikely are my chances to find a straight or bi guy who wants to commit and be in a steady relationship with a non-operated transsexual woman? ↗
Bye!

[hindril]

I love dirty talk and I do like giving a girl anal. Just as long as she is willing and we are "prepped."

[ElissaIsBelgian]

Yes, prepping is very important. I enjoy it even more with poppers. I have only done poppers twice but it gave it an even better feeling. I was even more relaxed, my muscles over there where more loose and he could enter me better and go deeper. Anal is amazing. Especially doggy and cowgirl. Him taking control of me and overpowering me is heavenly.

[hindril]

I don't know what poppers are. I will have to look into that. I am glad you like it and sounds lime your SO does too.

[ElissaIsBelgian]

Poppers are light-stimulating agents :) I don’t have a SO currently. Lol. Have fun doing research on anal. It makes the world more colorful ;-)

[hindril]

Thank you. I don't have an SO either. Once I do we will experiment.

[LegateLanius]

Never tried it

[ElissaIsBelgian]

You are still young enough to explore your sexual boundaries. Take your time I would say ^_^

[Anon-ymous1]

Yes, a lot. I don't really understand the point of dirty talk; it's always
unpleasurable to me. But yes, anal is great. More girls should be into it and realize that it's normal.

[ElissaIsBelgian]

It’s still taboo in society, I know. I for one love it because it’s a gentle pressure inside of you and the backdoor is so tight so it stimulates him better. It gives me a lot of satisfaction when my guy is mooning while doing me because it shows how much he loves it.

[Anon-ymous1]

Mooning?

[ElissaIsBelgian]

Moaning I meant. English is not my primary language. Speaking goes easily but I make spelling mistakes. Apologies :)

[Senacık]

ı like

[AlbertsPrince]

Isn't size a careful consideration for you then?

[ElissaIsBelgian]

A young girl who likes anal. You will be getting pms from a lot of old creeps lol

[heyyyyy69]

You also wanna have a threesome with your mom soooooo

[ElissaIsBelgian]

@heyyyyy69 I’m sorry but I never said I wanted to have a threesome with my mom. I am not into incest. Why would you say such a thing?

[heyyyyy69]

I'm not speaking about you lol

[ElissaIsBelgian]

Heyyyyy69 oh I already thought to myself : ‘’ why would he say that about me ‘’ haha :) nevermind, sorry for asking :)

[somomne]

Just i dont know 😕😕😕

[ElissaIsBelgian]

For everything there is a first time they say ;)

[danielmeegan]

If she craves it id giver what she needs some women crave it

[larry69]

Absolutely not. Lol

[ElissaIsBelgian]

Have you tried it or are you repulsed by the idea?

[skateranon123]

1. I'm sorry everyone is giving you shit for being a trans girl

2. yes anal sex is great I love it cause its tighter than a vagina and its a nice way to get kinky. I love cumming inside girls asses.

If you like it then go you.

[ElissaIsBelgian]

Thanks for your take on the subject. To be honest I don’t care about a few narrow minded idiots who don’t know that being trans is a biological condition. I pass as a girl, I sound and look like a girl and my hormonal system is that of a girl. Plus I was born with Klinefelter syndrome, so their claims that I’m genetically male don’t even hold up. Not everyone is born with XX or XY chromosomes. Thanks for being open minded enough to realise that those who attack me based on my trans identity are idiots :)

[skateranon123]

my cousing is a trans girl back when she was still a boy she came out to me and then started working and now she has the full body of a girl vagina and everything if guys here saw her on the street they would probably wanna smash her. She is high class though after her surgeries she married a 40 year old lawyer she is 25 and they live in the lapse of luxury

[ElissaIsBelgian]

I am very passable as well. Guys don’t realise when they meet me. My voice never dropped, I started hormones and testosterone-blockers at 19 and overall I was lucky that I am petite. I get a lot of male attention too. In the trans community I’m an exception as I am a heterosexual woman. I plan to have bottom surgery in the near future but I’m waiting to save up enough to go to dr Suporn in Thailand. He is the best surgeon in the world.

