Hmmm as a mature women’s with a mature man good sex to me is making sure we both get off. I’m not a selfish lover and I wouldn’t tolerate a selfish lover. I get pleasure from his pleasure too so when he comes inside me I orgasm again. I’d feel like I were missing out by him not having an orgasm too.
Unless he wanted to hold off obviously. If he were getting pleasure by doing that then so would I.
I am finding it arousing by giving her control but it's so frustrating, my balls are so achey today. It's not a permanent thing but I kinda feel like I deserve it I've been a selfish lover to her in the past.
I've never done that but that sounds amazing. That’s actually my new goal, I have to start making sex about me because I’m always so focused on pleasing the guy that I’m never fully satisfied. You sound like a good boyfriend and she shouldn’t let you have blue balls lol
Feel free to message I'f you want to know more. I'd recommend it , I'm still going and ultra frustrated today but she seemed to be loving it and has noticed a difference in my behaviour already. Tommorow shell ride me on top with some numbing cream on my dick to make sure I dont cum.
God I could burst right now at 6 days in
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I wish it was because I'm 6 days in and leaking pre cum everywhere!
Yes I've done this to my guy a few times. I get tired of him being the only one to get off
What's the longest you've done? We will be a week Saturday but she's told me shell decide if it goes longer. I'm scared but turned on at the same time
Maybe like 2 weeks. he's really not the type of guy to care tho. He can have sex without getting off and it won't bug him. Just the days we have normal sex he gets off to fast and it's really annoying
I'll try for another week if its what she wants then. I just am mega frustrated already I think its gonna be huge when I do cum
Sometimes we make it all about me, but that doesn’t mean he doesn’t get to cum. It just means the focus is on my enjoyment first.
Would you ever tell him not to cum? I'm up to 6 days now and so turned on
I may tell him not yet and delay it or edge him to tease him and let him build up, but I don’t tell him he can’t cum.
I've never done it but it kind of makes me want to try
Do it ! 5 days today she's cum 3 times I've cum 0 , my balls are so achey and I'm constantly turned on willing to do what she wants. she's going to decide if I get to cum or we go longer in 2 days !
Once in a while, sure. Not for a whole week straight.
St. John’s fan?
I am struggling now but she's talked about extending it until she decides
St John's?
I’m not cruel. Once I cum I don’t really care what he does. I’m talking about strictly just sex. Not a real boyfriend.
Nope. My sex life is always about him and his satisfaction.
Would you ever want it to be the other way? Although I'm frustrated at 4 days of not cumming whilst having sex I love pleasing her
I dont know honestly. I'd like to think I'd enjoy my sex life focusing on only me but ultimately I'd probably be uncomfortable with that.
You should try it my partner was submissive but the power rush has turned her on big time
Never tried it
Ooor... you make it about both...
We do but we are trying something new for a bit.
Well, are you in a femdom relationship? If that's a turn on for both of you that's good, I just can't really relate since I've not a dominant bone in my body
No a vanilla one but we were looking to try something new and well its turned her crazy. I'm enjoying it as well but I'm so horny now I dont know how much long I can last. I've promised her whatever she says goes though
my goal is to satisfy participants equally
Fair enough but can you see why she enjoys it?
I am proficient at satisfying clients
Do you think a week is a sensible time or can a man go longer?
Its always about both for me
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