Do you ever surprise your partner in the bedroom?

I'm not very good at it. My boyfriend drops hints to me sometimes about what he wants... such as he'd love me to be in my lingerie waiting on the bed for him when he gets home from work. He will sometimes dig out one of my thongs and leave it on the bed for me etc. I just never get round to doing it. Our sex is great but I know I could put more effort in. what do other people do or like?

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Superb Opinion

  • My for my girlfriends 24th birthday a few years back, I took her to a bar.

    We were joking about who we find attractive in the crowd, over a few drinks.

    She told me that 3 guys that were all friends. Sitting across from us we’re pretty cute. They were 21.

    I brought her home. Bent her over a table and hand cuffed her to a post in my house. Across the table, Then blindfolded her. And left.

    I came back and told her I have a surprise for her. I went back to the bar and brought those 3 guys back home with me. I take her blindfold off and it’s all 3 guys naked standing in the room with her.

    I checked her , and she was very wet.
    She asked us, so who wants to go first?

    (you can guess what happened next)

    her bent over, soaking wet, hand cuffed with a room full of naked guys behind her.

    That was her surprise.

    They were all checking her out earlier in the night. And when I approached them and asked them if they wanna fu*k her. None of them objected. And they all came with me.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Yes, I have surprised her by taking her right to bed when she got home from work and giving her oral and then having sex with her. She's a little self conscious about smell when she's not freshly showered, but I love her natural scent so doing it like that feels extra intimate and turns me on.

Most Helpful Girl

  • Yes some role place some sexy clothes and I wake them softly sexually and she loves how I do it

    My ex hated me playing with him as he woke!

    What fantasy or things do you want to do?

    Like does get in the way of sex way to often! Whenever I tried the sexy waiting I got ignored cause it was a bad day!

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Its always fun to change things up, for me, and for a partner. I have done that and it really made our sex life more fun.

  • Have you considered role playing?

    • No. Neither of us are into that.

  • Ya..

  • Occasionally with sex toys

    • Yes, we have 2 cupboards full.

    • Then go for it girl and have fun surprising him with one

    • He always surprises me. I'm just not confident enough I don't think

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