[skateranon123]

Hey you do you and hopefully someday you'll find a guy that enjoys being with you

[ElissaIsBelgian]

Thanks. I’m not in a rush haha

[skateranon123]

yeah I know that why I said "someday"

[ElissaIsBelgian]

No worries, I got it :)

[jasco]

well at the moment i am single so I don't know but if i had to sure i do it it makes her feel nice and she enjoys it

[ElissaIsBelgian]

Sex is indeed giving and taking. I must honestly say though that once they tried it, I have never known a man who didn’t like anal. I have met tons who are repulsed by the idea but haven’t tried it. It’s prejudice but hey, to each their own ;)

[jasco]

true lol and well i dont mind it its fun but tbh i rather go for the pussy or mouth i means anal might be easier and less likely for the girl to get pregnant but still i dont like seeing someone in pain so its up to her

[ElissaIsBelgian]

Oral is definitely fun too. I love to deepthroat. Ass to mouth is amazing. Anal shouldn’t hurt though. It’s a myth. When you do it right, it is very pleasurable for both. The key is building up. The muscles need to be trained to be able to take a large penis. First with butt plugs, then with a small penis, then with a larger one. Anal muscles loosen over time by training.

[jasco]

true true and lol same i like when she deep thraot mm it feels so gud to

[ElissaIsBelgian]

I love to deepthroat my boyfriends. Especially when they cum in my mouth. It took a bit of time to control my gag reflex but now I’m good to go lol

[jasco]

lol well i hope u find a boyfriend and i hope i find a girlfriend soon to also lol u crazy haha but yea it does take a while to control a gag reflex but u get use to it and no i am not bi or gay i just threw a lot when i was little

[ElissaIsBelgian]

I have a lot of friends with benefits, that comes with the same advantages as a boyfriend haha

[jasco]

lol well at the moment i dont think i have any but oh well enjoy them

[ElissaIsBelgian]

I definitely do enjoy them :D 3 times a week xD

[jasco]

lol alright u be going all out dang lol

[ElissaIsBelgian]

Omg I have been talking so explicitly to you and I didn’t realise you were only 16. Omg, forgive me. I’m so ashamed now. I didn’t know you were a minor. Omg I’m sorry :-(

[jasco]

damn i hate when y'all people do that shit y'all think just because i am a minnor that i dont know shit thats why i dislike older people y'all all think the damn same cut us young folk some slack for all of ur info some of us grow up early and know more about adult hood at the age of 15 then any of u adults actually do excuss my language but that really pisses me off and it is very disrespectful to me so what i am a minor u dont think i dont know what a friend with benefits is

[jasco]

i mean i have talk to so many older people its pretty ridouclous and sorry but when i get mad i miss spell stuff ik a lot about sex anal and stuff i might be a virgin but i anit stupid

[jasco]

no offense but even if that person is a minnor it dont matter cause in the end its better if they learn now then try figuring it out later and in up getting burn in the long run so yea its not bad for kids to learn what sex is they going to find out anyway eventually

[ElissaIsBelgian]

It’s just that you are only 16 and as someone who is going on 23 I feel it’s morally wrong to talk so explicitly to a boy of your age. You are still discovering everything. That’s okay. Take your time :) I just felt a bit ashamed because I didn’t realise you were only 16. My brother is 19 and I still treat him like my little brother. It’s just that I’m a protective person. I feel uncomfortable that I talked so explicitly to someone of your age. It’s nothing against younger people :)

[jasco]

ok well sorry that u feel that way its just i have been threw so much bs just bc of my age cut me some slack i might be young but still udk what ik and i am sorry if u uncomfortable with talking to me i shall leave now bye

[Kelly6]

Yes
My favorite

[ElissaIsBelgian]

I adore it as well :)

[Kelly6]

My favorite position is doggystyle too

[ElissaIsBelgian]

Cowgirl is awesome as well though. Especially when he finishes by giving me a pearl necklace cumshot.

