Do you fantasize about sexual things that you would never do in real life?

Or do you only fantasize about things you've done or hope to do someday?

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Most Helpful Guys

  • Yes. I have fantasized about particular sexual acts I would never do IRL and about a particular female who is very much off limits to me (NOT underage, not incest, not married, but I won't explain further.) I think fantasizing allows me to quasi-experience something without really doing it, and to experience the feelings that go along with that action, and then I realize that it is something I really don't want to do.

    Have you ever gotten so mad at someone that you fantasized about killing them? But you never actually killed somebody, right? So, e. g., if a girl fantasizes about having sex with another girl, that doesn't make her a lesbian.

  • I fantasize about things I've done in the past and what I would like to do in the future.

    I have one fantasy, where I retire, buy a 40 ft sailboat, sail the Great Lakes and meet a beautiful woman that accompanies me for the summer. We sail all the lakes stopping in little bays to have sex all over the boat, beaches and hiking vistas.

    • Thanks.😊

Most Helpful Girls

  • Most things I fantasize about doing, I hope to someday do them, not all but most of them. Things that I used to think I would never do, the more I fantasize about them the more I think maybe I should, assuming it is realistic and possible.

    • you only live once 😊

  • not really. I’d like to think they are realistic lol

    • are they?

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  • Mostly stuff I would do in real life. I'll just take it further in fantasy than I would be willing to in real life. (I think).

  • I tend to fantasize about past experiences. I find that fantasizing about what I haven't done often times puts a strange stress in the bedroom.

    • I go back to my wild days when sex was casual for me. I wonder how many guys still think about my pussy!

    • @tinydiva1991 you never know!

    • My boyfriend says I make all his buddies hard when I go out! I would love to see for myself ! Lol

  • I have lots of times. Reason why I wouldn't do them is because I'm too emotional for some of them.

    • wdym?

  • Both.

  • I only have one fantasy, and I know I go back to it, is my school boyfriend, we did everything except have sex

  • Both

    • Care to enlighten us with an example of each

    • @dinojames22 haha! 🤐

    • You share I share. 😇

  • I fantasize about things I’ve done while having sex! It’s the best lol

    • What are the things which you’ve done that you USUALLY fantasize about?… 1) ONE, TWO, OR THREE particular things you’ve done with ONE PARTICULAR (“best sex” / fav) sexual partner, or 2) ONE, TWO, OR THREE particular things you’ve done with the CURRENT OR LAST sexual partner, or 3) ONE, TWO, OR THREE particular things you’ve done with multiple people?

  • All the time because I CAN'T do them in real life.

  • Sometimes!

  • Nah, I've done most of all that in my youth.

  • I fantasize about things that are illegal!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • 💯 Yes

    • @lovingjo like what?

    • @brookes that would be telling lol

    • You can pm me them if you want

  • Both. My mind seems to know what is best for my mood at the time.

  • a mix of all that and more for me... things i find hot but likely will never happen or i won't let happen can be wildly erotic to think about while edging

  • I do have some. :)

  • Yes I have sexual fantasies about certain things that I would never do in real life. That chapter in my book of life is - Access Denied.

  • If I fantasize about it, I will probably do it.

  • Can’t it be both?

  • I think both if it was a good fantasize then more then once but maybe a new girl for me or place etc about things I have not done that is also true,, so many things I had the chance to and never did , and some never got that chance wish I did lol,, we are all different right.. just enjoy what ever you think of and have the pleasure of trying.

  • Sometimes I fantasize about if I would of instead of not. Maybe I Will next time

    • Do you have a lot of “I WISH I WOULD HAVE DONE” reflections? And what are the “reflection fantasies” usually like? — maybe… 1) You WISH YOU WOULD HAVE DONE sex stuff when you had the opportunity to do so in the past?; OR 2) Maybe you WISH YOU WOULD HAVE EXPLORED MORE and done more or some sex stuff with certain people in the past but you didn’t?; OR 3) Is it some other type of “if I would of” reflection fantasy that you usually have?

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