Do you enjoy the prelude to sex (dinner, conversation, romance, etc) or do you prefer to get right to having sex itself?

It doesn't matter if you are just picking up the person for the first time or if you've been married for 10 years. Question is the same. Is getting to know/romancing someone you do know worthwhile to you or is it just the act of sex itself that you want?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • to me it is about the moments, and the moods... and also the other person

    what I actually prefer is that we're both on the same page, and both wanting the same, that's what it would make it much more intense, and that's what I am actually into, having variety and enjoying variety... rather than leaning towards one that I do like or prefer by myself

    both are different ways to go about it, and both are enjoyable... I like to be in sync, and all my partners have been the same, they were into variety and making it about the moods and the moments as well, lol

    I enjoy both very much, and can have both as well without being a problem

  • Well whether I just meant the girl or whether I was married to her for 10 years I'm going to burn a lot of energy so I need to eat and doing all this stuff is kind of like foreplay anyway I mean there's a time and a place for everything really I'm good either way but no matter what we got to get something to eat because I'm telling you I'm going to burn some energy

Most Helpful Girls

  • I don't necessarily need the connection to do the deed, but that lead-up, whether it be the date or whatever does make it much more enjoyable and "easier" to transition into sexy time.

  • Prelude! The conversation and words before are what make the sex fun.

    (But no heavy meals right before.)

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  • Yes, I would like to know more about the person I am having sex with than she has a working spot for sex... that make sense?

    • Makes perfect sense

    • I am surprised how many people get perturbed by it. And I mean after six weeks in my arms (etc) really pushing it. It is almost comical to me... Life is not boring !!! Is it warm up by you yet? Wait, first snow coming soon?

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  • I enjoy the buildup and the seduction and I enjoy the sex.

  • People are different some are sensitive romantic and some are cold and thick headed and some are weirdos who doesn't know what to do and does whatever they were told in porn or feels like... so find out what is your partner and try to go with their flow try to hint them for next step if they stay back for a bit longer keep the flow if your close together for long just talk it's very easy men are simple

  • I'm a hopeless romantic, I live for the prelude it's part of The Game that leads to really great sex

  • Sex is good but there are plenty of women I would be happy to take to dinner just for the conversation.

  • Prelude is important

  • Straight to sex usually.

  • Sometimes i never even got to take off my coat but I think i like like the romance part instead of just having sex on the kitchen floor.

  • how much i enjoy the prelude largely depends on the pereson i'm doing it with xD could be not at all or a lot indeed.

  • The first one. Even when I watch porn, I cum faster from the foreplay than I do from the actual fucking

  • No I would like know some things about her like her name, some likes and dislikes maybe her job than just have sex with her.

  • Dinner and romance first is fun. Getting right to it is fun too. They both have there place.

  • I like the foreplay, it adds to the atmosphere.

  • I'd rather go out and do something first.. then come home and let the activities begin 😁

  • I like some flirtatious lead up to sex.

  • romance first foreplay then get to it

  • Hey haha you’re back

    • Lol indeed I am

    • How’ve u been

    • Took a much needed break from the site but overall I'm doing ok and just finding ways to survive for another day. Hope you are doing well.

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  • Sex first

  • Mostly right away game on.

  • Depends how pretty/sexy she is. The more attractive, the harder it is to compose yourself. I don’t think I could contain myself if she was supper attractive or something. But of course I’d spend a lot of time talking and everything afterwards.

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