[Kelly6]

But I enjoy as doggy

[skateordiesv]

Well it cam be great but finding a woman who can go past sure try to make it fit then saying its too big is hard to find it seems. It can be great but vaginal and oral are also still awesome

[ElissaIsBelgian]

Well, it takes some training to be able to take a large penis. After a few smaller ones I went for a few middle large ones and now I can take 8” easily. So it all comes down to training enough :-P

[skateordiesv]

I suppose it could if they are willing to do so but if your with 1 guy and you give up or get mad after 1 try then its no fun for either. So yeah can be fun with the right person

[ElissaIsBelgian]

Well, I was not in a relationship with those guys. They were friends with benefits. My last boyfriend said that they trained me well for him to be his cumdump though so yeah, it’s a matter of having the same thought pattern I guess :-)

[Jerre]

A number of women I was with wanted my cock in their ass. For most, it hurt too much and we stopped. I am exceptionally large (girth) so it is rare I can do that. Several women were good, got my entire cock in. Was so tight, sure felt good and made me cum really hard.

[ElissaIsBelgian]

I have been able to take big cocks only after I built up my ability to take something into my backdoor. I started with poorly endowed men, then built up from there and now I can take 8 inch length and 3 inch girth. I love it. It is more dominant than missionary. I love it when he humiliates me and dominates me by using my asshole for his gratification. Having him pound me hard and then having him cum over my tits is totally the end for me hmmm

[Jerre]

PM me please and we can discuss further

[ElissaIsBelgian]

Well, I was just giving my take on the act of anal sex, I wasn’t solliciting or something. :-)

[John_Bouff]

Nice try tranny

[ElissaIsBelgian]

Stop calling me slurs. You have no reason to harrass me.

[John_Bouff]

Miss me with that gay shit

[ElissaIsBelgian]

Being transgender has nothing to do with being gay. Gender identity has nothing to do with sexual orientation.

[jimmy2]

Hummm my girlfriend coming soon she says she loves it too

[ElissaIsBelgian]

A lot of couples love it! The ones who don’t are in the minority and the ones who do like it will not voice it publicly out of fear for being stigmatized. That’s why I love to hang out with people in the BDSM scene. People on FetLife are less prone to these prejudices that float around in society about anal :)

[masterkamasutra]

anal is fun for sure.

[6942Dom]

Not really. But she loves it, so I does.

[ElissaIsBelgian]

Why don’t you like it? What makes vaginal more pleasurable than anal to you?

[6942Dom]

POOP!!!

[ElissaIsBelgian]

If she does a proper enema that shouldn’t be a problem at all. Sounds like she doesn’t prep herself properly before you two try it. Prepping yourself properly is very very important when it comes to anal. It’s a sign of respect for your partner. I can understand that you don’t like it if she doesn’t clean her colon well before you two have anal intercourse. Tell her to do an enema at least 1 hour before you are going to engage in anal intercourse. The water needs the time to be able to come out. Semi-warm water should do.

[6942Dom]

I only do it with enema.

[sunnykhanbhutta123]

I love it what about u

[ElissaIsBelgian]

Absolutely love it! Doggy is my favorite. Especially if he has a big cock xD

[sunnykhanbhutta123]

Do u have boyfriend

[sunnykhanbhutta123]

I have big one😉

[ElissaIsBelgian]

I love a big one ;-) I’m single, what about you? ^_^

[sunnykhanbhutta123]

I'm also single nowadays

[sunnykhanbhutta123]

I wanna fuck ur ass

[ElissaIsBelgian]

Hmmm Yes please. You do know I’m a transsexual, right? Do you still want to fuck my ass? :)

[sunnykhanbhutta123]

Pm me

[Nana60]

Not bad once in awhile, l loved it and enjoy. to try is not bad.

