Do you feel anal sex is disgusting and repulsive?

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what I really don't get is this male fetish and american sex culture of anal sex.  first of all, the d*** gets feces on it which is just distasteful. second, there's the females complain of pain from this act.  i just feel this act is flithy, intercourse is suppose to be about penis and virgina.  how is anal different from gay sex?  are men who are into doing this to women have some kinda gay sex tendency?is there some kinda weird fetish for male practitioner of this or is this just some intercourse alternative to avoid pregnancy?as a straight male, I just find the whole concept flithy.  how many straight men are into this practice in general? anyone have any idea?

sa230e · Accepted Answer

Well what is normal or clean (as opposed to 'filthy'), anyways? Our feelings about sex, I would argue, are the product of how we were brought up, past experiences and cultural norms than a moral absolute. And sure, you can argue that penile-vaginal intercourse is absolutely normal and right because it's necessary for procreation but that doesn't make other types of sexual contact 'filthy' by default.

How is it different than gay sex? Easy: the man inserts his penis in to a woman's anus, therefore it is heterosexual. Gay sex is gay because both partners are male, not because they're "doing it in ass". Men who enjoy anal aren't weird or gay. The anus simply provides a different sensation to the penis than a vagina does and some men enjoy that. By that logic, you might as well say that masturbation is gay. After all, you're touching a cock. EWWWWW!

While it's true anal sex can be painful for the receiving partner, if it's done properly and with care it shouldn't be painful. With practice and patience, anal sex can be very pleasurable for a woman.

Who are you (or anybody else) to tell someone that their sexual preferences are filthy? As long as nobody is being victimized, both partners are consenting and it's a special expression of love, how is it wrong? For the record, I'm not really into anal at all but I'm open minded about sex and I think there's nothing wrong with it.

Vendrix · Accepted Answer

Some people find sexual practices that are more "forbidden" to be more exciting and can lead to sexual gratification.

Also, I'd like to point out that the anus has and internal and external rectal sphincter separating the rectum from the sigmoid colon (lowest part of large intestine). I know this because I'm a Human Physiology student. Basically it means that until the body gets the involuntary urge to defecate, feces are not stored in the rectum. (But you should still wash after anal sex, or any sex for that matter)

The common complaint of pain by female (or male) recipients is due to lack of care/practice or a rushed attempt. Unlike the vaginal canal the anus is made of much more delicate tissue, as Zarlus said, it can tear if not careful.

That is why care, patients, and lots of lube are necessary.

Although this can be considered p*rn by some, its a very informational video emphasizing the slow delicate process required for proper anal sex. link

peace-love-couture · Accepted Answer

I am not completely closed to anal sex,the only thing putting me off and making me quiver when thinking about it is when I watched the Ava Devine anal prolapse...it has scarred me.

I see nothing wrong with anal sex though.If you're going to have anal sex,you HAVE to understand,poop comes out of there.If you prepare correctly with enema and shower,then there is a possibility poop could end up on the penis,but you have to understand that and accept it.And you wear a condom.

It is a misconception that you can not get pregnant from anal sex.Yes you can.It has happened but it isn't rare.There are time when it "drips" or leaks down but it isn't common obviously.

And it's different from gay sex because the male generally does the female.They want the tight feeling...it's a different sensation than vaginal sex.It's still with a girl,they still like to grab the chicks boobs and rub her clit.

Zarlus · Accepted Answer

Bleh, I would never do that myself o.o; I couldn't D=

AND TO THINK--should something erm, tear there, you have to go to the doctor... Try explaining that one ;D

~I find it icky too, and I told my boyfriend, never ever--and he just nodded and said that he wouldn't ask anyways because well... it's kinda gross xD

I agree with you!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Yeah I really do. The butt is not meant for a penis.

Killfest400 · Answer

Some people really like it, both giving and receiving.  Personally, I don't.  I'll just stick with a vagina.

DodgersGM · Answer

I don't think so, no. I mean, it obviously can be, however it doesn't need to be.

bama_girl89 · Answer

I like anal. There's a certain spot that makes me squirt everytime. Of course I make sure I'm cleaned up in there before the D goes anywhere else. Ha! But I don't prefer it over p*ssy.

kangy · Answer

Painful is what i could think of

cyrus7 · Answer

cant stand it, why would you f*** a poop chute when you could have a warm, soft, tight, p**** ?

Blakej89 · Answer

No I do not

Anonymous · Answer

Let me say this! Anal sex is a perversion for something right, I mean the ideal penis to vagina penetration. God's ideal plan for sex remains plain and fulfilling but as quoted in the Bible, "See, this alone I found, that God made man upright, but they have sought out many schemes."