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Do you ever get so horny that it leads to anxiety or even anger if not resolved quickly? What are your feelings when you get to the breaking point?

Why do some people think that Female sexual anxiety isn't real and that only guys get it? I am so happy that I found some good images to put with this question so that, at least some, will realize that women who have this issue are not just making it up.

For me if it goes on very long it becomes agitation and then I can even start getting angry if I don't do something about it like masturbating or have an intense sexual encounter. Maybe that is one reason why I am still single and even have multiple partners at times, because very few seem to have the same energy level or intensity that I need.

When I am alone and have no one to fulfill my desires with, my actions become those that I might not normally act out upon, like putting up an extreme sexual post with images as close as possible to getting taken down by admin, which they do frequently... lol

It is my way of seeing if there are others that are feeling as horny as I am at that moment. Then I may watch some taboo porn and masturbate or call one of my friends for a quick hookup.

Yes, masturbation is a temporary fix but when I get that fixated on sex, that will not last very long and I am back to being anxious again. Only an exhausting intense sexual rendezvous will stave it off for any reasonable amount of time again.

Mostly, it feels like I am alone on an island with no one that understands :(
No, I dont take sex enhancing drugs, so thats not it! This is All Natural with me.
No, I don't take sex enhancing drugs, so that's not it! This is All Natural with me.
Do you ever get so horny that it leads to anxiety or even anger if not resolved quickly? What are your feelings when you get to the breaking point?
No, that never happens to me, I have total control over my body and sexual emotions
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Do you ever get so horny that it leads to anxiety or even anger if not resolved quickly? What are your feelings when you get to the breaking point?
I get horny but never to that level, no
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Do you ever get so horny that it leads to anxiety or even anger if not resolved quickly? What are your feelings when you get to the breaking point?
Yes, that has happened to me where I was so horny that I got anxious and/or upset about it
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Do you ever get so horny that it leads to anxiety or even anger if not resolved quickly? What are your feelings when you get to the breaking point?
Dear God Laurie... you need psychological assistance of some sort or some type of sex addiction counseling and/or medication to help you through this!
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Do you ever get so horny that it leads to anxiety or even anger if not resolved quickly? What are your feelings when you get to the breaking point?
OTHER, see my comments below, or just open the "Sexual Anxiety" Survey
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  • YES! omg so much. You know when you keep thinking, I'm not going to do it... but then it grows out of control like a wildfire, and it burns and burns.

    Then before long I'm off doing something to try and resolve the issue as best I can... right now its driving to my mans place saying get in here and get naked or a whole slew of other things I'd never ever mention publicly here.

    • Yes! ... you know then, you're the first! ... OMG!

  • I feel this post a lot lol

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  • This may be why you relate to men, and men's sexual drives, so well - because you are experiencing what we often do. The difference being, of course, that you have a much greater ability to quickly find a partner to solve the problem - something most men can't or can't easily do.

    But you seem to be something of an outlier, as most women don't seem to get so sexually charged unless they have an emotional connection with a specific person to focus it on. I've definitely met a few other women like you, but most just don't get so worked up when they are single and not focused on a particular guy - at least, that's been my observation and it's what many have told me.

    It's much more common for women in a relationship - where they have a connection and feel safe about their sexuality, to get really charged up - I have plenty of personal experience with that - but that's a different dynamic.

    Girls like you may not be common, but you are definitely not alone, and most men can certainly relate to the power of the desire. That starts for us at puberty and ends at death... Lol.

  • I love sex and think about it a lot. Lack of it may cause some frustration, but not anxiety or anger.

    The only time that happens to me is when my partner refuses to help me out. I can make me feel very angry and frustrated. I think it's part of a partner's obligation.

    If I have no alternative, masturbation can quell my craving for a while.

  • no... I'm a grown up

  • Almost daily

    • I feel you! :)

  • No, if I get really horny and cannot do anything about it I try to do something else to take my mind off it.

  • Nope. Never had that problem.

  • I had practise nofap for about 120 days plus buy at one point i was having this energy like if i played sports then it increased more.

    Iwas like were to put this energy like uncontrollable and i couldnt mastrubate felt like hitting something.

  • Not anymore thankfully , but my Male Curse used to be a lot higher. You are very much in the minority of women , most women could happily be celibate forever. Also , a woman has an unlimited supply of male sex partners on tap , it is the complete reverse for the vast majority of men. Anyone that invents an effective male sex drive killer with no adverse effects would make a huge fortune !

  • That's what masturbation is for, right Laurie?

  • Sometimes you just have to think about something not sexual and all those horny feelings can go away😊

  • Yes. 😠😤

    • Though, I don't act out like you or others might. I can contain myself. Or at least when I want to, like in front of others. But if it's just in front of my girl... maybe her and I wouldn't want me to. 👀

  • Nope never

  • i have got to that point but now i just use toys

  • When you get so honny just come by dear lol

  • I can definitely relate, I usually have problems with anger in general but sexual frustration just makes it that much more intense.
    I was also born with a disorder that caused me to have heightened senses and emotions, so I'm pretty much horny 24/7. It's exhausting

  • By the time I get to that point, I'm already masturbating.

  • Make it 3x worse and that's how it feels to be a man. Ever since the love doll I noticed I am nicer to people and finish good things at work

  • Yeah, I get that.
    For me it's not just about the libido itself or the lack of sexual frequency, it's also the anxiety from the pressure of having to act a certain way when it comes to sex and intimacy.

    Sometimes I simply need sex for sex and if I don't get the freedom to express it, I will eventually become frustrated.
    At that point I need someone who is on the same page with me, someone with whom I can be honest about what is it I really want.
    When I finally get that it's almost therapeutic for me.

    I've had ladies come to me with such requests as well, so I know it's not just a male phenomenon.

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