[Anonymous]

Exit only

[ElissaIsBelgian]

The vagina is an exit only as well. The baby comes out of the vagina and the urethra is a pee hole near the vagina on the vulva. So Yeah.

[Opinion Owner]

You have to enter the vag, to get pregnant though. You can't get pregnant, via the ass

[ElissaIsBelgian]

That’s true. But since I’m trans that’s not a concern. I can’t get pregnant even when I will have a vagina.

[Opinion Owner]

And that's why i don't date trans

[ElissaIsBelgian]

Sure, that’s a personal choice. For some people children are an important consideration when dating. For others not much.

[Anonymous]

You're probably a troll cause anal isn't naturally wet xD

[ElissaIsBelgian]

The anus produces lubrication when you are hydrated enough. My anus is wet enough naturally.

[Anonymous]

It's a tranny man, not a woman who asked this post.

I wonder whether he was trying to trick men, women or both by claiming to be a normal girl when asking about anal. Lol looks like it worked. Tons of guys took the bait and excitedly discussed sex with him lol. Bet they're really embarrassed if they read this Tranny's update later in the comments when he unveils his true rainbow colors hidden beneath pink fabric..

Nothing special here. Just a gay guy who made the leap of logic that more men would be fooled into a relationship if he started looking and acting like a girl.

The gender is built into the soul, even if you manage to get a real female body, you'll still be a contemptible l little man.

[Browneye57]

I believe you, but where did you come up with this?

[OlderAndWiser]

@Browneye57 Look in the thread that starts with the opinion from @partydelights.

[Opinion Owner]

@Browneye57 come up with what? They get to be a woman just because they claim to be? Is that really all gender is? Gender fluidity is a moronic excuse for degenerate morals.. But perhaps it's not always deliberately done. They can just be confused about what they heck they are. Only true hermaphrodites have the right to "choose"/tell others which gender they are or want to be. Or are you referring to my comment about the soul not being genderless? Hmm. That might spark a religious debate or two.. But there are plenty of religions that agree with me, especially Christianity. I didn't come up with it. It's just true.

[Browneye57]

Agreed. Just asking how you figured 'her' out. Lots of fake people on here.

[Opinion Owner]

@Browneye57 he said he was trans when he was answering female opinions. Look at the question by an anonymous woman "are yoi a vaginal virgin?" To which is replied by the asker: "I’m transsexual, I don’t have a vagina yet. For now I am not planning on having vaginoplasty but I may in the future. So anal is a great substitute for vaginal in my case. I love it. The prostate is in the anus in trans women and on estrogen I experience full body orgasms like any other woman would."

[Browneye57]

OMFG. Okay, whateve's. :)

[Opinion Owner]

it would've been one thing if he mentioned he was a "transgender girl" ahead of time or was at least conservative with the replies he gives.. But it's really misleading because among his many vivid descriptions of the joys of anal penetration, he includes statements such as: "I was more talking about giving when you are a straight guy and receiving when you are a straight girl As a straight girl I can definitely say I love love love anal"

[Browneye57]

Thanks for outing him, err her... whatever. LOL Report it - give it the boot. :)

[Opinion Owner]

This really gets under my nerves.. They can exist in their own communities, but why should I have to read their post as if they're a woman with an interesting opinion when it's really just the fairy queen of the gays hiding his true identity until I've already had his imagery forced into my skull?

[Browneye57]

Agreed. I hate fakeness. Just be real, whatever you are. This whole transgender thing has become a fad. No matter what you think or try to be, you are what you are.

[Opinion Owner]

@Browneye57 I couldn't have said it better

[OlderAndWiser]

@Browneye57 Amen!

[ElissaIsBelgian]

Tranny is a slur. I’m a trans woman. I was incorrectly assigned male at birth. Gender identity and sex don’t always match. Transitioning solves that. I have never hidden that I’m a trans woman, so you can’t accuse me of being fake.

