Do you ever love a girl so much that the idea of doing anything sexual with her seems wrong?

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My question comes from the Madonna-Whore complex. For eg, after your wife gives birth and you start to see her as the mother of your children, does sexually dominating/objectifying her become harder?
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  • No. I don't have that complex though.

  • In some situations. It can come up

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  • No, I don't feel guilty about having sex with her because I try to bring her just as much pleasure as she gives me.

  • You mean like a sister? That's a different kind of love.

    I can't get me head around this. It doesn't make any sense.
    In love with a girl so much that anything sexual seems wrong...

    I don't understand.

  • This is an excellent question and I've been on G@G for over 6 years and have never seen a question like this!

    In a sense, the answer is "Yes" but "love" may not have to do with it, per se.

    I know some women who are very very attractive - especially for their age.
    Yet, one of them, I will not think about doing anything at all with her.
    The other, I am good friends with, but I am also with her husband.
    Sometimes - but very rarely - I have thoughts of her in that way and, I must admit that, pre-COVID, if I had to work near her to help her, it would make my blood boil a bit.

    I also have an ex-GF who left me 29 years ago. She is beautiful and I wanted to marry her. I loved her completely and didn't even think about other women in that way; only her. She is still beautiful but I will never think of her in that way anymore because it hurts too much and I know that she doesn't want me, would not want me now, and has blocked me.

    In summary (sort of...)...
    For me to have an interest in a woman sexually, I have to have known her personally and at least need to know that she at least doesn't dislike me. But, even if those criteria are met, like with my coworker that I mentioned, there are women that when I will (usually) block myself from me thinking about her in that way for various reasons. It does help if I believe that she might think about me in that way too. However, at my age and what I look like now, I know that doesn't happen.

  • No because sexual acts are not wrong

    • No because again sex is not seen as a whorish act

  • The opposite is true. I just want to give her endless cunnilingus.

  • No, but I loved somebody who was saving herself for marriage and I would never try to get her to change her mind. I didn't know if we were going to end up together or not, we were pretty serious, but I if we were going to do it I wanted it to be because we both wanted it.

  • I did with all my love interests

  • I’ve never had kids, but I doubt I’d feel that wag.

  • I don't think so especially if she wants me to do those things I love her more than anything

  • I know exactly what you mean. It’s happened to me, in my younger days.

  • Hell no!!

  • Not really

  • Nope not at all

  • No quite the opposite really

  • Nope, never happened to me.

  • As a father of 10 children from the same mother , never had that feeling. That's impossible to those who are absolutely sane.

  • Nooooooooooooooo

  • There's no such a thing unless it's a minor but love has nothing to do with it so still no because it not about the love it's about being a minor and therefore a turn off.

  • Yeah I have had that

  • Yes and no

    • Thanks for like.

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