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Do you ever feel that you embarrass someone you're with by being too playful, too naughty, not serious enough, etc?

Long story short, I can't really play the game of being really serious with anyone. I just get bored to be honest. I tend to do some socially inappropriate, odd things to stir things up and I sense I embarrass those trying to put on a good impression for others. Maybe there is something in me that detests phoniness so I end up entertaining myself by being weird and in turn embarrassing the person trying to put on a good impression for others.

Can anyone relate? Or is this an odd, unique me thing.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • As a best friend of a person like that, i will tell you my thoughts. First thing, it's mean to make a joke or flip the topic when someone is expressing their problems to you, you could simply tell them you don't want to talk about it. Trust me they won't take it to heart. Secondly, when you are around someone who is prestigious be humble but don't make your voice too loud cuz it embarrasses them. Other than that its your life your personality so you shouldn't give a dam.

    • I don't do it when someone is expressing their problems. "secondly, when you are around someone who is prestigious be humble" What makes some prestigious to you? Do you feel I should bow down to someone because they're somehow better than me?

    • Prestigious doesn't mean obeying or showing people respect, it's about being selective in words and making the right attitudes at the right time, And no one is better than the other. By humble i mean be the humble you are but with a lower voice.

    • "making the right attitudes at the right time" I don't want to do that, I like being genuine.

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  • I do the same, embarrass others by saying something inappropriate.

    • I am not the only one! What a relief.

    • I’m too dedicated to honesty and the truth, so like you will be too playful in the face of fakeness

    • Lol You make it sound so noble... I need that confidence.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • I’ve had someone do that to me I was already suffering from depression add the person doing basically the same as you let’s just say I almost killed my self it didn’t just make me feel like I was better off dead it affected my self esteem and it has had a very negative impact on my social life because I am too scared to meet people out of fear of them doing the same

    • Also don’t send me a follow request it will be rejected

    • I didn't send a request. I keep forgetting some people are terribly self-conscious.

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  • Love your playfulness

    • Welcome to play w you ! :)

    • lol who are you? Barney?

    • No Barney silly. Lol. I’m Chris. I’d also like to have my way w you and give you spankings !!! Along w some ,...

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