[ElissaIsBelgian]

I’m not a gay guy. I’m a trans woman. These things are completely different things. A trans woman is a woman who was incorrectly assigned male at birth. Neurology is not as simple as you want it to be. In trans women the brain structure is significantly more feminine than in men. Our brains have always been female-wired. Gender identity and sexual orientation are completely different things. Gender is who you feel you are. Sexual orientation is who you want to be together with. I never have hidden the fact that I’m a transsexual woman. I have mentioned it a few times even. What are you even making drama about? Triggered much?

[Anonymous]

Are yoi vaginal virgin?

[ElissaIsBelgian]

I’m transsexual, I don’t have a vagina yet. For now I am not planning on having vaginoplasty but I may in the future. So anal is a great substitute for vaginal in my case. I love it. The prostate is in the anus in trans women and on estrogen I experience full body orgasms like any other woman would.

[Anonymous]

I only like a finger or tongue in my ass.

[ElissaIsBelgian]

I hate being rimmed. Ass fingering does nothing for me either. I prefer being fucked.

[Opinion Owner]

Mine is very sensitive.

[ElissaIsBelgian]

I just find it effeminate when a guy licks an ass. I find it more masculine when a guy fucks an ass. That’s why I prefer having him fuck my ass.

[Anonymous]

I'm not into anything anal at all. It's a waste eliminator.

[ElissaIsBelgian]

Anal can be amazing. But it is indeed a major hurdle for people that the anus is the poo hole. But the vagina is the pee hole so not per se cleaner :)

[larry69]

I like the vagina period

[ElissaIsBelgian]

It shouldn’t be one or the other. You can easily combine both if your wife is into it. Of course you shouldn’t do anything that goes against your moral judgement.

[Opinion Owner]

Elissals: You don't know your anatomy. The vagina is not the pee hole. That is the urethra, which is quite separate from the vagina. The vagina is where the penis goes, and baby's come out. The urethra, in girl's, is only for peeing.

[ElissaIsBelgian]

I know that. I was speaking generally about that region. Urethra sex is a thing though. Some people love having the. urethra penetrated. Not every woman with a vulva has a vagina either though. Vaginal agenesis is a thing. These women can still enjoy other forms of sex.

[Gopnik]

@ElissalsBelgian, that might be true but the vagina is made to have something enter it where as the anus is not.

[ElissaIsBelgian]

@ Gopnik so many things in life are used off label for other things than they were initially designed for. Think about Viagra that is used in kids with certain health conditions. Think about weed that is used as a party drug while it was initially a medicine to ease the pain of terminally ill people. The anus can be as much of a source of pleasure as the vagina and when anal sex is done responsibly, it doesn’t pose any health risks.

[Gopnik]

@ElissalsBelgian, i'm not sure if you realised this but we did not create weed for medical reasons nor is it used as a party drug, we also didn't create it for that matter. weed incapacitates you more than it gives you energy so why bother smoking it at a party? + weed grows as a plant it's not created in a lab, it's merely genetically edited like 99% of the food we eat.

[ElissaIsBelgian]

It was used as a relaxation drug at parties since a long long time. Karl Marx’ ‘’ religion is opium for the people ‘’ , have you ever heard of that one? It’s representative for how weed is already viewed since centuries. Nevertheless, the topic was about anal sex. Weed was just an example. It has nothing to do with butt sex unless you plan to put a joint in the back door which I seriously don’t recommend ;-)

[Gopnik]

well, i still don't think anal is such an enjoyable experience. never tried and i'm not planning to either. when it comes to a girl wanting it i guess if she wants it really badly than i'll do it.

[ElissaIsBelgian]

You haven’t tried, so you can’t know. It’s like someone claiming that showering is bad when they have never had the experience to wash themselves. Practice what you preech or don’t preech at all is my stand point.

[Gopnik]

i don't preech anal. especially not if someone wants me to be on the receiving end because the only answer you're gonna get is a fist to the face.

