Do you ever wish you had a sex mentor?

[OnTheLevel]

Wouldn't it be great to have someone guide you through the awkward steps of learning about sex and sexual technique instead of learning by trial and error and from people who really don't know much more than you do?

[Anonymous]

Yes all the time. I have a business mentor and associate that has taught me a lot but it doesn't help that he is so fucking hot. I spend so much time with him. For the past few months he has been making advances, just playful banter and flirting... I play coy and innocent and I see how much that turns him on😊 I don't want to ruin what we have regards to business. So I blush, and act innocent and divert his attention back to work. He watches me attentively everything I do. Takes me with every where but it would cause too much drama to be with him.

[Apple1996]

Nah the awkward beginning stages of sex are the fun part

[RJJ33666]

That would be such a great thing. I mean, everyday men and women makes mistakes that kind of traumatizes them their whole lives. If we did have sex mentors, it would be so much more easier. The sex eds class in schools don't even teach this stuff properly, a sex mentor would be way more helpful. This should become a real profession.

[Curmudgeon]

There is something to that, NOT prostitution, but a legitimate sexual therapist. Of course, that probably costs quite a bit.

[OnTheLevel]

Exactly! How much time did we all waste fumbling through things trying to figure it all out?

[Curmudgeon]

Yep. To say nothing of fumbling with relationships even getting to something sexual. And now you and I are too old all too often. Youth being wasted on the young and all that.

[OnTheLevel]

Exactly. I keep reading posts from 20 - 30 yr olds that are struggling with relationship basics. So sad.

[Curmudgeon]

Well, the best we can do is warn them in advance. There is redemption in that, no?

[OnTheLevel]

Unfortunately, warnings from old dudes like us fall on deaf ears.

[Curmudgeon]

Yep. But I see it as a calling, and it is better than looking at bad internet porn, right? Like modern day Cassandras, we will be ignored, but it is worth issuing the warnings nonetheless.

[MTC29]

I had a very experienced partner while at a young age, and she taught me things which other young men my age didn't know. Everything I was taught proved useful, and it remains useful to this day.

[OnTheLevel]

You were one of the lucky ones. Imagine if everyone had that sort of head start.

[Avicenna]

Well, a more experienced partner can do this for you

[OnTheLevel]

If you are lucky enough to find one.

[jahaims]

Nope

[HelenJacob]

interesting idea

[In_Trance]

No..

[vennyforyourways]

Yeah actually

[Anonymous]

Would have been great when I was much younger. I don't need one now.

[OnTheLevel]

I'm thinking 16 to 21 years old would be the sweet spot to get people on track for a successful future.