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Do you ever have trouble finding the hole when having sex?

I pretty much just started having sex and i usually have trouble finding the hole. Is this normal when starting out? Sometimew I feel like it takes me too long just wiggling it around trying to find it that I end up just asking her to guide it in.
Do you ever have trouble finding the hole when having sex?
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I got better at it now lol hurray. Just a little practice is all
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Laying down Missionary still is a little hard tho it's just uncomfortable. Supporting yourself with 1 arm while you use your other to guide it in
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Most Helpful Guys

  • The 1st girl I was with, like me she was a virgin as well.

    I was laying on her the entire time and kept trying to poke it in her but the angle was off, she was also moving her hips about as we were making out. Just by chance on one of the moves my dick found her pussy and we were no longer virgins.

    It was after the 3rd or 4th time that I always found her from feel mostly and sometimes she would say something along the lines of "upper" or "lower"

    2nd girl, first few times was a bit lost as she was a bigger sized girl and my penis has an upward curve so it doesn't always have the best angle to penetrate.

  • Shiiiiet, that hole is hard to find. Sometimes the lips fall inside and sometimes it's just the wrong angle. It not in the place my mind assumes it to be. And many guys are the same. Dont worry 9 years of sex and I still mess up but it's still good

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  • If you have trouble finding it you clearly don't have the mental maturity for sex

    • Mental maturity has nothing to do with it. You don't have a dick so I wouldn't expect you to understand

    • Lol, my man said that before I wrote it down but okay 😂

    • Ok so how is mental maturity related

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  • She is familiar with her own body more than you are. Also, as you are poking around, she can feel where your dick is in relationship to the hole, so it is far easier to let her guide it in. After you get more experience, you will be able to do it like a pro. lol

  • It isn't unusual, especially when you are new to it.

  • Sorry but different positions equal 50/50 chance its the right hole it possibly depends on body type to be honest. I have zero experience going off of porn logic so yeah best of luck not

  • Its slightly funny, slightly embarrising

  • My first time was like yours'. The partner was married woman, very experienced and hot but sexually unsatisfied. She introduced me to sex and guided my dick towards her hole. Subsequently it was quite normal for me.

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