[ElissaIsBelgian]

I didn’t say you have to be on the receiving end, you can be on the giving end. You are acting very hostile here when you have never tried anal and so could easily have skipped the question. Since you don’t know what you talk about when it comes to anal...

[Gopnik]

i'm not hostile towards you, i just don't think it's something i'd want. and i was merely pointing out my stance on if someone wanted me to do that. i've already stated that if a girl really wants it she can get it.

[ElissaIsBelgian]

Fair enough :)

[Opinion Owner]

Gopnik: None of what you say, changes that the Vagina is designed to be entered, and the anus, is designed to have feces exit. The vagina is less likely to be torn or damaged, from entry, than is the anus, simply because it's designed to be entered, and the anus is not.

[Anonymous]

I don't want to risk Having a loose asshole in later years ahem

[ElissaIsBelgian]

The anal muscles will not get loose for having anal once in a while. The vaginal muscles have more risk to getting lose. Many women have a Mona Lisa procedure down there after giving birth. It becomes like throwing a sausage down the hall after a few children. So anal can be a nice switch :)

[Opinion Owner]

Well I'm never having children 😝

[ElissaIsBelgian]

Me neither, not out of will though :)

[Anonymous]

You are a troll.

[ElissaIsBelgian]

Why am I a troll? Because I’m not afraid to talk about sexuality? Is talking about sex such a shame?

[Opinion Owner]

You are using a brand new account, emphasizing love of large wangs, and advertising being single on here like someone practically enticing dudes to hit them up. You are either trying to catfish, make women look like superficial whores, or both. The anal sex discussion is the subterfuge you're using to ingraciate yourself.

[ElissaIsBelgian]

No, I’m just not someone who is prudish, can I? I have a very open personality and I’m not ashamed of that. I hate it when people try to shame others for talking about sex or body shaming. I’m also not trying to have guys hit me up because this is the internet and they are on the other side of the world. I just love having constructive discussions. Also, why would you call a woman who loves sex ‘’ superficial whore ‘’ . Why is slut shaming still a thing? Do women have to be asexual to you? So much sexism in your post.

[Opinion Owner]

Don't care, virgin.

[ElissaIsBelgian]

You know, I don’t even get why you are behaving like an asshole. What did you win with attacking me like that for nothing? To be honest, I wish I was still a virgin, yes :)

[Opinion Owner]

Don't care virgin.

[ElissaIsBelgian]

Have a good night, hunny

[ElissaIsBelgian]

You think I care about your transphobic nonsense? We have enough allies.

[Opinion Owner]

Hahahahahaha, just stop while you're ahead.

[ElissaIsBelgian]

You are not up for a normal conversation. It’s sad if you have to treat people this way. My existence doesn’t hurt you. I don’t get why you are so upset over me just existing. I really don’t. Never mind.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh my god don't be such a dramafish.

[ElissaIsBelgian]

Because people have feelings. For you it’s fun to attack people on the internet where anyone can be anonymous but it’s a bit sad that you forget that there is a human being on the other side. I just don’t get what you won by hating on people like you do.

[Opinion Owner]

Why even waste your time man? I've never spent a day of my life trolling like I was a female, let alone to say sexually evocative/provocative things. It should be beneath you.

[ElissaIsBelgian]

Trolling? Do you call trans people trolls? Why don’t you want to realise we were born this way.

[Opinion Owner]

Please be quiet.

[ElissaIsBelgian]

I hope you learn to be more tolerant as you get older. I’m leaving it with this because you don’t want to communicate in a respectful manner.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh that's fantastic. Keep that up please.

[Anonymous]

Me and my girlfriend actually quite like it, I find it quite taboo but it's also pretty good once you get into it. The first time wasn't great but the second time for my SO anyway was much better. We usually spend ages preparing beforehand with foreplay etc. My SO likes to be really dominant and it's brilliant. We did did do in the kitchen once, it was weird - but never outside because it's too cold.

