Do you enjoy one night stands?

Question

Strictly where you meet someone and have sex with them that ONE time.

Beatrix7 · Accepted Answer

i use to years ago in my very early 20nz as i grew up i considerd myself more worth than just one night stands a wanted love not just ditch the bitch after fun i wanted to feel true love i met a boy at 27 he was nice 2 and a half years later wben i was 29 he told me he started to like another girl and he was sorry but he would rather tell me than hide it wich i respected him for that and then met another guy as i was just about to turn 30 i got checked up at sandyford am not shy to say that i was all clear i was surprised cause i had a lot of one night stand plus i got a implant in my arm to not get pregnant so i went with him and he was cheating on me for 2 years i found out myself but i think one night stands are good but i think u are worth more than that feeling true love is better than being used and never knowing whats going on downstairs cause ure not sure who slept with you nnow iam alone from 9 months ago freedom from the curse of heartbreaking men not all are like that most of them have tore me apart after 2 years in a relashionship so irs freedom time

meetkitty123 · Accepted Answer

I actually can't do that. it seems so odd to me. I won't lie the thought has crossed my mind once or twice when I'm in high sexual mood but then it just feels... Well I get it odd sensation like something creepy crawly over my skin it's not a pleasant feeling and it shuts it down real fast.

I have troubles getting aroused by someone I don't know or care about I need to be emotionally connected to them. Yeah I've never had much luck in having light casual relationships as I just can't get one started just gives me a creepy gross feeling then any sexual sensation horniness I might have been feeling gets shut down fast.

kellytheman · Accepted Answer

Sometimes especially if she is really sexy. It always good to know we are both on the same page and saying this is just sex and that's it. There have been girls that we had nothing in common and a little crazy I have had one night stands with luckily we both knew it was just sex and no relationship. friends with benefits is honestly better though.

mrmonogamous · Accepted Answer

Personally, I don’t agree with one night stands. Every time I ever had sex, it was with a girl that I had very strong feelings for him. It was never on a first date, it was usually after we had been seeing each other for about a month. I guess I’m old-fashioned, but I only have sex with people I want to share a relationship with.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Yes, sex always feels good but I haven’t done that in several decades. Jumping into bed on a first date is not a good way to find a long term partner.

summiter · Answer

In college I had many... most of the time they were fantastic... it was fun to get naked with a relative stranger and share a lot of fun orgasms.

SnowedIn · Answer

I've done it and it was fun but it's not an all the time thing.

NurseMel4 · Answer

I prefer friends with benefits

Paul_in_Indy · Answer

It’s probably wrong, and it certainly inefficient, but to me the one night stand is the pinnacle of the sexual adventure and enjoyment. I love a one night stand.

AviatorTom · Answer

Not now, No. Immediately after my divorce, I was only looking for sex and I had a few one-night stands. It was good while it lasted. Then, I realized that I wanted more...

Aelleden · Answer

I'm actually so suprised that so many guys don't like it aswell, I thought I was the only guy on Earth that didn't like hookups.
I really need to have a deep connection with the girl before we have sex, and it feels muuuuuhc better that way

exitseven · Answer

I only did this once and it really was not very good.

humanearth · Answer

When I was young it was fun, but I much rather live the life of a married taken man

AsaKyo · Answer

Gross

Ironic_Method · Answer

Definitely not for me.

TroyDT2 · Answer

That was all I did when I was younger, but in retrospect it became boring and was always empty.

MysticDevice · Answer

Doesn't seem like a good time to me. Call me old fasioned but I like to be emotionally invested in someone before we start doing naughty things with eachother

loveslongnails · Answer

They serve a purpose, and if I didn't like the person to begin with, I wouldn't have sex with them. Then, if the sex was good, it would be enjoyable.

AustColombiangirl · Answer

hell yes. Nothing beats getting filled up by some random guy

smilelots · Answer

never had one as of yet and im over 50 so its most likely not going to happen.. but I do like to try it one day if I find the right lady and it makes sense