Girls, Do you ever talk about sex with your friends?

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Does this include with your male friends as well?

Sangita93 · Accepted Answer

I do talk openly about sex with my husband, and he too, but what happens in the bedroom stays in the bedroom. Our personal matters are secret and confidential between us. In modern society, people like to talk and acts of intimate sex are not off-limits. I do talk with my kitty party friends about sex – hiding some realities to see their response about this subject. Kitty partes are usually small group of like girls to talk dirty or epress something and venting sex thoughts. Most of them have a tendency to talk about their sex lives in graphic detail to their female friends.

Most men too talk about their sex lives - most do – they just tend to do it with less graphic depiction as they do not want their mates picturing their partner naked, or going at it like a rabbit during high season. The biggest concern for most men have is - their partner knows every minute detail of their penis, their performance and how kinky they get behind closed doors.

Talking about sex is a bonding experience to share stories of similar experiences – an “advice circle” of type. Most of talks go around ‘so what do you do with a too big dick’ or ‘I do not know how to do this kink’ or ‘has anyone tried anal and has any tips to make it comfortable?’ type talk. Other talking points include things like: “Anyone has ideas for valentine’s day?” and so on, but no women talk about - “His libido is unusually low, what should I do? But we talk about penis size, in both directions. “He is pretty good, and it never bothers me at all, he is bomb in bed. I do not know why but his dick is the perfect size to make me come from sex. It is thick and big. I can enjoy him doing some of my favorite positions with it, are common statements.

It is partly stroking our own ego and partly shitting on the other person for not having a man like theirs. Sometimes it is just about ‘problem solving’ about things that confused us, and sometimes we girls just like to talk sex. Some of my friend would message me to ask why he did not kiss me after their great coupling / union or something like that. It is more about counseling than anything. But we never make anybodies penis the talk of the town, or about his performance. We just mainly talk about techniques, experiences and if we have / had any problems in bed. We never ask anybody to share picture of her man’s organ - look either. Ultimately all discussions and sex talks - all comes down to preference – directly or indirectly. Only someone immature discuss every detail like they are in junior class. We deserve and maintain privacy also in the relationship. We talk about childbirth in far more detail than we do fucking.

youngmix · Accepted Answer

Yes I do, male and female. I don't talk to all of my friends about it though, only those that I feel that type of comfort with. Some people don't want to speak about that topic for at least one of several possible reasons. One of my good friends is a hard core Southern Baptist Christian, she doesn't want to talk about the guy I was with last night.

But if my guy friends ask questions, then I happily answer. I don't feel like I have a reason to leave anything out if they ask questions. Some of my guy friends ask what a certain guy was into, if the guy was good, and once in a while, they'll ask size related questions.

Ez-Bri-Z · Answer

Sure if the situation calls for it. I'm comfortable discussing sex.

ghostfacesoldier · Answer

Of course. I have with all my close friends. Heck they’ve even shown me videos they’ve made. So maybe we where just really close best friends who are comfortable enough to talk about it. But yes it does happen. And I have had conversations about it with my guy friends too, but not as often.