[ElissaIsBelgian]

Anal is indeed still considered taboo. That’s a leftover of Sodom and Gommorra stories from the bible and from the aids crisis in the early 80s. It’s anecdotal talk that survived and made it to modern internet era. It’s not unhealthy or shameful though. Lots of straight couples have anal sex and not every couple consisting of two gay men has anal sex. Lesbians have anal sex too, with the strap-on. It’s a widely diversely practiced sexual practice that is associated with aids and with being gay because of unfounded stereotyping. You shouldn’t let that narrow minded bigotry let you stop you from engaging into sexual positions that you enjoy. There are a lot of nerve endings in the anus which make it very pleasurable. Anal can be a way of being in control when the bottom rides the top. Reverse cowgirl is a position where the woman can dominate the man. I personally love being submissive : letting a man overpower me, so I prefer doggy, especially when my hands and feet are tied up.

[Anonymous]

Men love it. It’s a real perk cause they would fuck anything, and so they can fuck each other if/when women aren’t around.

[ElissaIsBelgian]

I disagree. Enough straight, bible belt couples where the man fantasizes about trying anal sex on his wife. As a trans woman, many men are interested in me especially because anal is the only way they can penetrate me. A lot of women aren’t open to the idea because we have been thought that it’s shameful and a sin but it really isn’t. The times where sex was only for reproductive purposes are long gone. People shouldn’t be labeled anything or shamed for trying new things and exploring their sexual boundaries. A lot of men who love anal are absolutely straight and would only do it with a woman ( a cis woman or a trans woman ) not with men.

[Opinion Owner]

lmao You’re saying men that have sex with shemales are straight? You clearly don’t understand how to identify a sexual orientation. The fact that you said many men are willing to sleep with you, a shemale, is proof enough that men are bisexual and would fuck anything. Thanks for proving my theory.

[ElissaIsBelgian]

I’m not a shemale, I’m a trans woman. A shemale is someone who works in the prostitution field and feminizes themself to earn money that way. I live as a woman 24/7. I am taking female hormones day after day for years already. I have the body of a woman. My penis shrank so much after a few years on estrogen that almost nothing is left from it. It’s not like you see in the shemale porn movies on the internet. I don’t penetrate men and I don’t let them give me oral. Gay men are turned off by my femininity. Bi guys are more into masculine men. And I’m not a man and not masculine. My body odor is female, my skin texture is female, my emotions are female, my body ( breasts , hips , butt ) is female and I sound and think like a woman. Straight guys are attracted to me. People are more than just a set of genitalia. The men who fall for me fell for me before they saw what I had in my pants. So they are attracted to my secondary sex characteristics which are female.

[Opinion Owner]

If anything, the primary sexual characteristics are most important when determining sexual orientation, because at the end of the day a penis and a vagina together create a child. So, yes, your genitalia matter when determining someone’s sexual orientation. “Bi guys are more into masculine men.” Well, apparently not all bi guys. Clearly some like shemales or trans women (whatever you wanna call it). Heterosexual men would want a vulva there and nothing else. If you transitioned fully, then you could probably claim that heterosexual men sleep with you. Until then, sorry to break it to you, but you’re not sleeping with straight men. But, don’t worry, because almost no guys is actually straight.

[Opinion Owner]

guy*

[Opinion Owner]

I forgot to add that you can call them pansexual if you want. Whatever... The main point is that they are not heterosexual.

[ElissaIsBelgian]

What about trans women who have a neovagina? Are they sleeping with straight men? You say that a penis and a vagina together create a child. Is an infertile woman not a woman to you anymore then? Did you know that there’s a bottom surgery for trans people now that can create a vagina while leaving the penis unaffected. Is a man who sleeps with such a ‘’ futa-type person ‘’ straight? Also, what about the fact that my penis doesn’t look like a penis anymore? Almost everything atrophied. My testicles went back into their cavity and my scrotal sac almost completely retracted. The penis itself shrank to less than 4 cm in erect situation. Big clit. Did you know that some women are born with androgen insensivity syndrome? A condition where the woman has XY chromosomes and undescended testicles. Sexual dimorphism is less black and white than you want to believe. I was born with XXY chromosomes. Chromosomally I can’t be categorized as a man nor as a woman. Where do I belong in your theory then?

