Guys, do you ever get blue balls from cuddling with a girl without doing anything?

So my boyfriend and I have just started dating and were really into each other, so we'll cuddle and lay in bed sometimes all day long. I'm not ready to do anything sexually yet however, and he's really respectful so he never tries anything more than to make out with me.
But, the entire time (and I mean for hours on end) I feel his boner. Does this ever get uncomfortable for a guy?
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  • What do you mean you "feel" it? Are you purposely touching it?

    If it's not being touched that much and it's just staying hard... well, it's not uncomfortable exactly but a guy does feel it and is always aware of it. Yes, in some cases, it can last a long time and there's nothing wrong with that as long as it does go away eventually. He is stimulated by the cuddling and closeness, and probably relieves himself when he gets home. After you've been together longer, it will start to happen a lot less.

    • No I don't touch it, but we usually cuddle wrapped up together and so I'll feel it pressing into my butt or let's sometimes, even though he ties to move it

  • Cuddling alone? No.

    Making out? Yes - but making out is a LOT more sexually charged than mere cuddling.

    • Well yes, we make out while we cuddle. So are you saying that if you were making out then it would become uncomfortable?

    • When guys make out - especially for an extended period of time or if they're extremely aroused - their prostate goes into overdrive producing semen in anticipation of an ejaculation, and if that ejaculation doesn't occur, the pressure in the prostate causes the pain that's commonly called "blue balls." Mild arousal won't generally cause this, but intense arousal or sustained arousal commonly does.

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  • It may get a little uncomfortable after a while, but it's just a natural thing that happens when you are close to a girl that you are attracted to

  • Sure if I get a ragging boner and don't get any relief/release.

  • Blue balls is not a real thing it's just something we tell girls so that they don't turn down our sexual advances.

    • So it's okay to have a boner for hours? Does it ever becom uncomfortable or do you not really notice

    • Think about this, when we are a sleep we have a boners for hours and wake up feeling fine.

    • Disagree, bro. Blue balls is very real, and you either have to yank your own dick or bang a girl to get relief.

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  • It does get uncomfortable and blue balls can happen from that. Is it ever comfortable to get blue balls? No its not, ever.