[Opinion Owner]

I knew you’d bring you these stupid things that aren’t gonna prove your point at all. My point was that the concept of homosexual or heterosexual or whatever other sexual probably wouldn’t even exist if reproduction were possible in other ways besides between a female and a male because no one would need to care who people are sleeping with. (Don’t bother bringing up hermaphrodites because most if not all have non-functioning reproductive organs, so you can’t depend on them to continue the human race). I told you that if you actually had a vagina-like organ, maybe you could make a case for your belief that straight men are sleeping with you, since men are just gonna see the vagina and not the chromosomes. From your description of the genitals you have now, it seems that it likely doesn’t resemble a vulva or a penis, which would still make the men you sleep with pansexual. I don’t believe sexual demorphism is black and white (although it is more black and

[Opinion Owner]

white without technology). I also don’t believe sexual orientation is black and white... and it clearly isn’t since you’re sleeping with many “straight” men. It seems you need to accept that...

[ElissaIsBelgian]

But what about my chromosomes? I didn’t fit in when I was living as a man either. I was born with a condition called klinefelter. Don’t know if you have ever heard of it? During puberty my breasts started to grow and my hip bones started to expand, my voice didn’t drop and I never developed an adam’s apple. Tests revealed that I was born with XXY chromosomes. I was given the choice of supplementing testosterone or supplementing estrogen, since I was at risk for osteoporosis as my body didn’t produce enough of either sex hormone. I first started supplementation with testosterone under pressure of my family, then I came off testosterone at age 19 and I started estrogen. In a matter of 6 months my entire past was erased. People couldn’t believe that I was born visually male, when I told them. Doctors to this day tell me that biologically I will never be neither a man nor a woman. Where do I fall in your theories? I didn’t create this situation. It was brought upon me at birth.

[Opinion Owner]

Your story doesn’t match up to the one in your other question, but whatever, I couldn’t really care less about that. I just don’t understand why I’m having to repeat myself.. It seems the doctors said it best, you will never be neither a man nor a woman, meaning anyone who sleeps with you is pansexual. Anyway, this has been fun. Good luck, though... If you’re telling the truth, it seems you’ve had a pretty difficult life. Wish you well.

[ElissaIsBelgian]

Thank you. To be honest I don’t care about labels. Love is not science. When two people love each other it shouldn’t be considered a crime ever if both are consenting and adult.

[Anonymous]

Interesting. I’ve never done anal sex with a girl but if she wanted to try it, I would. I prefer vaginal sex myself, but I’m up for trying things. Lol.

[ElissaIsBelgian]

How can you know you prefer vaginal if you have never tried anal in the first place? The muscles in the anus will offer more resistance and that makes the experience so much hotter for the one who is penetrating because his penis and the head are directly stimulated by the pressure. The anus can also be lubricating if the person who bottoms hydrates themself enough. With an enema and a good silicone based lube, it should be a very pleasurable experience for both parties when one isn’t too rough with penetrating the bottom. I absolutely love it when a man makes me go on all fours, personally. It makes me feel submissive and for him it’s something taboo and forbidden which makes it even more exotic. A lot of straight guys fantasize about it but a lot of people aren’t open to discuss it because of Sodom and Gommora stories and the shame that is placed upon engaging in anal intercourse.

[Opinion Owner]

Very interesting still. U want to message me and we can chat more about it? If not no worries.

[Anonymous]

LMAO!

[ElissaIsBelgian]

What’s so funny? Never heard the word ‘’ sex ‘’ ? :-)